I remember going shopping with friends once before, and she brought her daughter with her. At that time, I went to a cosmetics store to buy things, and my friend tried lipstick there. At this time, my friend's 4-year-old daughter actually picked up a bottle of nail polish and secretly tried it.
My friend was a little surprised when he saw it. "Hey, daughter, why did you start painting nail polish? Do you think the color you painted looks good? " I didn't expect my friend to be angry with her daughter for trying nail polish.
My friend seemed to see my doubts and smiled: "The times are different now, and all children have a love for beauty. When we were young, we tried nail polish a little, and we were afraid that we would not be beaten by our parents. "
Everyone loves beauty. Who says children can't love beauty? In fact, when the child is 3 years old, the love of beauty will gradually awaken, which is the so-called aesthetic sensitive period.
What is the aesthetic sensitive period? The aesthetic sensitive period usually occurs when children are 3 to 5 years old, which means that children at this time have requirements for their appearance and will be interested in their clothes, which is often called "smelly beauty". Maybe children in this period will feel naive to adults, but that's how children get to know themselves.
How does the child behave in the aesthetic sensitive period? 1 will imitate the way parents dress.
Imitation is a way for children to get familiar with the world. Many things they have no experience and don't know how to do, so they will imitate and learn through imitation.
In the aesthetic sensitive period, children will be more complacent and want to dress themselves up best, so they will imitate their parents and learn to dress themselves up.
2, easy to lose your temper
Children gradually observe the clothes of people around them, and they will also begin to observe themselves. They will form a set of their own aesthetics, stick to what they think is perfect, and do not allow others to question what they think is perfect. At this time, children will be particularly prone to lose their temper. As long as someone says something they don't like to hear, they will lose their temper.
3. Care about your image
Children in this period are very concerned about their image. Like some girls, they will learn from their mothers and wear beautiful nail polish and lipstick.
While caring about your own image, you also care about what others think of you. For example, if someone says that he is dressed very well, he will be particularly happy. If others say it is not beautiful, then they will feel very uncomfortable and even stop wearing this dress. Mu Xin said: No aesthetics is very serious, even if you learn more knowledge, there is no way to be saved.
How should parents correctly guide their children through the aesthetic sensitive period? 1, respect children
Children love to brag, that is to know themselves again. If parents are desperate to attack their children, saying that they should not spend time on it, or that their children are not dressed at all, this may affect their understanding of themselves and lead them to feel inferior or unconfident.
Therefore, the first thing parents should do is to respect their children, respect their right to pursue beauty, and allow them to dress themselves more beautifully and appropriately.
2. Guide the child to tell the reason.
Parents can try to guide their children and tell them why they are dressed like this. Sometimes children's aesthetics are not high enough, and they don't particularly know how to dress, which may be more casual. Parents let their children tell the specific reasons, that is, let them think more about why. The more seriously they think, the more they can help them gradually develop a correct aesthetic view.
3. Discover beauty with children.
During this period, children's aesthetic requirements are very high. Maybe he doesn't know much about aesthetics, but he has a good attitude.
Then our parents should seize this opportunity, cultivate their children with heart and discover beauty with them. For example, playing clothes games with children, and even parents can buy some cloth with their children to change clothes, so that children can grow up in play.