The translation is as follows:
An upright man is open and poised while a petty man is anxious and worried. -A gentleman is broad-minded and tolerant of others; Little people love to haggle over every ounce and are narrow-minded.
Don't attract people by words, don't waste people by words. A gentleman does not recommend others by words, nor does he refuse to adopt his good words because he is not nice to him.
Extended data:
The sentence is magnanimous, a petty man is anxious and worried.. "is a famous saying since ancient times. Many people often write this as a banner and hang it in their rooms to motivate themselves. Confucius believes that as a gentleman, you should have a broad mind, tolerate others, tolerate all kinds of events, regardless of personal gains and losses. It is impossible to be a gentleman if you are narrow-minded, embarrassed by others, embarrassed by yourself, and often embarrassed.
Confucius believes that a gentleman should pay attention to the moral principles of righteousness, courtesy, inferiority and faith; He is strict with himself and tries his best to be the "three immortals" who make contributions and pass them on to future generations; His behavior is solemn and harmonious with others, but he does not form a party for personal gain, nor does he value others with words, nor does he waste words with others, and so on. Of course, this is only part of the characteristics of a gentleman.
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Baidu Encyclopedia-The Analects of Confucius _ Wei Linggong