First of all, both parties should prepare the things needed for engagement, and both men and women should buy snacks such as peanuts, melon seeds, sweets and preserves. In this way, when relatives and friends come, they can not only do it, but also chew melon seeds. Not to mention the woman, buying snacks should not only entertain relatives, but also visit the upcoming man's family. Traditionally, a man goes to a woman's house to get engaged. Take this opportunity, the man can bring the bride price. This is also a custom in some places, and they are not engaged until the wedding day. In fact, this is because they omitted the betrothal, otherwise the bride price would not be sent so late.

The process of the man's engagement to the woman's house needs to be prepared at home, and the bride and groom count the items. When the man drives to the woman's house, the number of people in the car should be even. In some places, references are not counted, only relatives are considered. How to calculate inequality? Even numbers have a good meaning, which means that they will pair up and spend their lives together. The woman likes to welcome guests, welcome them into the house, and then arrange seats. When introducing both parties, it is usually the introducer who introduces them, so that this link can be carried out in an orderly way and the time can be controlled well. It is much more convenient to have a host when you are engaged, and it is clearer when to leave and which step to take. It is not appropriate to miss time because of conversation.

The bride changed her mind when she offered tea. When she delivered the tea to the man's house, she was going to change her mind and call them. You don't have to worry about calling the wrong name with references around. The groom doesn't have to accompany him when offering tea, and the bride can rely on an introducer. In ancient times, two people could not meet before marriage, so the importance of references appeared. When the tea is taken away, there will be empty plates. According to the custom, relatives of men should wrap red envelopes, and in some places, red envelopes are only available when they get married. In fact, in principle, there should also be an engagement red envelope, the amount does not need to be too large, and the introducer will deliberately increase the amount to look good.

Exchange rings when you are engaged. This is an engagement ring. You should take it off when you get married. Usually gold. The next step is to end the process and formally sit down. At this point, the engagement process is over.