Home is such a beautiful word. Just thinking about it makes people feel beautiful, such as bathing in the morning sunshine. More like a starry sky, illuminating the darkest road.

Only at home can a heart settle down and a nervous mood be relaxed. Comfortable, cozy, warm, all beautiful words can't compare with home.

However, there are also some people who suffer misfortunes every day and live like years. Not only can't feel at ease, but it is like falling into hell and having a nightmare that will never wake up.

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Recently, a woman's domestic violence incident rushed to the hot search, which was shocking.

In a hospital in Shaowu, Yang Fang has been in a coma for 63 days. He has had two craniotomy operations and can only rely on a ventilator to maintain his life. And the culprit of all this is her intimate husband.

According to Yang Fang's son, that day, my father grabbed my mother's head and slammed it against the wall. For decades, my father hit my mother dozens of times, my nose was broken many times and I was in a coma countless times.

This time, Yang Fang's skull was broken. Although many skulls were removed, he was still in a coma.

After being beaten, Yang Fang's husband tried to commit suicide. However, he just grazed the blood vessels in his head. Hit people hard, but go easy on yourself. At present, he has been sent to a mental hospital, but his son thinks that his father is not mentally ill.

Yang Fang suffered from domestic violence for decades, but never fought back. And her husband, not only unrepentant, but also intensified, hitting harder every time.

Born as a man, we must first learn to protect ourselves and live with dignity. You are nobody's accessory. In marriage, everyone is equal and no one is superior. Only by respecting and caring for each other, respecting and understanding each other can happiness be achieved.

Endure humiliation will only encourage the other person's arrogance and make him more and more unscrupulous, thinking that he is superior and that you are weak and will never resist.

It is this weakness that gives him the opportunity to abuse it and makes him more and more daring and unscrupulous.

Hundreds of domestic violence at a time. Your forbearance is not to complete a family, but to accelerate its disintegration. On the contrary, it will bring more disasters, and finally the family will be ruined and irreparable.

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Recently, a video of a bridegroom tearing up his wedding vows in Guangdong has been hotly searched. Here's the thing.

On the wedding day, the bride wrote her wedding vows on a piece of paper. When the groom came to marry the bride, the bride asked the groom to read the wedding vows.

The groom said, I can't do it. Then he stood up, tore up the paper with the oath written on it, and then asked the bride angrily, will you marry? The scene suddenly fell into embarrassment.

Marriage is a major event in life, and it is also a commitment and expectation for a lover's life. If it is difficult to control your temper in such a festive atmosphere, you can imagine the future.

A man who knows everything and etiquette will never lose his temper in such a grand scene, let alone lose his temper because of a little thing, let his beloved be at a loss, and let the marriage hide a crisis from the beginning.

Love is beautiful. If you are too angry, it will ruin your marriage, hurt your lover, make your family smoky and make the future full of dark clouds.

A man with a bad temper is not without traces. When getting along, some trivial things are enough to expose him and show his true colors.

People who are gloomy and irritable have poor psychological endurance, and even a small matter will develop into irreconcilable contradictions in their eyes.

Because there is nowhere to vent, they will vent their anger on their families, which is also a manifestation of their incompetence.

A capable person will never beat his wife; Only cowards lose their temper.

Once you stand up bravely to protect your dignity and show your strong side, they will show their true colors.

In the face of domestic violence, we should have the courage to say no, no respect for marriage, let it be.

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A netizen shared his neighbor's experience.

There are two children in the neighbor's house, and his wife is often beaten. The children are teenagers, but the husband still goes his own way. If he is slightly unhappy, he will beat his wife.

Not only that, the husband also found a woman outside and didn't even come home.

The child grew up, and one day the husband suddenly came home, hoping that everything would start all over again.

When the two children saw their father, they immediately rushed up and beat him up. 120 When he came to pick him up, the child warned him that he would hit you when you came back.

Father really never came back. I used to be bullish and beat my wife when I was unhappy, but now I finally tasted the bitter fruit I brewed.

All the mistakes you made are waiting for you one day in the future, making you pay the price and be punished.

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The best relationship between husband and wife is mutual humility, mutual respect and sincere communication. You respect me and I love you.

Beating your wife to death is the ugliest act.

In order to show your prestige and hit the person you love the most, in fact, you are the most pathetic person. After losing the last warmth, there is only terror and fear at home, and everyone can't be alone.

Being in an environment where chickens fly and dogs jump, facing chicken feathers everywhere, and not feeling the taste of happiness is a kind of sadness.

Yang Fang's husband beat his wife into ICU, attempted suicide, and was sent to a mental hospital to escape legal trial;

The groom tore up his wedding vows and left a shadow in his wedding date. The road ahead is long and unknown.

The netizen neighbor beat his wife and was sent to the hospital by his son, which made No Country for Old Men.

Domestic violence, it seems that others are injured, in fact, it is oneself who pays the price.

You have a future, because you sow different seeds and you will reap different results.

Warm and caring for your family will definitely make happiness come; If you treat your wife as a thorn in your side, you can only lose both sides.

Domestic violence is not only the motive force to destroy marriage, but also the poison to destroy oneself.