In the process of raising, if you can be accompanied by your father and play the role of role model and spiritual mentor, your son's future path will often go smoother.
The gap between boys with fathers and boys without fathers is obvious:
Our son Leo is now in a large kindergarten class. Among the classmates, there are also five boys who live in the same neighborhood as us. These six boys often hang out together and have a good relationship.
City dad is the father who can take care of children best. He often takes a group of boys to play football and table tennis in the community. Under the influence of his father, the mayor became the most leading, powerful, confident, sunny and popular backbone among them.
Among these boys, Sensen's father is the busiest, leaving early and returning late, and spending little time with his son. Sensen's grandmother and mother took Sensen with them. Sensen has grown into a very soft and sensitive boy with strong emotional ability. If a friend is in a bad mood, he is always with him to listen and comfort him. Children and parents also like Sensen.
However, Sensen's mother is worried. She feels that Sensen lacks some masculinity, cowardice and crying, and lacks some wildness and wolf.
A few days ago, several boys made an appointment to play table tennis together. One of the students went to the meeting first, but was bullied by another group of boys and seized the meeting. Sensen arrived second and stayed with his classmates to comfort him. He was so angry that he cried.
After a while, Cheng Cheng and several other students arrived, and Cheng Cheng was very courageous. He organized several students to win back the venue.
The gap between Sensen and the city proves that the father's responsibility and influence are very great and irreplaceable when the children grow up.
Don't say this is just an example. Careful observation will reveal that those fathers who have played the role of role models and spiritual mentors and raised boys are indeed better.
It is recommended that fathers often accompany their children to do these three things. 10 years later, the change of children is amazing:
1, sports, adventure and games
Boys are born wild. They are active and adventurous.
Dad should always accompany his son in sports, such as playing ball, swimming, running and fitness. Can strengthen the child's body and strengthen the child's mind.
On the premise of ensuring safety, play rough games with my son, play gun games, and explore in the wild.
It helps to cultivate children's perseverance, courage, self-confidence and initiative, and makes boys feel more powerful.
2. Participate in Dad's social circle
Parents are always worried about their children's social problems, their children are bullied and excluded, their children are careless in making friends, tired of learning, love to compare with others and addicted to games.
Instead of worrying, it is better to teach children to socialize well. At this point, the role of dad can not be underestimated.
Get together with relatives and friends