When I was a child, I looked "four unlike". Not like dad, not like mom, not like aunt, not like uncle

So that my friends said that my uncle and aunt gave birth to a monkey after seeing the photos. Really black and ugly, like a monkey. My grandmother doesn't like me anyway.

Of course, my grandmother doesn't like me, not only because I am ugly, but also because of my father Lao Wu.

Speaking of it, Lao Wu's fate is a bit miserable. My grandmother had three sons before she gave birth to Lao Wu.

So when I was pregnant with Lao Wu, I prayed for a girl in my belly every day, and I gave birth to a boy.

Grandma is so disappointed.

Then she gave birth to her fifth child and finally had menstruation.

In this way, Lao Wu became the most unloved child in the family, and even I was not loved by my grandmother.

Probably out of guilt, Lao Wu always wants to tease me.

When I was a child, he always said that he bought me eggs for 250 yuan because I didn't look like anything.

I really believe it.

So my friends' dreams are to be scientists and singers, and my dream is to find my biological parents.

Because I want to ask them face to face, why did 250 eggs sell me?

When I grew up, I finally realized that 250 was a curse, so I went to settle accounts with Lao Wu.

Lao Wu said with a smile, when did I say you had proof? I'm telling you, my baby girl, a thousand dollars will not change.

How is it possible to get 250 eggs?

I can't refute it.

02

Actually, at Lao Wu's place, I really don't change money.

Even when I was in junior high school, I had a younger brother at home.

On the day my brother and mother came back from the hospital, Lao Wu went to buy a set of semi-classical Historical Records, as well as KFC's family bucket.

It was the first time I ate KFC in my life, and I was so excited that I didn't care about getting lost.

Lao Wu held me and gnawed at the chicken leg, pointing to the baby in his mother's arms and saying, this is your brother.

Don't worry, I love you the most with him.

Dad will always be on your side after your quarrel.

I'm a little in distress situation.

Actually, he and his mother are really more inclined to me.

Lao Wu always says that my sister is a girl, my mother is a goddess and we are men. We should let them go and protect them forever.

Look at this ideological consciousness. If all men in the world think so, there will be no dissatisfied wives, all of whom are fairies.

I, Lao Wu, don't just talk about it. He has been carrying out this sentence with his younger brother.

Before I went to high school, I never came to do housework because of Lao Wu's spoil.

Once my mother asked me to choose coriander.

I said yes, yes, no problem. Look at me.

I took the coriander to the living room and worked while watching TV.

My mother almost didn't hit me when I went to my mother with the fruits of my labor.

I threw away all the leaves of coriander, leaving only the stems in the basin.

I asked with a puzzled face, isn't it?

Lao Wu giggled at a side. My girl won't do it if she can't. I just want her to do nothing so that she can have a good time after marriage.

My mother said, do you think men all over the world are like you? She knows nothing, and there will be many hard days in the future.

This makes Lao Wu a little sad. He said, nothing. The big deal is that I will raise her for life.

03

Lao Wu may really be prepared to support me all my life, but he won't let me go abroad anyway.

Take an examination of the university, only in Changchun.

But I was rebellious at that time, and the girls had a distance in their hearts, so I said seriously at the dinner table, I want to go to the south, and I want to see the outside world.

Lao Wu got angry at once.

He said, what if you go so far and talk about a boyfriend from other places?

What if you marry far away and others bully you? You must die quickly.

My mother said beside me, are you thinking too far?

Lao Wu stared at her and said, how far is it? How far is it? I thought the same thing when she was born. Don't marry far away, don't marry far away.

I was frightened by Lao Wu's posture.

Just want to refute, Lao Wu suddenly softened and said, Wu Jiajing, I tell you, if you go on like this, what will happen to your mother and me one day? When you come back, you may not even see your mother and me for the last time.

It was Lao Wu's move that touched my weakness and I compromised.

I stayed in Changchun to go to college.

At that time, it was the age to love to play. On weekends, I was so busy singing karaoke with my friends that I didn't want to go home at all.

As long as you don't go home for more than three weeks, Lao Wu will call and say, are your wings hard? Do you still have a home in your heart?

At that time, I felt that Lao Wu was much in charge, which annoyed him.

Once I had a quarrel with him about it. After the quarrel, Lao Wu said gloomily, your mother is worried that you will be cheated outside alone. Come back every week, your mother can rest assured.

My mother laughed at him and said, you don't trust yourself. Leave me out of this. I am very comfortable with my daughter.

Lao Wu probably didn't expect my mother to undermine me like this, and turned away a little embarrassed.

04

Before I went to college, Lao Wu was worried about my puppy love.

I do secretly like one or two boys. But I didn't have my first real boyfriend until I graduated from college.

Lao Wu is not satisfied both horizontally and vertically. He said that his education was not high enough. What if he can't make money in the future? If you are ugly, your child will be ugly. Divided.

My mother laughed at him. How beautiful do you think your daughter is?

Lao Wu said, of course, the wife comes first and the daughter comes second.

My mother laughs like a flower, and Lao Wu says that love stories are really invincible.

I have no choice but to secretly associate with my boyfriend. Later, my boyfriend came to my house every day. Lao Wu probably saw that he was kind to me, so he didn't say anything.

