Thinking is an exploratory activity of thinking, and thinking power is a positive and creative force generated in the thinking process. I have compiled a narrative essay on learning to think and write for you. I hope it will be helpful for your reference. Chapter 1: Learn to think from someone else’s perspective

Thinking from someone else’s perspective is a virtue and also a kind of wisdom in life! To put yourself in someone else's shoes, you need to be strict with yourself and treat others with kindness. No matter how prominent or humble your status is, you can always find a mirror to compare yourself with.

Empathy is also a manifestation of understanding others; in our study, there will inevitably be some contradictions or conflicts between classmates and teachers. Maybe you will only complain about other people’s mistakes; in fact, you Think about it from another angle, look for your own shortcomings, your own mistakes, and find the reasons. Once found, the resentment is gone, and those contradictions and conflicts are easily resolved. In fact, being able to think more about others, be more tolerant and understanding when things happen is conducive to communication and understanding between people. Therefore, it is necessary for each of us to regard perspective-taking as the most basic way of thinking.

Learning to think differently, learning to adapt to original thinking, and learning to understand others allow us to break through original habits and solve things that cannot be solved under conventional thinking. Learn to put yourself in others’ shoes and feel the psychological needs of others; learn to put yourself in others’ shoes and feel the emotions of others. Learning to put ourselves in someone else’s shoes also allows us to appreciate the strengths of others and give them positive encouragement. Make the group harmonious and united. In fact, empathy can also help us separate ourselves from mediocrity and make ourselves outstanding. If someone asks, how do you learn to think from others’ perspective while studying? I think:

You must have a broad mind. Don't defend yourself when you are misunderstood by others, because there is no excuse; don't affect your emotions, because you must use practical actions to prove yourself and eliminate other people's misunderstandings of yourself. When friction occurs in your study and life, you should think from the perspective of others, so that you can control your own emotions and understand the other person's feelings. Be more tolerant, maybe your opponent is your friend!

Learn to understand others. If you say this is easy to do, you are wrong. Understand, it is easy to say, but difficult to do. Because everyone has their own outlook on life and values, their own ideas will be different from other people's ideas. Only by empathizing can you truly understand the other person's point of view. Only when you understand can you communicate, and you can get twice the result with half the effort! You must also cultivate an awareness of the overall situation. When you think the teacher's criticism is wrong, don't refute hastily. Think calmly. You must establish an awareness of the overall situation, think about problems from multiple angles, accept criticism proactively and sincerely, and have the courage to self-criticize.

In short, empathy is the ladder of our progress. If you encounter anything, think from a different angle and reflect on yourself. You will avoid detours in your future life and study, and perhaps find solutions in the future. When you work, you will be even better! Chapter 2: Learn to put yourself in someone else’s shoes

In the past, I was willful and arrogant, and would never consider others. Maybe that’s why I was not very popular and no one wanted to make friends with me. However, after After that incident, I finally learned to think differently. I remember it was a dark day when I was playing at my grandma’s house. "Cuckoo..." "Ouch, I'm hungry, grandma, help me cook a bowl of dumplings!" I said to grandma who was sweeping the floor. "Oh, okay!" Grandma smiled and walked into the kitchen slowly. Soon, she brought out a bowl of dumplings. "Oh, why did you bring it out? Put it on the table inside!" I don't know why, but a sudden anger rose in my heart, so I walked into the room and sat down. Grandma walked in with one hand supporting her rheumatic waist and a bowl in the other. "Then I'm going out." Grandma's tone was still so calm. "Go ahead!" I said impatiently. I picked up the bowl and started eating, "Hey - it's so bland!" I walked into the kitchen to put salt in it, but I couldn't find it after searching for a long time. "Grandma - where is the salt?" I shouted to the door. After waiting for a while, there was no movement. I shouted again: "Grandma - come in!" "Come out." After a long time, grandma replied. "Humph, you won't even come to put the salt in for me. What do you mean?" I couldn't hold back the resentment in my heart and walked upstairs angrily. "Ignore her!" I thought, and didn't go down to eat dumplings anymore.

