Time will not only change the face, but also carve the soul.
When I was young, I always wanted to save face, make out and drink enough; Later, I learned that temperament does not necessarily depend on the face; It was not until one day that my face was old that I really understood: beautiful skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million.
Yu Dan said: I have seen beauty and charm, traveled all over Qian Shan, experienced numerous difficulties and obstacles, and my old age is coming. The world of mortals in my life passed by, flying in high spirits and never dissipating.
It is precisely those difficult years that make people remember and make us live a better life one day.
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Some people struggle against the sufferings given by life, while others fall down with one blow. The difference lies in their inner choice.
2017165438+1October 30th, a resource with a capacity of 10G went viral on the Internet, detonating the network. 167 nude photos of college students with ID cards and videos of meat compensation were leaked, among which 147 people's information was leaked, and most of them were between 17 and 25 years old. Sadly, they paid such a heavy price just to borrow several thousand dollars.
I don't know when human nature began to be so cheap.
Is the family really poor? More because of vanity and comparison. In fact, there are many ways to be self-sufficient on campus, such as part-time, grants and scholarships, provided that you don't compare with others.
This is an era of advanced consumption. If the money is not enough, we use ants to spend money. If it is not enough, we will borrow money from ants to pay it back. If it's not enough, we'll find relatives, friends, parents and classmates. Finally, take the online loan and never return.
Coincidentally, ten days ago, Luo Zhengyu, a 25-year-old graduate student, hanged himself in a small hotel in Shanghai Road, Jiang 'an District. He lied to his family that he was working in Wuhan. In fact, he borrowed new things from small online loans and wandered around small hotels and Internet cafes.
Afterwards, the family found from the mobile phone information of his relic that his Alipay only had 0.7 1 yuan, 13 mobile phone online loan apps, and * * * owed more than 50,000 yuan in debt.
Some people are forced by life to the point of no return, and some people struggle under heavy pressure and finally meet a better self.
Classmate M grew up in a poor family. When she went to college, her tuition fees were all patchwork. When she entered school, her parents were both laid off and her sister had just divorced. But you can't see any depression and loss in her face.
When I was a freshman, I became the president of the student union. Ugly duckling, looks ordinary, comes from a poor family, works part-time on weekends as a tutor and gets a scholarship. She has just finished four years of medical courses independently.
There are so many courses for medical majors that it is not easy to finish them by yourself, let alone arrange the affairs of the student union and earn living expenses by working part-time everywhere.
After four years in college, I have never asked for a penny from my family since my sophomore year. In my junior year, I applied for a postgraduate degree and continued to be the backbone of the students. After graduation, I was sent abroad to study for a doctorate.
Now she and her husband have settled in Germany. They are both life partners and business partners of Duisburg Medical Research Institute. The photos I took on my recent holiday are admirable.
Life is like this, it can't be changed by nature, some are poor and some are rich, but they are all won by hard work the day after tomorrow.
Life always smiles at those girls who work hard.
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The Spring Festival party just past gave me the same impression as in previous years. It is neither good nor bad. It is not so much a performance as a ceremony to accompany the family.
The only difference is that Faye Wong and Na Ying sang a duet for a while, which inadvertently made my heart jump. Even my mother, who seldom pays attention to music, said, Oh, Faye Wong, nothing has changed.
Yes, I haven't changed at all. Faye Wong is still Faye Wong. Time did not make her discount, but made her more immortal.
I remember the song "Meet 98" from 65438 to 0998, which was popular all over the country. The time span is 20 years, and a "Time" is sung on the same stage. I really didn't think that time left any marks on Faye Wong's face.
The face is still so light, the voice is still so ethereal and tactful, and the years have passed, and Tianhou has never given in.
The beauty of Faye Wong is not that you can never forget it at a glance, but that you are still free and easy after ups and downs. She once laughed at herself: time slipped on my face, so I left no trace.
When she is with Dou Wei, she can put down her diva's airs, feel at ease and be a little woman. She was even photographed by the media going to the toilet and spittoon. Her hair is fluffy and messy, and she doesn't look like a superstar at all, but she doesn't care. I have my own attitude towards life. You can do anything you like.
