Environmental reasons
Surrounded by "white" and a lot of beautiful women, I have a sense of crisis and need some means to improve my appearance.
Personality reasons
Inferiority. This is innate, some people are confident, some people feel inferior, even if others look good, they are not confident at all, so they can only find ways to make themselves confident.
psychological cause
There is a medical term called "body image disorder", which means that you always doubt where your appearance is defective and you can improve it yourself, so it is a psychological disease to keep plastic surgery.
What is body image disorder?
Generally speaking, it is a word that everyone has heard, "magic ugliness": paying too much attention to a tiny or nonexistent defect in your heart, feeling miserable and depressed.
I'm sure someone around you will say, "I'm fat and nobody wants me!" " "Dear girl, don't scoff at this girl, thinking that she is so thin and still clamoring to lose weight. Is it fake?
Actually, it is not! Compared with boys, girls are more likely to be dissatisfied with their bodies. Even if she is thin enough, she will still look in the mirror with "eyes with mirror function", so she will see that she is ridiculously fat.
Many of these people around us magnify their own shortcomings and fail to see their own advantages. They have always been in a state of fear and inferiority, and they dare not face up to people and hide them when communicating with others. So how far are you from "Phantom Ugliness"? Take a quiz and see the following common symptoms. Did you succeed?
? Phantom ugly test?
Spend a lot of time looking in the mirror, or deliberately hide a certain part of your body;
Always spend energy to make sure that you hide a physical defect;
Repeatedly measure or touch what you think is defective;
Because there is no way to stop paying attention to defects, work, study and life are affected;
I don't want to go to public places or crowded places, otherwise I will fall into a terrible feeling that others are watching me;
Constantly undergo plastic surgery and strive to make your appearance meet expectations;
Even if the whole thing is successful, it is still not satisfactory.
What if there is "magic ugliness"?
If you are experiencing serious anxiety about your appearance, don't think about changing it through plastic surgery. Since this is a disease, we should find a psychologist to diagnose it in time.
If your friend has such symptoms, please don't think that ta is strange and crazy. You should consider whether ta has this disease, and also help ta understand the true self and encourage ta to treat it.