When you are in a commercial complex with many counters, money, the heavy weapon of life, is even heavier.
Maybe a limited edition shoe and a favorite dress are not the necessities of your life.
But in the bright and flashing lights of shopping malls, in front of dazzling goods, in the eyes of diligent expectation, among handsome men and beautiful women, you will always feel that you have lived a very wrong life-
Why are you so ashamed when others dress so elegantly and exquisitely?
Why are you so hesitant when others spend money so smartly and simply?
Money is not a thing, but no money seems to be even less a thing-whoops!
But in a short time, where do we start?
My eyes are so embarrassed. What should I do if they are swollen? ——
If it's really inappropriate, ...
This is actually not a problem. It's inappropriate. Why don't you just say it? -Do you still fart gracefully?
Even if it's inappropriate, you have to answer professionally and calmly, okay?
"Take a closer look at these shoes, they don't match my foot type-I have a German foot type, and it's really difficult to match shoes. Sorry to bother you! "
"I wanted to be younger, but I really tried. This one still doesn't quite fit my youth! Sorry. "
"Look at my figure, I have to lose weight. When I am as good as your figure, I will come to support you more! "
Anyway, I don't want to embarrass myself, let alone others.
If it suits you, but you are short of money.
At this time, the solution of the text is complicated, and how to choose it depends entirely on your three views or mentality:
1, there will always be times when you are cruel: you will get this one for drinking yogurt, licking bottle caps and eating pickles and steamed bread in the past six months.
Life needs to be so capricious, otherwise people will be suppressed.
Spending a handful of money for yourself occasionally is also a sign of self-confidence and self-love.
Didn't Chen Guo, a Feng Mei professor at Fudan University, say that only those who are confident and love themselves can love others?
Just don't always be willful, and be careful with credit card bills!
2, still reluctant to part with this large sum of money: at this time, it is time to test emotional intelligence.
Blushing before speaking will never be elegant.
If you are mentally strong enough, you can "gracefully" prevaricate:
"I like it very much (to be honest, balance myself), but I have to ask my husband to take time to help me look at it. What he likes is the most important thing. "
"I like this one, but I'm always at work. It feels a little too casual to wear it like this!"
You know that overseas purchases often have surprising prices, and then talk to yomi Haitao.
To tell the truth, every time someone sells Arthur Kayano 1399 yuan in the mall, I will scold him N times behind his back for the abbreviation of low IQ.
Talking to yomi Haitao about this topic at this time will often save you a lot of money.
I have a female friend beside me. When I was a colleague, going to the mall to spend money was super scary: 5 thousand yuan bought a small vest and 10 thousand yuan bought a pair of jeans. I'm so jealous that my tongue is about to fall off.
Later, later-she was taken away by the police, saying that she had misappropriated 9 million units.
Tell yomi Haitao, who are the people who spend money around you?
Why go there when you know you can't afford it? Be practical, isn't it? ! If you want to leave gracefully, there is no other way but to pay by credit card! If you go to a counter that you can't afford, even if it doesn't suit you, your departure will not be elegant. After all, you have a guilty conscience.
Life is like a play, it all depends on acting. Make a place for yourself. Image acts more on "consciousness". If you are tall and straight, with a tight face, well-meaning, confident and tolerant, and dressed appropriately (choose relatively decent clothes before shopping), raise your hand as soon as you appear, which is very elegant.
On the influence of people's labels on people: Christian Miller put forward an interesting theory in the book The Gap of Personality. The theory is that if you want a liar to be honest or a timid person to be brave, label them as "honest" or "brave", and after a while, they will make themselves live as described on the label.
Therefore, you need to label yourself first, that is, people set positioning. So before entering the counter, I said to myself: I am a winner/winner, and I am an elegant elite. This product didn't impress me, so I left gracefully. I'll go to another counter to have a look ~
I remember a reader shared several stories about shopping with me the other day. Once, after he tried on the watch, he said to the shop assistant, "If only this watch were bigger." "We have large diameter ones," the salesman replied. "It's not a big diameter, it's a little big. Let me have another look. Please put it back ... "He said.