But my mother later said that in fact, your father was also contradictory at that time, fearing that blocking you would make you miss happiness. I'm worried that you are stupid enough to give and trust others. Often wake up in the middle of the night

When I heard this sentence, my nose was a little sour.

During that time, Lao Wu lost 400 thousand because he invested in a friend's project. Plus, a factory has just been built at home, and there is not much money at hand.

When my boyfriend talked about getting married in private, I told him all this frankly.

But I didn't expect my boyfriend to say after listening, then the bride price when we got married was for us, right? Your family won't stay to pay the debts, will they? That's betraying your daughter.

I was dumbfounded and broke up in a rage.

I came home crying that day.

When Lao Wu saw that something was wrong with me, he chased me and asked what was going on.

I've been hiding something since I was a child. When he asked me, I told the truth.

Hearing this, Lao Wu almost settled accounts with his ex-boyfriend with an iron bar, and was finally stopped by my mother.

That day, Lao Wu drank wine and tears swirled in his eyes. He kept saying, how can the little pimple I put in my hand be bullied by others?

I feel sorry for such an old Wu.

So when my current boyfriend came to apologize and wanted to get back together, I resolutely refused.

After Lao Wu found out, he began to worry again. He was afraid that my marriage would be ruined because of him.

Lao Wu said that what you like is the most important thing, and you will live with him in the future. If you like him, we will be kind to him, so good that he is embarrassed to bully you.

He said, go and tell him that the bride price must be given to you young couple. Although the business failed, I kept all your dowry money. Why don't you tell him again?

I'm about to cry.

Talking about a love affair made Lao Wu suffer so much injustice and worry. I'm not getting back together.

05

After a year of lovelorn love, I met Zhao Lang.

We are high school classmates, and the two families are close, and it takes only ten minutes to drive. After Lao Wu knew that Zhao Lang and I were in love, he bought beer and snacks.

My mother asked him why he suddenly wanted to drink today.

Lao Wu said that there is no reason, I want to drink.

In fact, my mother and I both know that Lao Wu is unhappy. He began to struggle again, for fear that what I entrusted was inhuman.

I comforted him and said, dad, it's okay. Oh, I'm close to his home. If Zhao Lang bullies me, you and my mother will come to save me in ten minutes. If you miss me, I can come back anytime.

My mother was teased by me, but Lao Wu said with disgust, you'd better not come back. I finally married you off. You often bring one back for dinner, so I won't pay for it.

But as Lao Wu spoke, his eyes turned red.

Father's love all over the world is similar, right? The only difference is the expression.

06

Actually, Lao Wu is a very sensitive person.

My aunt's cousin was crying all the time when he got married. Relatives laugh at him, so they can cry. What can I do if I marry my daughter?

Lao Wu cried and said, I won't go to my girl's wedding. I'm going to set off firecrackers at home to celebrate, and finally I sent this annoying person away.

Everyone laughed along.

I smiled, too, in fact, my heart was quite uncomfortable.

I didn't know how lost Lao Wu was when I got married. I can't stand the way he cries.

He is different from other people's fathers. He is a crying father.

But he is very stubborn in front of me.

When I am unhappy at work, he will give me all kinds of chicken soup every day. He left those words of concern and comfort to my mother to tell me.

He also found all kinds of jokes and jokes from the internet for my mother to tell me until I was amused.

Therefore, from small to large, we know that there is a strong backing in the rear when we encounter any problems. I never understood what loneliness was.

Lao Wu grew up with me in his unique way.

07

Suddenly I am 25 years old, and Lao Wu and my mother have been married for 26 years.

On the wedding anniversary, he sent a circle of friends who showed love.

He said that we have known each other for 30 years and have gone through ups and downs together for 26 years. You have changed from a girl as beautiful as flowers to you now. No matter what happens in the future, you are the most beautiful in my heart. Honey, you have worked hard.

I also specially made a picture of him rolling my mother.

My brother and I laughed at him in the family. Dad, you're spreading dog food again.

He came back to us. Isn't this everyday?

I laughed at this sentence. Lao Wu is right. This is his daily life with my mother.

His daily routine with my mother is to sprinkle dog food in front of my brother and me.

For a while, he suddenly changed the note to wife's adult, and forced my mother to change the note to husband's adult. That's not all. I have to take a picture of a couple for them.

My brother and I are in distress situation.

My mother has been regarded as a princess since the day she married Lao Wu, and she doesn't have to worry about big and small things.

Even the nails were cut by Lao Wu. Once I said, hey, cut it for me, too.

Lao Wu, you go back. That's your husband's business. I only serve my wife.

"Didn't you say you would support me for life?"

Yes, but I love my wife.

Well, I can't argue.

Our family of four went out, Lao Wu and my mother always held hands, and my brother and I followed. Sometimes looking at their backs, I feel that the years are quiet and the world is beautiful.

Actually, I should thank Lao Wu

Not because he is my father, not because he raised me, but because he set an example and told me and my brother what a good man and a harmonious and happy family look like.

So even if we know that our marriage is bumpy, my brother and I will not be afraid.

Because I have seen him fall in love with my mother, I know there is really a hand holding your hand and growing old with your son.

When I was young, I didn't understand why some girls wanted to marry their father when they grew up. Now I know, because no one in the world may be so kind to us anymore.

It's a pity that Lao Wu's famous grass is taken, but I still can't pry it.

Lao Wu, thank you for being my father.