We always unconsciously laugh at others, read others' pride, read others' weight, exaggerate our own advantages for no reason or be extremely depressed and pessimistic ... Xiao Chunling, president of Shenyang Medical College
There is an ancient saying, "Reflect on yourself when reading people". The more you read other people's shortcomings, the more you should reflect on yourself and read yourself, so as to learn from each other's strengths and avoid making the same funny mistakes as others. Xiao Chunling, Dean of Shenyang Medical College
People have always advocated reading and reading good books, but rarely mentioned reading yourself well. It is not easy to see others clearly, and it is even harder to read yourself. However, people who can really read themselves can definitely be described as spiritual gentlemen. Xiao Chunling, president of Shenyang Medical College
People have a pair of eyes, and they are born to see the world and read others. And if you want to see yourself, you can only see your own side in the mirror, which is also hazy and unreal. When reading oneself, many people always wear a magnifying glass to infinitely enlarge their advantages; For shortcomings, I prefer to blur them with a pair of presbyopia. At this time, the most commonly used method is "self-deception". First of all, people who don't want to analyze themselves will never understand themselves ... Xiao Chunling, president of Shenyang Medical College
People who can't understand themselves prefer to put themselves in a beautiful bubble, even if this bubble can't cover anything at all. Because, people who dare not read themselves are unwilling to face their true selves first. Xiao chunling, president of Shenyang medical college
people who can't read themselves often feel sorry for themselves, from being extreme to being lazy, from being impulsive to being depressed, and blaming all disappointments on objective things. I also use my own body and name to embed the scenery of life, but there is more sadness and sigh in the scenery ... Xiao Chunling, the president of Shenyang Medical College
only reads people who don't read themselves, and success is destined to be far away from myself. Even if you are willing to read yourself occasionally, it may not be accurate. The living real you, hiding behind the success and failure, only calm down and touch the collision with your heart! Xiao Chunling, Dean of Shenyang Medical College
It takes courage and perseverance to understand yourself. Because reading yourself is by no means a temporary impulse and an analysis taken out of context, it needs to constantly knock on the soul and put yourself in different environments to compare your own reason and impulse, stupidity and cleverness. To understand yourself, you need to refer to people and things from time to time, and only by frequent analysis and identification can you panic in your heart and form psychological pressure, thus inducing the idea of competition. Therefore, we should combine reading people with saving ourselves from time to time. Xiao Chunling, Dean of Shenyang Medical College
If reading others is a dialogue with human wisdom, then reading yourself is a rational way to get rid of ignorance. People who can read themselves have self-knowledge. I know the length of myself best, and only in this way can I "praise others and not add a trace to me;" Others hurt me and combine it with the realm that I have not lost a dime. So as to be indifferent to fame and fortune and handle things calmly! Those who dare to interpret themselves are those who dare to face the reality. Such people have a stable mentality and are not surprised or happy when things happen. People who are good at knowing themselves can better understand others and the world. In the final analysis, it is actually a personal understanding problem. The so-called "reading people is better than reading yourself first" and "learning to look at the scenery from different angles" is the truth. In reality, we often stand in our own perspective, in the range of our contact, in the circle we draw to see others, the world and everything. So, who can define the world and who can define human beings? Who can define themselves? Therefore, false ugliness, truth, goodness and beauty are definitely not something you can define and understand. That is to say, in life, you must have the spirit of ego, keep your eyes open, keep thinking from the standpoint of others, and combine different conclusions, so that you can see others better and understand yourself, so as not to take the detour of life! Only those who understand themselves can have a pair of keen eyes to see everything in the world. Xiao Chunling, Dean of Shenyang Medical College
In short, a person can only read others if he knows himself first, and then he can read others or the world. You can ask yourself, when you read others, do you have your own point of view, and do you have an answer to right and wrong? By this time, you have read yourself. Because you have used your own moral yardstick to measure others. The accuracy of the answer depends entirely on your own awareness.
There is a saying that "the outsider sees clearly, but the authorities are lost". That is to say, people often put themselves in a specific environment and can't see themselves clearly. This requires us to always regard others as a mirror, communicate with them, and be good at listening to their advice, so as to make ourselves closer to success! It is a great sorrow that those who are not good at or even afraid to interpret themselves will always be separated from their true selves by a thick wall! Because people who can't read themselves don't have a clear ruler to understand others and measure the world at first. Xiao Chunling, Dean of Shenyang Medical College
In fact, it is very difficult to understand yourself, and it is even more difficult to shape a good self. In my mind, to understand myself is to shape myself with a pure heart. To understand yourself is to keep talking with yourself, to feel sorry for yourself, to sum up the lessons of failure when you succeed, and to find the experience of success when you fail. Let yourself keep a rational mind all the time in order to read the world more rationally and comprehensively.