Statistics show that attractive people are more likely to be loved by their parents and appreciated by their teachers, and people are more willing to be friends with them.
Adams, a professor at Utah State University, said: "From a professional point of view, physical attraction has little effect on men, but the potential impact on women may be considerable. For example, women with attractive women are more likely to get jobs that must be in contact with the public. "
New york University professor Hillman's research pointed out: "The more beautiful a woman is, the more feminine she is usually considered." In any case, it is certain that appearance will affect people's perception. In America, more and more people are undergoing plastic surgery, including more and more men. The arguments that "one can't judge a person by his appearance" and "one can't judge a person by his clothes" are gradually losing their persuasiveness.
American psychologists once invited 68 volunteers to participate in the instrument response test to people, and asked them to talk to four passers-by each, asking pedestrians to support the group they set up to oppose the provision of meat for breakfast and lunch on campus. The results show that those who are handsome and personable are more successful in influencing others' opinions than those who don't pay attention to their appearance.
Therefore, women should grasp their innate advantages of being more attractive than men and make rational use of their appearance in order to get what they want.
Dr. Hillman suggested that beautiful and charming professional women should dress themselves more professionally and efficiently; Women who are not very beautiful should try to find out their own strengths and try to form a certain style.
Sophia loren once said that when she first joined the work, her nickname was "Giraffe". Because she is tall and dull, no one thinks she is beautiful, but she thinks that the list of all the beautiful parts is not equal to beauty itself. Ideal parts and perfect proportions can only remind people of cold ancient Greek statues. A woman should be confident in her appearance, so that she will glow with beauty and pleasure. Everyone felt her confidence and gradually felt that she was beautiful. But there is a woman who is very sensitive to her height, which makes people feel that she wants to be an "invisible person". Naturally, people always think that her height is awkward, and naturally she can't make rational use of her looks.
There is enough literature to prove that beautiful women are not treated as well as those who are plain but suitable for professional women when they expect to be promoted to the position of supervisor.
Reasonable use of appearance means that when it is gentle and charming, it is full of amorous feelings, and when it is solemn, it is dignified; Young women should make themselves natural and pure, and middle-aged women should use their mature charm; Beautiful women are attracted by their figure and appearance, while unattractive women attract people by highlighting their own advantages.
-quoted from Yanbian People's Publishing House "The City of Girls"