When it was time for dinner, I went downstairs and grandma was cooking. She also seemed to be possessed by an evil spirit and ignored me. After a while, I heard her muttering in a low voice: "I've heard that she has a bad temper, but I didn't expect it to be so bad! I always love her so much, I'm really blind." I said angrily: "You have a good temper, good "I don't want to put any salt in my mouth!" "My ears are not good, and I can't hear." Grandma also started arguing with me. "I told you to come in, why didn't you come in!" I became more and more angry. "I just finished sweeping the floor, and I have to help you cook dumplings. It's not like you don't know that my waist is not good, so of course I need to rest." Grandma expressed her difficulties. After hearing this, my heart was already in turmoil: According to what grandma said, the whole thing was my fault, and grandma would not lie. I have always been proud and savage, no wonder my friends left me one by one.

Many things are actually irreparable faults caused by my willfulness, aren't they?

I suddenly realized that what I really need to change is that I never think about others! I said to my grandma apologetically: "Grandma, I was wrong, please forgive me!" Grandma playfully scratched my nose and smiled. Chapter 3: Empathy

In the first class this afternoon, Teacher Chen walked into the classroom, holding a pile of test papers. The students were very excited when they saw the test paper. The teacher reported the top ten students, handed out the test papers, and explained them one by one.

The end of get out of class bell rang. Teacher Chen asked everyone whether the other test paper would be distributed on Monday or today. Everyone agreed that it would be released on Monday. Teacher Chen said in a calm tone: "You are also in fifth grade, and it's time to tell you your review plan." The class was silent. Teacher Chen then finished the review plan and said to everyone: "If you go according to your plan, then the last test paper will not be covered." Lin Hao, the "naughty bag" in the class, said: "I'm exhausted today! I'll do it again on Monday." Speak!” The students expressed their opinions and talked endlessly, saying that if they talked today, they would be exhausted. Everyone has not realized the hard work of the teacher at all.

Where is Teacher Chen? He became angry on the podium and said angrily: "You guys go and have a rest!" As soon as he finished speaking, he hurried away. In the second class, just after doing eye exercises, Teacher Chen came in. Teacher Chen immediately gave us a smile, which surprised us. Teacher Chen said with a smile: "When I think of you...so, I will give you free activities in this class!" Several naughty students were overjoyed. But Teacher Chen immediately changed his expression and said to us: "But you have 10 minutes to arrange seats." "No problem!" the students said in unison. But every class was used to arrange seats.

After I got home from school, I immediately called Teacher Chen. "Hello, Teacher Chen? I'm Enyang." "Yes. What's the matter?" "I feel like your second period is a little strange." Teacher Chen asked: "Me? What's wrong?" "Your first period?" The class was still very angry, and it was like he was a different person in the second class. "Oh," Teacher Chen smiled. "That's because I put myself in someone else's shoes!"

"What? Thinking in someone else's shoes?" I didn't understand. "Putting yourself in someone else's shoes means thinking from someone else's point of view. I stand in your shoes and find that you are very tired." "Oh, that's it!" I realized the truth. After we finished talking, I discovered that if you think from someone else's perspective, you will think more comprehensively. Chapter 4: Putting yourself in others’ shoes

In life, many times we need to put ourselves in others’ shoes to consider problems. Putting ourselves in someone else's shoes can help us understand more and misunderstand less; be more rational and less blind... Whenever we deal with others, we should put ourselves in someone else's shoes and think about whether it is correct to do so.

