Is it useful for the little girl to look good? Useful!
Many people say that now is the "era of looking at faces", and face value is very important. It must be said that being good-looking is indeed an advantage, because people's appreciation of beauty is an instinct. Being pleasing to the eye can not only make you more confident, but also add points to others' first impression.
I discussed in Zhihu before: Is Yan value really that important? Many answers are quite interesting. "The same is the Internet giant, Li Yanhong is her husband, and Ma Yun can only be a father; If ugliness is really not a disease, then why should a cosmetic hospital be called a hospital? ..... "There is no denying that face value is very important.
Is it useful for the little girl to look good? useless
Good-looking, high-valued, and more stylish. If this determines the beginning of everything, then a person's inner quality determines whether he can continue. Good-looking is only a temporary novelty, but good internal quality will provide lasting goodwill. Foreign things pay attention to the shelf life, you know? !
A netizen commented: "You can't be 18 years old forever, but there will always be someone 18 years old, so it is most important to read more books to increase the connotation." Yes, how can time pass without leaving a trace on my face? Just more or less. But the inside will not wrinkle and decline with the years, but will only be richer, fuller and more attractive.
From the mother's point of view, it is undoubtedly wise to educate and guide the children. Because the appearance is hereditary, but the connotation can be cultivated the day after tomorrow. We can't decide the innate arrangement, but we can make up for it with the sublimation of the day after tomorrow.
I was deeply impressed by an article that emphasized the importance of a person's "mental outlook", which is an intangible ability that determines a person's spiritual strength. In a sense, this mental outlook coincides with this mother's educational philosophy, and both emphasize the importance and preciousness of one's inner cultivation. There is a saying that "each other is born from the heart." A person's internal quality and accomplishment largely determine the external image and style, which will be displayed in the eyes of the world through appearance.
I think the success of this mother's educational guidance is not only to instill correct ideas in her children, but more importantly, she also sets an example for her children. Therefore, education is no longer a blunt instruction language, but a warm way of companionship.
Although the mother in the video is very tired, it can be seen that she looks good, and the reason why the mother frowns and rubs her eyes during video recording is that she is too tired, but she doesn't want to break the night reading habit agreed with her children. Mother posted a lot of post-it notes on the bedside, which should be a lot of random excerpts and reading comprehension when reading. She is not educating with ideas, but influencing with actions, which is lacking in the process of many parents' education.
I remember seeing Dong Qing say this in an interview before: "What kind of person do you want your child to be?"? It's simple. You just need to be that person first. " Action is inspiring. When you insist on doing something, it will inevitably affect your children. The power of such an "example" is better than thousands of famous educational sayings.
Love children, starting with loving yourself. Educating children also begins with educating themselves.