20 19, TVB has a hard time because of Xiaohua's negative news.

First Xu Zhian and Huang Xinying, then Yao Ziling became the fourth person, and Natalie Tong was forced to break up with Playboy.

Today, let's talk about why many good girls always wrestle on the emotional road when they meet people.

My friend Yue Er is 33 years old and still single. She is really worried about her parents and herself. But when it comes to the emotional path of the moon, she is really full of bitterness and keeps pace with Natalie Tong.

Yueer's family is well-off, with a bachelor's degree and a small and elegant appearance. Although her work income is not high, she is stable. In short, Yueer is a girl with good conditions in all aspects.

But because the moon is a little over twenty, all the men I meet are love rat.

Moon's first boyfriend is a senior in college. After graduating from senior year, I met a girl who was more interested in the society and hit it off, and then moved on, so I broke up.

The moon despises the scene in which two women fight for a man. She thought it was good for such a man to break up, so she agreed.

Unexpectedly, from then on, all the men the moon met were lovers with several boats and love rat.

Many years later, Moon recalled, "If I had known that I had robbed my brother of his first love, maybe it would be different now."

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Yueer is a standard post-80s girl, the only daughter in the family, who was lovingly raised by her parents since childhood. Moreover, the post-80s girls have been conflicted by many new ideas, so they are relatively independent, and the girls in the city are not realistic.

Therefore, since childhood, Moon has never regarded money and looks as the criteria for finding a boyfriend. The boyfriends she is looking for are almost the same as her family, and even many are boys who are not as good as her.

Although there is no financial requirement, Yue Er has the independent spirit of girls born in 1980s, but emotionally, Yue Er is very persistent in being a "good girl".

What is a "good girl?"

It is the kind that has many life skills in life, does housework well, is emotionally single-minded, attaches great importance to her boyfriend and family, and asks for nothing in return.

Under the cover of independent women, Yueer is also a good girl with the characteristics of a good wife and a good mother.

However, to Moon's disappointment, every boyfriend never cherished her, but felt that she was not her ideal lover and hurt her again and again with her "virtuous" personality.

Over and over again, after breaking up with her fourth boyfriend, Moon never wanted to fall in love again.

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When friends get together, the moon is always asking questions in pain. What did she do wrong? Why doesn't every relationship end well?

Why does she want to get married but can't? Why are so many girls worse than her married and have children? Why does she just have no marriage partner? What happened to her?

Another male friend hit the nail on the head and said, "You just want to get married too much, but you can't keep a low profile. You care too much about what others think of you, so you have been playing a good woman. But sometimes men don't need good women, they need women who can control them, so you have no result. "

We quite agree with this male friend's point of view.

The post-80s girls are born with a sense of contradiction and have no solution.

The moon is really a good girl, with good conditions in all aspects. She is worried that others will say that she is vain and wants to find a rich boyfriend, so she always finds a boy with the same conditions as her who works hard in the city. She is worried that others will say that she is a snob, so she has never had any material needs for her boyfriend; She is worried that others will say that she is not virtuous, so she does housework and learns to cook in her spare time.

She has too many troubles and burdens. She thinks that as long as she does well, there will be a good marriage waiting for her.

However, reality always hits the face. I didn't expect boys nowadays to think that such girls are not what they want.

In a blink of an eye, now Yueyue is 33 years old, and there is almost no advantage in the marriage market in a third-and fifth-tier city in China.

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I can't help thinking of Yao Ziling and Natalie Tong. They were all born in the 1980s. They are also good girls in the traditional sense. Their boyfriends cheated on each other, and they all chose to forgive.

They didn't choose the rich and powerful second generation, but all found elite men who struggled on their own.

They are much better than the moon, rich and have a career foundation, but they are emotionally the same, and they can't plan their own marriage in their forties.

In fact, on the road of feelings, women don't care about good or bad, just don't let themselves be too heavy.

What a woman has to do is take care of herself, and that's all. Why should she care about other people's opinions and comments?

As long as you don't be a mistress and do no harm to others, why do you have to be a mistress only in the Qing Dynasty?

Whenever I ask my husband to show me his mobile phone, he laughs like a flower and shows it to me happily; Whenever I maliciously warn my husband not to be half-hearted, my husband is extremely happy because he is valued by his wife.

Of course, the frequency of this evil is about once a month. After all, "I'm tired of acting."

Therefore, there is nothing wrong with a good woman. There is no good result because she cares too much about other people's opinions and despises her own dignity.

A good woman is not virtuous, but self-esteem. I wish all the girls who are single and eager for love find their own happiness as soon as possible.