1, take the initiative to seduce your woman, perhaps not because you like being in a relationship, we still have to have the ability to distinguish right from wrong. Because, love is right, love is wrong, not youth, but covered with scars. No matter in the general idea or in real life, we are most familiar with the phenomenon of "men chasing women", as if men should take the initiative in emotional matters. Undeniably, emotionally, most women are reserved and reserved. They are ashamed to express themselves. Even if they have rich inner feelings, they will not choose to express each other. So, nine times out of ten, men take the initiative to tease women. Although everything is not absolute, you should pay attention to the fact that a naturally reserved and shy woman will take the initiative to tease you, and there must be her reasons. Most men lack this ability to "distinguish between true and false", while women are generally easily conquered by each other when they take the initiative to pick up this kind of thing. If you meet a woman who really loves you, you are lucky; And if you meet a woman with bad intentions, then you can only be hurt and used. Women are animals dominated by secular desires, which also makes women unable to extricate themselves from the "romance" that is easy to produce feelings. For women, the only reason to tease you is to get short-term satisfaction. Love is like a bowl of ecstasy soup to her, which makes her sleepy and trance. These emotional disorders made her feel like a dream. 2. Because you can help her achieve a certain purpose. A woman who aims at you will seduce you, and such a woman will not give her heart. Such a woman has no feelings for you from the beginning, and she is not sincere to you. Such a woman is not worth your affection and sincerity for her. Although helping others is a virtue, don't help her without a bottom line. This will not only fail to help her, but also put herself in a very painful situation. It is actually an act of disrespect for her to use you to gain your feelings. It is wrong to use others. And this feeling is doomed not to let you have her heart. She regards you as a person worthy of approaching and owning, so if your value gradually loses, are you sure she will still be with you? Don't let her succeed, and don't let her hurt your rudeness. She didn't treat you like the right person from the beginning. So, are you still asking her to love you day after day? Don't dream these meaningless dreams, don't be cheated, and don't count money for others. There are many such people in life, which requires you to learn to look at people, learn to know people and learn to protect yourself from harm. Some inexperienced men are often fooled by these means, and they always ask you for red envelopes. Most women understand that asking a man for a red envelope is actually not a manifestation of charm, but a very cheap way. They even worry that they will be treated as gold diggers and ask men for red envelopes. Therefore, the relationship with male friends is general, and they will not ask for WeChat red envelopes. For men they like, they will not take the initiative to ask for them, for fear of being rejected, which will affect the relationship between the two parties. But a woman who doesn't like you but wants to seduce you is different. If she asks you for a red envelope, you give it, which not only proves her charm, but also earns real income. Why not? But they're not stupid. They won't ask you for a red envelope as soon as they come up. Maybe they are deliberately ambiguous in a chat, or they ask you for a red envelope in a joke. If you refuse, chances are that she won't talk to you next time. But if you do give her the red envelope, at first she will accept it, and then she will find various excuses to ask you for money. Women who really like you don't want to rely on you financially, and they don't want you to spend more money, while those women who just want to seduce you don't care at all. I will send you my own photos from time to time. First of all, if a woman is in a high mood or in a good mood, it is impossible to prove that she sent you a photo of herself. Maybe she put on beautiful makeup that day and just wanted to give it to you. But if a woman often sends you some provocative photos at night, but she doesn't show them, it means that she knows a lot about men's psychology. Although she means nothing to you, she wants to satisfy her inner vanity through praise. Everyone is only interested in what he likes. Your quality attracts her and makes her feel that your quality is dominant between you, so she is very active with you. Love doesn't happen overnight. Only by careful management and long-term observation can we see the fruit of love mature, which is impatient. It's just that in the process of planning with you, you are curious about each other's future, because her good feelings for you will make her ambitious about whether your future feelings will last for a long time from the beginning. It wasn't love, it was the first love. When this feeling continues in the process of getting to know each other, then your feelings will change from goodwill to love. Women who really like you will care what you think. Don't say that she shows off the kindness of the opposite sex in her circle of friends. Even if she is having normal interpersonal communication with friends of the opposite sex, she may be cautious for fear of being seen by you, causing misunderstanding, but she just wants to Doby you. Women are different. If she often shows off other people's good in her circle of friends, such as showing her bag or jewelry bought by men, then she is probably hinting at you. There are many people in various ways in the world, but not many people really love you, and not many people close to you, but how many people really love you? These statements may only be known to you. If a woman comes to seduce you, is it because she likes you? What do you want to achieve? No one can say that it is not good, which can only be found by yourself in contact and communication with her. Even so, for her, you definitely deserve your love, because you definitely deserve her