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My sister-in-law didn't give her mother-in-law a penny after she got married. Now she wants to take her mother-in-law for the New Year, and I refused. Is there something wrong?
Many people are unhappy in marriage, not only because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also because of the relationship between sister-in-law. The harmony of a family is inseparable from everyone. Filial piety to the elderly is what we should do, not for the benefit.

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Wang Xuan's husband's family conditions are average. He is a rural guy, and his name is Liu Zhi. Liu Zhi's job is ordinary and his salary is not high. Although Wang Xuan is also a rural girl, her family condition is better than that of Liu Zhijia. Herry Liu is also a poor man, and the whole family depends on him. Although there is still room for planting at home, my sister is still at school, and my mother has to take care of her father who has been sick all the year round. Wang Xuan knew the conditions of Herry Liu's family, but thought Herry Liu was a simple and honest man and finally married him. Wang Xuan is a very loyal person. After getting married, she took out her own money to let Liu Zhi do business. Liu Zhi opened a small shop, and the business is not bad. After a few years, the two also saved some money. At this time, my sister-in-law also began to look for a job.

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Wang Xuan never liked her sister-in-law, because Herry Liu took all her money for school, but her sister-in-law didn't show any gratitude and took it for granted. Sister-in-law finds a good job with high salary. She also met a rich man, and they got married soon. When Xiaoguzi got married, Wang Xuan and her husband took 30 thousand yuan, but she still felt it was too little. Wang Xuan felt that her sister-in-law didn't understand gratitude at all. She hasn't bought anything for Wang Xuan and Wang Zhi since she worked. Wang Xuan is not that kind of material girl. She just thinks that her sister-in-law is too ignorant. At least she should express it. After all, for so many years, Liu Zhi has been making money for her school, but she doesn't know how to be grateful. During the Chinese New Year, my sister-in-law came home and said that she would take her parents to live in the city, and they would come to support the elderly in the future. Wang Xuan and Liu Zhi are very pleased and feel that their sister-in-law is finally sensible.

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Wang Xuan never imagined that her sister-in-law had ulterior motives. The village chief came to see the house. It turned out that the land was taken by the developer. Build some buildings here, and your mother-in-law's house demolition can get 650 thousand. Wang Xuan and Herry Liu are very happy. They think they can buy a house in the city and use the money to pay the down payment. However, it suddenly occurred to Wang Xuan that her sister-in-law must know about it. She brought her parents here, definitely trying to move the money. She immediately asked her mother-in-law. Unsurprisingly, her mother-in-law had already planned to give money to her sister-in-law, because her sister-in-law said that she would support the elderly. Wang Xuan called her sister-in-law and refused to let her in-laws go to her house. Her sister-in-law can do nothing.

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Filial piety to the elderly is a traditional Chinese virtue, but if it is filial piety with ulterior motives, it is not worth advocating. Sister-in-law is obviously an unfilial person, and suddenly she is willing to support her parents. There must be something wrong. She did it for the demolition money. Filial piety to the elderly is the responsibility of children, and such a thing should not be done for one's own selfish desires. Wang Xuan did nothing wrong. She should refuse her sister-in-law's request.