The first domestic violence broke up decisively.

Domestic violence is the same as cheating, only 0 times and countless times. So when he first hits you, make up your mind to break up with him as soon as possible. During the period of love, you can see some clues. Although the other party may apologize, repent or even write a repentance book after the violence, these are all nonsense. Domestic violence will happen again, and it will become more frequent and more serious. Psychologically speaking, human behavior is formed by rewards and punishments. If there is no punishment after domestic violence, then domestic violence will definitely continue.

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Brave resistance

If you marry him, you should bravely resist your fist. Don't let him succeed in trying to subdue you through violence, otherwise, he will become more and more addicted. Research shows that if a man can't achieve his goal by violence against his wife, in most cases, he won't use this method to deal with his wife again.

three

Keep your own economy and life independent.

If his violent torture to you becomes more frequent and serious, you will live in fear all day and start to worry about your life. You may make up your mind to fly away in order to get rid of him completely and live a normal life without fear again. But you'd better have your own independent financial resources and be able to stand on your own feet, instead of relying entirely on each other, so you can leave if you want.

four

Seek judicial protection

According to the law, if an actor intentionally hurts another person's body and causes harmful consequences, he shall bear criminal responsibility. Women are people first, then women. Women's personal rights, like men's, are protected by Chinese laws.

At present, although the law is not perfect, it is temporarily unable to control minor violence caused by contradictions among family members. However, if the consequences of the injury constitute minor injuries or serious injuries according to the relevant appraisal standards, the public security organs and procuratorates will file a criminal case.

Therefore, after you are slightly injured or seriously injured, you should report the case to the local police station quickly, or file a private prosecution against him in the local court to protect yourself with the law.

five

Ask for other help

Women should learn to use other forces. You can use your interpersonal relationship to resist, such as the help of friends, you can also find relatives and friends who will help you, and you can also find women's federations, public security and so on. You can get help.

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Avoid stimulation and bow your head at the right time.

Living with a domestic violence man, we must first avoid being beaten. We should know that our men have poor self-control and are prone to guilty conscience, so we must first avoid provoking him. If he is a man with no bottom line, he doesn't have to consider getting a divorce quickly. Because he is not, he has to think about how to avoid being beaten. If you know where the bottom line is, you shouldn't touch and beg again and again. You have to endure and communicate afterwards. It may be a little disgusting, but it's better than being beaten. As for whether to divorce, just think about how you and your children will live in the future. If you don't make a serious decision, don't say the word divorce easily