This paper records the real experience of a patient with gallbladder polyps and sedimentary stones. The anger of the past is gone now. I have only been a doctor for five years, and after talking with a medical staff who has nothing to do with medical expenses, I have to recall the scene at that time. The reason why I wrote this long article is that I don't understand this conversation in my heart. I am afraid of human nature, so I should have an exit.

? First of all, diagnosis requires surgery.

In the annual physical examination list, the size of gallbladder polyps increases with age, and the reaction to slight stimulation (such as too cold, too spicy, too sour, etc. ) it is getting bigger and bigger, and even abdominal pain at night causes back pain, vomiting, headache, nausea and fever. The physical examination report of 20 17 came out: gallbladder polyp 9-~ 1 1mm was diagnosed, accompanied by sediment stones, and it is recommended to review for medical treatment. ?

My constitution belongs to minor diseases such as polyps, nodules and cysts (how to judge the specific medicine has not been studied in detail), so I often go to the hospital. So a person went to a top three hospital with a history of 100 years to make an appointment.

Everyone who has had an operation knows that the operation must be to find a doctor with excellent skills and trust. Although it is a minor abdominal operation, it is also scary. I found a doctor my husband knew and asked for help in recommending a relatively trustworthy doctor. After that, you don't have to say hello or give gifts. Simply because we have faced and recommended them. So we made an appointment with the doctor (pseudonym, hereinafter changed to Dr. Chen) online.

The first dot is coming ~

On the appointed date, the company asked for leave (it's really not easy for the company to ask for leave, not to mention all kinds of deductions, and I have a good leader). I drove 60 kilometers to see a doctor alone. Entering the doctor's office, I vaguely remember the conversation at that time, which impressed me deeply.

Dr. Chen: What's the matter?

Me: I have polyps in my gallbladder and want to have an operation. Took out this year's physical examination report.

Dr. Chen flipped through the recent B-ultrasound list and asked: Are you going to be hospitalized now?

Me: I made an appointment because I haven't asked for a long vacation yet.

Dr. Chen performs various operations on his computer. He took my medical card and handed me a piece of paper, asking me to pay.

I'm at a loss. Don't ask anything else? Direct payment?

Me: Do I pay now? Haven't you been hospitalized yet?

Dr. Chen cherishes words like gold and is extremely impatient: come to me after handing them in.

Me: Where can I pay? I haven't even decided on my hospital stay. ......

Dr. Chen was expressionless and almost shouted, didn't you see the paper I gave you? I told you to pay first and then come to me, didn't you hear me?

I don't know if he is in a bad mood today, or if the endocrine disorder in menopause is out of control ~ Anyway, I am very wronged today. I came here alone today, and I have to have an operation when I am sick. I experienced the pain of the past (I was weak and didn't say anything cautious), which made me afraid of surgery, but my husband made an appointment to come over that day, so I had to come alone for work reasons. The grievances in my heart welled up, and I went out silently and stood at the door crying uncontrollably. Maybe, in some people's eyes, it's not strong enough. )

After talking to my husband on the phone, I still want to trust the doctor and pay according to his instructions. Some people say that I will use my own emotions and my own favorable statements to state it. I also want to rationally and objectively analyze the causes of things and the harm to patients.

Here are some facts about the doctor:

1. First of all, after consultation, I'd like to make an appointment for an operation. There is no problem with the doctor's operation. On the small note, he wrote in detail: the number of floors in the inpatient department where I will stay after the appointment, the prepaid expenses, and the B-ultrasound items that need to be reserved ... In layman's terms, I have to pay some money before going to the hospital, complete all the items that can be checked, and complete all the items that cannot be completed after entering the hospital. .....

2. After the nurse confirms, the doctor doesn't care about my appointment time, but the time within my will, and will ask the inpatient department to call me early and give me enough time to take a long vacation.

From the doctor's point of view, I am experienced. I see so many patients every day and say the same thing. I have an appointment with him. Since I believe him, I will do as he does.