Later, Dou Wei cheated on her and they divorced. Faye Wong never said a bad word, but a shallow "predestination is over" is a confession.
Some media asked Faye Wong: "What kind of father do you want to find for Leah Dou?" Faye Wong replied: "Tong Tong has his own father, and I am looking for my other half."
The average woman can't see through such a light cloud and light wind.
Last year, Faye Wong's concert in Shanghai was not successful and was criticized by many people, with many negative comments. She is old and her voice is not as pure as when she was young.
But what I saw was her singing and dealing with Leah Dou. Maybe as a singer, she will get old and retire. But as a mother, it is also a great achievement to be able to perform on the same stage with her daughter and witness her growth. She did it.
Now, after 14 years of separation and integration, she and Nicholas Tse have finally come together. Pure love, successful career, excellent children, what is more demanding?
Everyone will get old, and the meat cleaver of the years will not spare anyone. The face is getting older, but the soul is more transparent. I hope we can be girls again after years of baptism like her.
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The greatest enemy of time is marriage. After marriage, people grow up and are carefree before marriage. They all changed their daily necessities after marriage, and then they walked out of the besieged city. Things have long been changed.
Throughout the ages, it is probably rare that the marital status is worse than that of Zhang Youyi.
The marriage between Zhang Youyi and Xu Zhimo is like a nightmare. Marrying a villain is just a combination of fists and feet, but marrying Xu Zhimo is the result of indifference and indifference.
Xu Zhimo insisted on divorce regardless of pregnancy, and wrote a famous sentence, "Marriage without love is unbearable, and freedom can be freely repaid."
They became the first "civilized divorced" couple in the history of the Republic of China, and the crescent poet who wrote "You are a cloud in the sky, occasionally projecting on my heart" left Zhang Youyi with only a cold back.
After the divorce, Xu Zhimo was not favored by Goddess Lin. Instead, Zhang Youyi staged an inspirational blockbuster. After the gorgeous divorce line, her life began to have flowers and applause.
Life closed the door of marriage for her, but opened the window of career. She has made great achievements in the financial industry and also in the stock market. She became the vice president of Shanghai Women's Commercial Bank, and with the help of her fourth brother Zhang Gongquan's personal connections, the women's commercial bank got out of the predicament.
At nine o'clock every morning, I am busy in the office on time. In the afternoon, I invited a teacher to make up my cultural knowledge. She is always the last person to leave the office, and she wants to make up for what she lacked in the first half of her life.
In addition to her achievements in the financial industry, Shang Yun Fashion Company, which she founded, has become the highest and most prosperous fashion gathering place in Shanghai, where celebrities such as Lu Xiaoman and Tang Ying made clothes.
What is even more jaw-dropping is that after the divorce, her relationship with Xu Zhimo has improved. Although he has no love for her, he has respect after her beautiful turn.
Xu Zhimo praised: "An ambitious and courageous woman has made a lot of progress in the past two years. She has established her own independent footsteps and has a channel for thinking. "
Time is harsh and cruel for Zhang Youyi. Married to Xu Zhimo, she didn't get any love from her husband, but it was the carving of time that made her heart stronger gradually.
As adonis said: The world makes me covered with scars, but the wounds have wings.
Zhang Youyi was finally buried in the lush Fernoff Cemetery in new york, and her surname was engraved on the tombstone: Su Zhang Yuyi. (From her second husband, an ordinary Hong Kong doctor Su Jizhi)
The so-called years are quiet and good. You must have a few years to be quiet. Without years, how can we experience a quiet and beautiful life?
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From science and engineering men who can't pay their debts through online loans, to self-growing female doctors, from suicide queen Faye Wong to strange woman Zhang Youyi in the Republic of China, each has its own destiny and destination.
Time is ruthless, giving the world a fair carving, some are not bumpy, the soul is shattered, and some are indomitable and reborn. The difference is just a choice.
I think of the TV series "Acts 2" I watched a while ago. Every episode has an opening remark, which deeply touched me.
I don't believe that nature plays tricks on people. Excellent people in the world take the initiative to find the environment they want. If they can't find it anywhere, they will create one-Bernard Shaw.
Time will not only change the face, but also carve the soul. Everything depends on our inner guidance and choice.