Why can't girls wear gold locks? In the ancient tradition of China, after a baby is born, the family will put a golden lock on the newborn as an amulet. Golden lock usually stands for longevity lock, which means to protect newborns from evil and disasters and live a long and healthy life. Therefore, the implication of the golden lock is very good, but there has been a saying among the people that girls can't wear the golden lock, mainly for the following reasons:
1. feudal thought
Only in ancient times, the concept of men being superior to women was very serious, because they thought that girls would get married anyway, so few families would wear expensive jewelry for girls. Even this feudal thought has been passed down to the present, so there is a saying that girls can't wear gold locks;
2. Prefer boys over girls
In China, son preference is very serious. Since ancient times, only sons can be passed down from generation to generation, so the importance of boys is obvious. Of course, the most valuable gold lock can only be worn by "important" boys;
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There is also a folk saying that girls belong to water. If they wear golden locks, they will be locked by them. So girls can't wear gold locks, they can wear silver locks first.
In fact, the main reasons why girls can't wear gold locks are ancient feudal thoughts and son preference. But now it is 2022, and equality between men and women has been achieved for a long time. Of course, we will not abide by this feudal idea. Besides, the implication of the longevity lock is so good that it can't be a boy's exclusive accessory. Girls can also wear it. Parents don't have to avoid anything. They can wear gold locks and silver locks.
What's the saying about girls wearing gold locks? In life, golden locks are also called longevity locks. Hanging a golden lock on the child's chest is equivalent to locking the child's life. In the future, you can avoid the invasion of diseases and the harm to children. In addition, gold is very strong after tempering. Can bring a lot of protection to children. At the same time, it also symbolizes that children's lives will be smooth sailing, comfortable and rich, and will not be bound by material things. The baby itself has no ability to make money and its lifestyle is very fragile. Wearing a longevity lock means that the future life will be harmonious, beautiful and long-lived. This moral is very good.
Longevity locks are generally provided by close relatives, and parents cannot buy them, such as grandparents, grandparents or children's uncles and aunts. These people can lock their children for life, which is not only a sign of caring for their children's performance, but also a symbol of their deep feelings. However, there is also a custom that after the baby is born 100 days, it is necessary to bring the silver lock first and then the gold lock.
In addition, it should be noted that because the baby's skin is delicate and his physical development is not perfect, he can't always wear a gold lock. After all, the golden lock may come into contact with the baby's skin, or be swallowed by the baby in his mouth, leading to the risk of suffocation. In addition, the baby's neck can't bear too heavy things, so the golden lock can only be worn once, and it doesn't need to be worn for a long time.
What accessories do girls wear? 1. Emerald
Jade has always been a symbol of beauty, and there is also a saying of "keeping peace". Therefore, it is a good choice to choose a jade safety lock or a wishful ring for baby girls. In addition, the texture of jade is warm and bright, and the baby's skin is also very delicate. Wearing jade will not cause adverse reactions and will not harm the baby's skin. Therefore, jade and jade ornaments are the most suitable.
2. Golden gourd
Many babies wear gold and silver jewelry when they are over one year old. However, when wearing gold and silver jewelry for children, more attention should be paid to carefully choosing pendants. You can choose to string a small melon with a red rope for the baby girl to wear, which can not only ward off evil spirits, but also attract others' attention because it is too ostentatious. If you choose a golden gourd pendant, parents are advised to wear a red rope. Red originally meant to celebrate and ensure safety. With melon, you can take care of your baby's healthy growth.
Step 3 match the zodiac pendant
Children should know which zodiac is suitable for their children when they wear the zodiac. Then, they should choose the right zodiac for their children according to their elders. In terms of materials, it is best to choose jade, pure silver and pure gold to avoid baby skin allergies. It also looks very atmospheric.