enthusiasm and opinions. There are many people in various ways in the world, but not many people really love you, and not many people close to you, but how many people really love you? These statements may only be known to you. If a woman comes to seduce you, is it because she likes you? What do you want to achieve? No one can say that it is not good, which can only be found by yourself in contact and communication with her. Even so, for her, you definitely deserve your love, because you definitely deserve her enthusiasm and opinions. Take the initiative to lick your woman's mind. What is the purpose of the girl licking you? In this society, everyone seems to wear a mask when socializing. Many times, in order to get along with others better, sometimes I have to tell some lies. But for a relationship, we must polish our eyes and distinguish between true and false. When you give your heart to the wrong person, you must be hurt in the end. Most love begins with a man's confession. In many people's minds, it seems that confession is what men do. The reason for this is that women are shy when dealing with feelings, and it is basically impossible to express their inner thoughts on their own initiative. So it is very common for men to chase women now. Although the basic situation is that men chase women, there are exceptions. As the saying goes, women chase men's veils, and there are also women who bravely chase love. There is no smoke without fire, and everything happens for a reason. When a woman forgets her shyness and approaches you actively, there are only two reasons: either you have something that attracts her very much and has the ability value that she needs very much; Or she really likes you and wants to fight for her own happiness. Because most of them are men chasing women, when women actively pursue men, men seem to be easily fooled, prostrate themselves at women's feet, and swoon. At this time, if you meet a woman with ulterior motives, you will be hurt in the end, but if you meet a woman who really loves you, you are undoubtedly a man blessed by God. So at this time, men must polish their eyes and see clearly the purpose of women. In fact, it is not ugly, because women take the initiative to provoke you for these two purposes. Women take the initiative to approach you, just because they see what you have. You got what she wanted. On the one hand, I covet your money and status. If the other person is a vain woman and you happen to be a rich bachelor with a certain economic foundation, most women will try their best to get close to you because you have the wealth and status she wants most. They want to climb the tall branches and become a phoenix. In their eyes, they must rely on themselves and don't work so hard. On the other hand, women tease you actively in order to make you a man she wants to live with. Most women are still eager to get married, but it is not easy to get married with their own love, so many times women choose the right man instead of their own love. Proactively tease your woman's psychology 3. There is a reason why women actively "tease" the opposite sex. The opposite sex can give her romance. Maybe she thinks you are a romantic. Romantic people are welcome because they know women. Nowadays, many people would rather be cheated by love rat than accept the feelings of straight men. Because for these women, love rat can give them the "romance" they want, make them feel excited, and in turn make them feel as if they are eighteen again. This is not necessary for women, but this experience is definitely good. Even if you get hurt in the end, you can't resist the temptation brought by romance. Women are all animals controlled by secular desires, which makes women unable to extricate themselves from the "romance" that can drive their feelings. For a woman, romance will never die, which is one of the reasons why she will seduce you actively. Romance is like a bowl of ecstasy soup to her. She was dizzy and in a trance, which made her feel like a dream. The opposite sex can give her a sense of security and make women want to be close to you unconsciously. This is also due to love rat, which may make people feel that love rat has given women the romance they want, so that they can't extricate themselves. On the other hand, love rat also made women afraid of being hurt, so the seemingly contradictory performance also caused the relationship between women's love and hate for love rat. When a man who can give her a sense of security appears in front of her, she will feel different. This sense of sureness and peace of mind is equally fascinating. You should know that life is not only composed of excitement, freshness and pleasure, but also needs a sense of security and stability to adjust. This feeling will make women feel that this relationship may last for a long time, so that women can have hope for the future. With hope, motivation will follow, and love will be born unconsciously. If romance only gives women a temporary coolness, then dullness and steadiness are women's long-term comfort. The opposite sex just has the qualities she likes. Everyone is only interested in what she likes. Her attraction to you may indicate that you just have those things that she looks pleasing to the eye. Her affection for you makes her want to get close to you unconsciously. These qualities of yours attracted her and made her feel that she wanted to keep them for herself, so she offered to be nice to you, which was not entirely for your scheming. Just in the process of plotting against you, I am curious about each other's future, because her affection for you will make her have a little ambition for your feelings for a long time. This is not love, but it is what love looks like at first. When this feeling continues in the process of getting to know each other, then your feelings will change from good feelings to likes. Love doesn't happen overnight. Only by careful management and long-term observation can we see the fruit of love mature, and it is urgent. Conclusion: A woman's initiative to you shows that you can enter her eyes and touch her heartstrings, which is very important to you. You have half a foot in her heart.