Do you feel old when the candle on your birthday cake shows 50 years old? Do you feel old when your physical strength is not as good as before? Do you feel old when you find a few white hairs in your hair? When you find that your eyes are beginning to wrinkle, do you feel old ... when did you start to feel old?
I remember watching several kung fu movies, in which there were similar scenes: when the pet princess combed her hair, she found that she had white hair, and immediately realized that her era of pampering herself was over, and then she could only rely on her family or cultivate her power. It sounds far from reality, but literary works come from reality. The reality is that women are really afraid of getting old. Especially beautiful women, which is why many female stars rely on plastic surgery, but they just can't accept it. They have a little wrinkles and even spend most of their money on maintenance.
Aren't men afraid of getting old? I'm scared, too. I've also met men who start dyeing their hair regularly after discovering that they have long white hair. There are also men who have been eating health care products for a long time; There are also men who go for a wrinkle needle. But it turns out that although women generally live longer than men, men are generally older than women.
I am not an old-fashioned person, and I have no rejection of plastic surgery. I don't rule out doing the same thing if conditions permit. But I also saw that many people really saved their years through plastic surgery, but their faces were stiff and expressionless, which really made people feel uncomfortable. For example, Liu Xiaoqing and Ni Ping, although Liu Xiaoqing looks much younger, I still think Ni Ping looks more comfortable. Another example is Wallace Chung, my favorite movie star. I like his charming charm, but recently I saw him on the internet, and his face was obviously wrinkled and thin. Although he is ten years younger, he can even compete with many small meats now, but my affection for him has plummeted.
I prefer to see those old people with gray hair, clean and simple. Maybe it can't be said to be beautiful, but the "quiet years" flow in the cracks of their wrinkles, which makes people feel quiet and serene. This is the sense of security that "old" gives people.
Is it okay to refuse to accept old age? Many people say, forget your age. You know, forgetting your age does not mean that you are not old; Forgetting age refers to a state of mind, but sometimes forgetting age is not necessarily a good thing.
There is an entrepreneur in his early 60 s around me, who is supposed to be an old man. He is optimistic about the sunshine. The pace of going to work every day is not slower than when I was young. Often stay up late, often socialize, 365 days almost all year round. Accidentally caught in the rain and caught a cold. I usually catch a cold occasionally, so I took some cold medicine myself and thought it would be fine to lie down and sleep. For several days, the symptoms not only did not relieve, but worsened, and the fever continued. When he arrived at the hospital, the doctor said that he had a fever of pneumonia, and such a small cold had been bothering him for more than a month. When I saw my friends again more than a month later, they saw that his hair was half white and his face was gaunt, and they thought he had cancer. In fact, what upset him was the cold.
A person's life is a parabolic process, and we have to accept everything that time has given us. Mentality is to make you more active in the face of aging and live the style you should have at this age. Every era has its beauty and unique charm of life.