When two people stay together for a long time, they will get to know each other better and their shortcomings will be exposed. If you are together because of a person's appearance, you will become more and more tired after being together for a long time. When you come home from work, your beautiful wife cooks a meal for you. It seems like a very happy thing, but slowly you will find out how important an interesting soul is. Eating together means eating together. Then she doesn't think it's funny. If you want to laugh twice, you will definitely find it boring. If you eat like this, is it different from eating with beautiful women in the street? This is better!
After dinner, she cleans the kitchen, then sits and watches her TV series, and you do your thing. The two seem to be husband and wife, but in fact they have already separated. If you two have children, and the children live in such an indifferent environment all day, it must be a bad character, fearful and taciturn all day. Do you want your child to become like this?
On the other hand, if you find someone who looks ordinary but has the same world outlook and humorous conversation, your home must be a different scene. After work, she will suddenly give you a surprise, such as giving you a kiss just after entering the door, such as buying your favorite sports shoes, which will make you happier. When you two have dinner together, she will give you your favorite food and ask you about your work.
After having children, you eat together, amuse the children, discuss where to take them to play and take them shopping. You must be an enviable family, and the children will feel the warmth of home.
Weighing the pros and cons, I believe you already know which one to choose.