A generalization of the characteristics of a certain kind of beauty. (Not all, many beautiful women are still good, I have seen them)
Feature 1: Arrogance
When you make a phone call, the most common words are "OK" and "OK". I have always been cold and aloof. I don't know how much I weigh, but it's all from my parents.
Feature 2: Confusion
Indulge in small favors, sweet words, and like people by feeling. Some people don't even have a standard of right and wrong. They just follow the people they think are good. It is difficult to have the determination and execution of discerning talents or selecting talents. It is no wonder that most real talents work hard when they are young, and because talents usually have to go through struggle and tempering, this is unacceptable to beautiful women.
Feature 3: Unrealistic
The cost of beauty is actually very high, except for a few natural beauty that does not need packaging. Watching street fashion change one crop after another, clothes and cosmetics also change one crop after another, enjoying the beauty and thinking less about how to pay the cost. So I'm looking for a man with a wallet (usually an old man).
Feature 4: Lack of social responsibility
One of the most basic responsibilities of people is to play a certain role in social production (working hard outside or taking care of your family is a role), so that you can live by your own hands instead of the burden of society. However, many beautiful women rely on their innate care, are willing to take advantage of it, look forward to the pie falling from the sky, are unwilling to live by their own hands, and ignore their basic responsibilities as human beings.
Feature 5: Men's Show
In fact, in fact, most beautiful women are lonely. In order to maintain their superficial arrogance and ruthlessness (or maybe there are too many helpless poets), they can only endure it. If they endure too much, they can only go to the men's show. (The same applies to men who are obsessed with mental cleanliness)
Feature 6: Hate getting married
It is often because of these characteristics that beautiful women are either fascinated by a man's material wealth and act as vases (and there are new vases), or fascinated by rhetoric to find a playboy, or choose left and right, only to find that talented people are caught by non-beautiful women who are willing to contribute, and at the same time they are already in their prime, so they have to make do.
Then think about it, why is this?
In the final analysis, there is no sound personality. There are social reasons for this. For example, there are so many people who are obsessed with each other. For example, most people only look at the beauty of beautiful women and don't pay much attention to their inner nature. The so-called ordinary people are innocent and guilty. There are also reasons for beauty itself. With the enjoyment of being sent to the eyes, who is willing to work hard to create themselves? Use elegant sweet words and revel in them, whether they are true or not?
From the perspective of the whole society, if a beautiful woman can't create equivalent social wealth, how can she have herself, and she can't avoid the fate of being a social vase when she is young and sighing when she is old.
It's like a vicious circle. Some people spend money and time looking for beautiful women, and it's hard for beautiful women to refuse the enjoyment and love that falls from the sky (especially when they are young and ignorant). When they get old, they can only sigh.
If we don't pay attention to our own connotation and ability when we are young, and don't rely on others materially, but pay attention to the emotional communication between our hearts, then we can find our true soul mate, and life will naturally have an endless stream of happiness.
Excerpt from Sina blog-