Once upon a time, there was a very introverted girl in my class. Because her health is not very good and she often gets sick, she seems to have closed herself off. She is afraid of talking to others and usually spends her time alone in silence. In our class, she almost ceased to exist, because some people in our class would laugh at her and would not talk to her, get close to her, or be friends with her. I have behaved like this in the past, but now I regret it and I really want to say sorry to her. Because now, I deeply understand what empathy is. Just try to see things from someone else’s perspective. If you are like this and others laugh at you and stop being friends with you, what will happen to you? You must feel inferior and sad in your heart! So when you laugh at someone, have you ever thought about it like this? No, otherwise, I wouldn’t do these things! In a text I recently learned - "Lao Wang", I was deeply touched. Lao Wang was a very poor ordinary man. His life experience was very unfortunate, but the author did not look down on him like other people. , unwilling to help him. Instead, give him help because he has the idea of ????treating others as equals in his heart. If you are such an unfortunate person, you will definitely want a little bit of sincere help from others. Therefore, we, too, should always put ourselves in someone else's shoes, so that it is fair to ourselves and others.

In our real life, there are many, many similar problems that require us to think differently. For example, some sellers use all means to deceive people in order to gain benefits. So, for those selfish sellers, what would you do if you were the one who was deceived? Also, none of us will be perfect. There will always be some disabled people with physical defects in society, but some people will dislike them and exclude them. So, let me ask you, if you are so unfortunate to become What about people with disabilities? How would you feel. In short, in one sentence, if each of us would think differently, I believe the world would be a better place. Chapter 5: I learned to think from others’ perspective

During my primary school career, I learned a lot, including folding quilts, riding a bicycle, using computers, thinking from others’ perspective, washing vegetables, etc. But what impressed me most was “putting yourself in someone else’s shoes.”

It was when I was in sixth grade. One morning during a class break, I didn't even have time to pack up a textbook on the desk, so I habitually took out an extracurricular book from my schoolbag and enjoyed it with relish. I don’t even know what the classmates around me are doing.

When I was swimming carefree in the ocean of knowledge, a "bang" brought me back to reality. I calmed down and then observed the people around me. and things. My deskmate was bending down to pick up my pen that fell on the ground. When I was about to say thank you, I found that my pen was completely unrecognizable: the transparent and flawless pen cap was covered with wrinkles and was covered with blue. Black pen water. I suppressed the anger in my heart and asked: "What's going on?" My deskmate replied hesitantly: "I'm sorry, I just ran over there and accidentally bumped into your table and knocked the pen off accidentally. I stepped on him, sorry." I stood up and shouted angrily: "Don't you know you can't chase and fight in the classroom?" "I'm sorry, I ran because of something urgent. How about I buy a new one and pay it to you?" When I wanted to say something else, class was already in session.

In class, I didn’t listen to anything and was still thinking about what just happened. Suddenly, something my father once said came to my mind: When others make mistakes, you should look at the matter from their perspective and make the most fair finishing work. Thinking about it, I felt ashamed of my behavior. He didn't mean it, but why should I be so unforgiving? After class, my deskmate apologized to me again and again, saying that he would give me a new one immediately because he came in the afternoon.

I smiled and said, "No, you didn't mean it. Just pretend that I never had that pen!" "Aren't you angry?" He asked timidly. "If you don't get angry, who won't make mistakes? As long as the other person didn't mean it and it's excusable if you put yourself in the other person's situation, you don't have to worry about it." I answered readily. After hearing this, he happily went to play. As long as you, me, him, everyone uses empathy to think about what others say, there will be no hatred in the world, and we will all live in the paradise of love! Chapter 6: I learned to think about life

There is a sentence in "Today's Last": "In the philosophy of life, looking forward to tomorrow and remembering the past are two sides of the gold coin. The difference is that maybe the old man They tend to lean towards the past, while young people yearn for the future, but few pick up a gold coin and look at both sides.” In school, as physical education students, we have a fulfilling life in addition to attending classes and training. However, we still face a "disease" that has troubled all previous physical education students: cultural classes. (Of course, except for individual sports students) Recently, what has kept me calm for a long time is undoubtedly the problem of cultural classes. Except for Chinese and chemistry classes, which I can barely understand (except for liberal arts), the rest are astronomical letters to me

However, I am lucky, Sister Yan (the head teacher) adjusted it for me I have the best deskmate in the world: Jiang Tiyu (you didn’t say I couldn’t write my real name). Sitting with him, I kept regaining my focus on studying. (I won’t talk about the specific incident yet)

Once, I thought that I was a child who would never grow up. There were still many jokes that I had not told and many games that I had not played. We still have concerns in our hearts that we haven’t had time to express. However, I don’t know which day, I was suddenly pulled desperately by time, and I hurriedly said goodbye to my childishness. Prime Minister Li said: "If you want to achieve anything, you must always make a possible choice between ideals and reality.

