Girls who are "detail-oriented" are more difficult to chase, because they won't say anything to you, but they will have a score for everyone in their heart, and this score will make her evaluate a person. People's standards, and this score comes from the various details of your daily life. If you pay attention to the details in all aspects, then your score will naturally be very high. If you don't pay attention to the details, I believe it will be difficult to chase her.
First of all, if you want to pursue a girl who is "detail-oriented", then you must learn to pay attention to details. This is inevitable. There are many more details. I can tell you roughly what they are, but you have to develop a habit of paying attention to details, because this is a long-term solution. You can't write down all kinds of details in a notebook every day. Then memorize it. Only by developing a habit can you think about things more naturally.
Details are also divided into life details and psychological details. Let’s talk about the details of life first. Generally, boys are more careless and it is difficult to see the details of life, while girls are more careless. They are very careful and care about the details in life. Although they are opposites, they complement each other, so living together is a kind of harmony. However, some girls don’t like boys’ carelessness and lack of attention to details, and this type of thing is what girls believe in. That is, details determine everything. Whether a person is good or not depends on the details.
The first is that when eating, there are many details on the dining table. For example, before a girl cooks, you have to help her pull out her chair, take out her tableware and rinse it with hot water. Then when ordering something, you must know his appetite, order some of his favorite food, and tear open the napkin bag thoughtfully. If there is no water or drink to help, you can help him pick up the food, but if the other person doesn't like you taking the initiative to pick up the food, then don't It depends on the person. When leaving, help her check if she has left anything behind, put her and his chairs in, etc. There are many more.
When going out for a date, if she is weak, remember to bring a few pieces of delicious fruit candies with you when the weather is hot. You can also bring them with you even at ordinary times. There is no harm. You should prepare a strategy before playing. Don't take the wrong path. Help her carry her bag, unscrew the cap of the water bottle, and be sure to bring some tissues with you. She will definitely need them when eating snacks, drinking water, etc. Note that if she is tired, find a place to rest for a while. Don't You don't know until she starts talking that she is tired. You have to observe by yourself. When you go home at night, you should also have some small gifts, whether they are brought by yourself or bought at a place where you play. Send her home safely and watch her go upstairs before leaving.
If you chat on WeChat or QQ, you should also pay attention to your wording, but don’t reply slowly. This is also a detail. You can guess whether she has eaten or not through her words. If she has not eaten, ask her If you haven’t eaten yet, invite her to have a meal or deliver it to her, talk more humorously, and tell her to go to bed at a certain time in the evening and not stay up late. Let her rest. You can deliver some breakfast the next day. But be sure not to be greasy, and then tell her that making a list in the morning is good for the body, and there are a lot of them in it, so she can share them with her roommates. This will make her feel that you are very attentive, not only thinking about the light breakfast but also remembering to buy it for your roommate.
In fact, it is impossible to learn all these details at once. You only need to pay more attention to them at ordinary times. Remember some details at the beginning. It will become easier as you slowly become a habit, and then you won’t have to use them anymore. If you pay attention deliberately, your habits will help you notice a lot of details, so as long as you persist, it is not difficult, and I think girls who like to see details know how to care about people better, which is very good.