Because of the needs of baby's physical development, night milk is an extremely important and indispensable meal for almost every newborn, but night milk is very important for baby. For parents who want to feed their babies at night, this job is not pleasing. After all, they can't continue to date Duke Zhou beautifully.
Recently I saw a tragedy caused by night milk. When a woman gave her child night milk in the middle of the night, she suddenly felt that the child was not a person, but a ghost, so she threw the child alive.
It happened in February this year 15. According to the usual schedule, the woman's husband took two children to bed around 8 pm, and the younger child was born in June of/kloc-0.
That night, the woman didn't sleep well, tossed and turned in bed, and finally endured until 4 o'clock in the morning. She simply got up and packed up to kill time and sat on the sofa listening to music.
As a result, after a while, I saw that it was almost time to nurse my youngest son, so I went to hold the baby. I didn't expect this hug to have an accident.
According to the woman's recollection afterwards, "When I was holding the doll, his eyes looked at me and were still moving. I'm a little scared. I thought it was not a person, but a ghost! That's why I threw him to the ground. "
So the poor little son was only over a month old, so inexplicably trampled by his mother, and then he said goodbye to this world.
Unexpectedly, unlike the previous comment that "women don't deserve to be mothers", in this incident, netizens didn't make any comments on their mothers. Instead, they all shook out their similar experiences when breastfeeding at night.
Although I have been fed at night for countless times, I suddenly feel creepy when I see so many precious mothers have similar experiences this time. Then I carefully recalled my past night feeding, as if there were similar scenes.
In the comment area, many treasure moms complained that they were afraid to look at their babies, and many treasure moms said that the younger the children, the more they like to look at people, and they are the kind that stare at each other for a long time without blinking. In the middle of the night, especially at night, it really seems very cautious when holding the child to feed.
In fact, this is not just the feelings of the mothers, but the fact.
As we all know, babies' eyes are not born with 5.0 vision. On the contrary, the newborn baby is "blind". Although his eyes look bright and moist, he can hardly see anything.
Explained by an eye chart, the vision of a newborn baby is only 0.0 1-0.02. According to the classification of blindness in China, blindness below 0.02 belongs to the first degree. If adults are in this visual state, they usually need to wear glasses above 1000 degrees, but for babies, we certainly don't do this.
However, although the newborn is blind in the first degree, it does not mean that the baby can't see. In the documentary "What do you think of the first year", the baby's visual development process was filmed from the baby's perspective, showing that the newborn's vision is like high myopia, which can be seen, but can't be seen clearly, which is more excessive than our ordinary myopia "men and women are difficult to distinguish within 5 meters, and people and animals are not divided beyond 5 meters".
In the first month of their lives, they can only see things within 1-3 feet. Even so close, they can't see clearly at all, let alone their mother's face a little farther away. How do they know what is three feet away? Since there is no trace to be found, I can only look straight ahead, causing many precious mothers to be stared at by the baby.
In the experience of staring at each other, there is another thing that treasure moms often mention: "He opened his eyes and looked at me with gray eyes", "Those black eyes are like a bottomless pit" ...
In the past, we always said that children's eyes are black and white, and they look particularly clear and harmless. I didn't expect this to become a deduction for children under the description of the majority of treasure mothers.
In fact, children's eyes are darker than those of adults. This is not an exaggeration of the treasure mothers, it is also a fact.
According to the child's eye development process, in infancy, because of the corner of the eye, the baby's eyes are limited by the surrounding muscles. In the process of growth, the development speed of muscle far exceeds the growth speed of eyeball.
The smaller the baby, the more black pupils are exposed. So in general, the smaller the baby, the bigger the pupil looks, the less white eyeball is exposed, and the darker the eyeball looks.
Compared with adults, the whites of the eyes are bloodshot. As the pigmentation turns yellow and turbid, children's eyes look more intense and black and white. Besides, because of their poor eyesight, they just stare at each other. When the dark wind is high and everything is silent, it will really make the sleepy treasure moms even more inexplicable and even shudder: What are you doing with your eyes wide open in the middle of the night? Can you see it?
Feeding night milk is actually very simple, easy to say, but it is also quite difficult to say. The hardest thing is to fall asleep in a daze, but you have to force yourself to get up and breastfeed your child accurately. You will really feel powerless.
Therefore, for treasure moms, it is best to feed their children according to their abilities. If they can't handle it, please boldly ask their husbands for help. If they can't take care of the children, they should get up at midnight. If you can't take care of the children, please take a month off, at least through the most difficult road of night milk. In the final analysis, we must first ensure that our lives can go on and think about how to live better.
Of course, the most important thing is to read more books and newspapers, eat less snacks and sleep more, study hard and think hard, eat less and exercise more (quoted from a netizen), believe in science, and naturally take your baby more boldly and at ease.