Frustration always makes people confused. Is the dream that I have established worthy of recognition? Do you want to keep going? How do you overcome setbacks? How do you reposition yourself? Faced with this, I think of Hawking. The shadow of God does not cover his heart, so my pain is nothing. What about high school life? There are always many hesitations, such as the conflict between ignorant love and close friends.

Everyone will be at a loss at different stages. When there is some confusion in our thinking, we need to think calmly and reflect deeply on ourselves; and during the reflection process, we need to think calmly and reflect deeply on ourselves. In this way, you need to conduct an in-depth analysis of your inner world from an objective perspective. In this way, you can continuously improve your thoughts, understand things more clearly, and express your emotions better. Here, I suddenly remembered what Zhuge Liang said: "My heart is like what I said, and I will not be moved by others." It is with such comprehensive, calm, and rational wisdom that there is a good story about burning Red Cliff. We need to look up to the stars and keep our feet on the ground, and learn to open up. The other side of the gold coin. Chapter 7: Putting yourself in someone else’s shoes

My teacher signed up for a Baidu Know team and invited me to join, so I embarked on a journey to answer questions on Baidu Know. Whenever some simple knowledge I know is adopted or recommended by the questioner, I will feel very happy and have a sense of accomplishment, haha. A recent answer made me realize the importance of empathy.

After finishing my homework, I habitually browse the Baidu team to see if there are any questions I can answer.

As a result, I saw a question from a netizen: Use Draw a Circle and hold down the key to draw a circle that looks like an ellipse. If you know, please help me. It’s urgent. At the back are screenshots of the circles he drew using the software.

I’m a little surprised. The circle is obviously a perfect circle, so why does it become an ellipse? So I asked him whether the width and height data in the attributes are the same? "The width and height data are the same, but it still shows an ellipse." The person who asked the question was a little anxious and took a screenshot to prove it, but the circle he said was a perfect circle looked like an ellipse to me. "Isn't that a perfect circle? Have you ever seen that the width and height of an ellipse are about the same size?" I was also a little anxious, thinking why is this person like this? Is he teasing or teasing others? It's obviously a perfect circle. Is there something wrong with my eyes? It’s a perfect circle no matter which eye you use. How could there be such an unreasonable person? He was really unreasonable and asked again: "Is this a perfect circle? It's obviously an ellipse. Please look at it clearly!!

I'm really pissed off. Is there something wrong with my eyes? Another netizen who answered the question also said that it is a perfect circle. What is going on? The person who asked the question seems not to be teasing, otherwise why would he keep asking? , because the browser I was using was too lazy to upgrade, and the website didn’t quite support the browser I was using, so the avatar of the hut showed one eye with a big eye and one with a small eye. I didn’t know that at the time, so I asked. Brother, my brother went to my cabin to take a look and sent me a screenshot and said it was normal. I was confused and explained that one eye is big and the other is small. How come it looks normal to you? Later, the teacher helped me change it. The browser showed the avatar of my cabin normally.

I quickly asked the teacher, and the teacher said it was probably a problem with the monitor’s resolution. Oh, it turned out that it was fine. So, I quickly told him some of the resolution setting data from others, and then gave him a screenshot of the screen resolution data on my computer for reference. So, when you encounter someone who insists on your own point of view, When you don’t understand something, you must put yourself in someone else’s shoes and analyze it from someone else’s point of view. Then you will understand why he insists on his own point of view. This will not only help others, but also avoid misunderstandings, and you can also learn something. New knowledge really kills three birds with one stone.