It's actually quite simple. If you want to live a real "life" and live happily, you must have a solid and full self-belief. You must like and trust yourself, you must feel that you can fully show your true feelings without fear of exposure, you must think that you don't have to hide your true colors, and you must fully understand yourself. Your self-image must truly show the real you. When your self-belief is complete and full, you will have a good feeling and you will feel confident. You are ready to show the world your true colors, and you are very proud of it. You exude the breath of life and deeply participate in life-get happiness from life. When the visible facial defects are reshaped, you must also change your self-image to produce major psychological changes, otherwise this change is only superficial.
So when you sit in the theater and watch yourself perform some essentials revealed by this book on the stage, you should hold a mirror in your hand. Look at yourself in the mirror, look carefully and attentively, and don't be afraid of what you see.
Do you know what to think? See what?
Did you hear someone ask, "Do I want to see myself perform?"
You will see someone with ears, eyes, nose, thighs and arms, but is that all you want to see?
No, you have to look behind these physical characteristics-look at your inner face, emotions, beliefs, and the stranger hidden in your heart, the stranger you can't see in the mirror.
This is your self-belief.
If your self-belief is your enemy, it will use your past failure lessons to destroy you and make you a loser now.
If your confidence is your friend, it will draw confidence from your past achievements and give you the courage to live and grow.
Make friends with yourself. Only in this way can we be happy and have a successful life.
On this stage-in the theater you want, we will perform some plays. You will play the leading role in the play, and your confidence is your friend.
"But," you may say to yourself, "I have no external scars and my face is normal. Do I still need to read this book? "
Of course I know. In the total population of the United States, less than 1% people need plastic surgery, and more than 99% people have normal faces. But many of these 99% people have scars in their hearts-distorted self-image. Most people don't realize this, they are just deceiving themselves.
You will find some practical guidance in this book, which can help you improve your self-image, and some exercises aimed at accelerating your positive change of self-belief. You are going to set yourself some goals you are eager to achieve-success, happiness, friends, money, leisure and other goals-if they are all reasonable goals, you can use the power of psychological fantasy to make them come true.
In order to improve your self-image, you must be willing to use your spiritual strength to engage in these important practical activities. As long as you do these exercises with your heart, you can make a difference. These changes may be a miracle for you. But you must work very hard, get out of the stage in your mind and engage in practical exercises.
Jane fonda, a famous actor, was not born with excellent acting skills. At first, she would forget her lines or mispronounce them, but she never worried or blamed herself for it. Because she knows that excellent acting takes time and effort. As long as she makes unremitting efforts, everything will be smooth.
The great British writer Huxley once wrote: "There is a corner in the universe that you must improve-that is yourself."
This is exactly what we need to do.
It is often heard that when someone encourages someone, they say, "When God closes a window for you, he will open another window for you." For a positive person, just waiting for God to open the window for you is equivalent to consuming the energy of self-growth. So the best way is to open another window by yourself. When one road is impassable, it is necessary to break through the existing predicament and find another way. All roads lead to Rome, and of course all roads lead to success. If you can plan ahead and think about the future direction from all angles, I believe another road will open soon.
Don't limit yourself at all stages of life, keep the flexibility and space for self-growth and thinking, and you can do anything with ease in the future.
In short, there will be opportunities for growth if you break through, and the process of breaking through the negative image is the process of establishing correct beliefs. Don't doubt yourself, others can, and you can. As long as you make up your mind to do it, a successful new situation will open for you!