The following is also my own dissatisfaction with this short film, which I personally think is true:

1. As a doctor, you should have a consultation process and listen patiently to patients' discomfort and demands. He didn't have a chance to tell me what was wrong and how.

2. The doctor should inform the specific situation of the operation. For example, I never knew that polypectomy was to remove the whole gallbladder. The farce also said that I didn't know medicine and made a big mistake. I'll talk about this in detail in the second point.

Cherish words like gold, but say nothing. Should doctors have a bad attitude?

The epitaph of Dr. Trudeau buried in Lake Saranak in northeastern new york:-Heal some times, relieve often, comfort forever. (Sometimes cure, often help, always care)

? I heard that as long as medical students or medical staff are familiar with the above sentence, under the distortion of interests and humanity, is this sentence too harsh for a medical staff, or has it begun to kidnap medical staff morally?

2, the first time in the hospital to do gallbladder surgery.

After all kinds of examinations, my husband and I both took a long vacation, and were admitted to the hospital smoothly, and arranged the operation time for the second operation in the morning. At eight o'clock the night before the operation, a doctor claimed that the operating room doctor had brought me various forms to sign. I saw from a form that to remove the whole gallbladder, I asked the patient to sign it.

At present, I haven't thought about removing the whole gallbladder (to be exact, ignorance of medicine). Although the gallbladder plays a small role in the human body, it is very important when it is needed, because it is also the creation of God and must be available.

From hospitalization to the beginning of the operation, I didn't see the attending doctor, including signing the preoperative agreement and the assistant doctor's notice, telling me to have the whole gallbladder removed. I heard that I wanted the whole gallbladder, so I called the attending doctor:

Me: Doctor, are you going to remove the whole gallbladder? Why didn't you tell me when I was in the doctor's office?

Doctor: Don't you want to cut it?

Me: Yes, can't you cut polyps?

Doctor: Be brave if you want. That's it.

I made preparations before the operation and informed the second operation that it was my turn the next morning.

The next morning, the assistant doctor came to inform me of the preparation for the operation and confirmed to me that it was a gallbladder-preserving operation. I said yes.

Just when we decided to do preparatory surgery, the clinical attending doctor, Dr. Xia, was making rounds. He was surprised and said to us, why do you want to keep the gallbladder? You did it as if you didn't. ......

The doctor told me why we should have a total cholecystectomy, the advantages and disadvantages. ......

After listening to Dr. Xia's popular science, I made a lot of phone calls at one time, and the answers I could know and the questions I asked were really that the whole gallbladder needed to be removed.

So I packed my bags and left the hospital, and my first hospitalization ended.

Second hospitalization

Maybe this is a minor operation in the eyes of many people. In the eyes of my husband, I am weak and sick, and losing an organ is a bad choice for me. So, his dean helped us to contact his classmates, helped me to do a B-ultrasound, and made sure that my gallbladder was severely congested, my polyps were large enough, and my physical symptoms had reached the point where surgery was needed, and he also helped to contact his old friends in the same hospital. Thanks to my husband's old dean. Now he has retired. We didn't send gifts or say hello. He is willing to always help us. He is really a good leader. )

The old dean took us to the hospital. When we saw the doctor, it was the day of rounds. The clinical attending doctor was Dr. Xia. I just want to say that good people here attract good people.

Now, let's go back to the front. Why am I so angry about this conversation? The man said that the doctor decided to give me gallbladder-preserving surgery because: 1. Doctors respect patients' opinions. The doctor thinks that the patient has a strong desire to protect his gallbladder. From the doctor's point of view, he is not wrong.

A minor operation costs tens of thousands of dollars, and you need to take time off to take care of your family. Is there really nothing wrong with doing a useless operation?

From my point of view, I am willing to admit my ignorance of medicine!

When faced with the grim situation of black and white, life will say that there is no black and white in this world. Who can condemn life? No one can ~ who is not wandering in this black and white world?