In fact, discerning people will understand when they see this. This is a euphemism for not buying, but sales are obviously very persistent, and I hope to continue to convince customers.
After three or five times of this conversation, it is a bit embarrassing, and both sides are very depressed.
In fact, I know that many people always feel psychological pressure when they try on clothes or watches when they enter the store. I always feel embarrassed to try. However, in the face of things that you don't like or are not suitable for, there is no better choice but to give up. At this time, the best way is actually to tell the reason frankly.
1, I don't think it looks good on me. It doesn't suit me very well. Of course, I can push myself for some reasons, such as my arms are too fat or my wrists are too thick. Don't say things are not good.
It's beautiful, but it's beyond my budget. I think I need time to think about it.
3. I am still choosing. I want to compare it with other brands to see if it suits me best.
4. I haven't figured out how to match it. Go home and look at my closet. I hope to buy things with more opportunities to wear.
In short, there is no need to deliberately fabricate reasons to prevaricate sales, telling each other what you really think is not harmful to yourself, and it can also avoid further entanglement caused by misunderstanding.
Finally, thank the clerk for his warm service. Come around again next time, and I can walk out of the store with peace of mind.
In fact, after leaving the store, you may never see it again. What's there to worry about?
First of all, have confidence when trying. Don't write on your face that I can't afford it. Not all rich people try and buy it. Hypnotize yourself before going in, I want to buy it! You are generous when you try. Don't treat it as an expensive thing. After the exam, the atmosphere said, thank you. how much is it? Oh, ok, I see. I'll look around again or I'll think it over. Anyway, the aura is very important.
If you want to try that luxury jewelry counter, but you can't afford it, and you are afraid of being despised by sales or people around you, the most important thing is to adjust your mentality and then clarify your purpose. Do you want to feel the visual impact of money, or do you want to know the exquisite and meticulous design of luxury goods? I personally think it is very important to dress appropriately and respect sales. When trying on clothes, you should know the current fashion trend, innovative tailoring of clothes, new color matching, who is the designer of this brand at present, and even talk about the similarities and differences of major brands this season, and clearly express to sales that you want to see the designer's works this season. Whether to buy or not is another matter. You need to know more about watches. Generally speaking, millions of watches like Patek Philippe are basically mechanical watches. To understand the latest and classic models, you can discuss the differences with the sales, try the effect of getting started and the clothes and cars that can be matched. You can completely confess, but the price can't afford it at present. I think a decent and elegant person, even if he doesn't buy it in these stores, will not say anything after trying it politely and generously. Thanks for the sales when you left, which made you understand a lot. If you are really guilty, it means that you want to look at other brands and make a comparison. (Besides, hey, Gucci and Coach are not included. Go in like a nouveau riche and come out like a nouveau riche. Anyway, you are poor and have nothing to say. )
Seriously express your gratitude to the clerk, and if possible, buy a low-priced item to express your gratitude.
There are no cheap goods in the shops of famous watches and high-grade jewelry, but these shops will also have the consciousness of educating potential customers. Therefore, you don't need to buy anything and praise the history or extraordinary quality of the brand itself. It is best to repeat a few words introduced by the clerk and then thank the clerk for his service.
When I see my favorite object when I go shopping, I usually want to try it on. This is normal psychology. But I suggest looking at the price first. If it's really beyond my current capacity, then take a look.
Actually, this is a very boring topic. Maybe it's because men seldom go shopping. However, I have seen that watch before, and I really want to buy a watch that suits my identity because of my work needs, so I went to see it. What I saw was the kind I could afford. The plan is to buy at a price equivalent to about one year's annual salary. But after reading it, I am a little hesitant about whether it is appropriate.
The salesman is really enthusiastic. According to my request, he took out several latest models and tried them on for me.
Finally, I hesitated and had to say to the salesman: thank you, I'll think about it. I'm not embarrassed.