Reflections on inspirational stories of college entrance examination (1)
It's flowering season again.
It is difficult for me to sort out all the feelings of the past year, including the present. Language always restricts the expression of emotions to some extent. In the dark night, I used to stay up until one or two in senior four, and it was difficult to fall asleep at once when I got home. Lying in bed, I actually started thinking about something. I thought, at least it's much better now. I remember that in the past year, my dream was as simple and urgent as everyone else, but I was more confused than everyone else. That year, I was a senior three.
20 10, I am a fairy bird under the olive tree.
For me, the most important thing in the first half of this century is my college entrance examination.
For three years in high school, I hardly took anything in my hand. It was a terrible day, like a colorful black hole, which looked dreamy, but the ghostly attraction unconsciously pulled you to the bottomless abyss. What's even more frightening is that I knew all this was happening, but I didn't stop it. In retrospect, it was just cowardice and laziness. But at that time, no one pointed at the tip of my nose and scolded me, saying, "Do you just want to play for a lifetime?" Sometimes I think, maybe they have given up on me. In fact, at that time, there really should be a person, as many people have experienced, pointing to the tip of my nose and saying, "Do you know what you are doing, what you want, and what your tomorrow will be?"
However, people who don't care will have their own bottom line. So, it finally got what it deserved. 20 10, I thought about repeating it before the college entrance examination, but I naturally failed later. Perhaps, only when people are in pain will they seriously reflect on which step they have taken wrong, and they will always fall on the road of learning to detour. It took me three years to understand this simple truth. I've been thinking, what about that arrogant guy in junior high school? Maybe I lost him. Dream of returning to the dominant era of junior high school. Fortunately, it took me three years to get that sentence. Fortunately, it is not a loss, nor is it too late.
20 10 June 16, Xiamen night. I slept with Ye Cheng and Magnum. That night was a turning point. We three brothers were lying in bed chatting, and then talked about the future university. I found that we were a lot worse. That night, I couldn't sleep for a long time at that time, and I suddenly realized the hope of my parents and friends. I just suddenly woke up and felt that my life could not just pass. Afterwards, many people asked me what happened. Maybe they wanted to hear a legendary story about the prodigal son returning from me, but the only explanation I could think of at that time was this sentence. I just don't think my life should be played like this.
It is in everyone's helpless or sarcastic or meaningless eyes that I resolutely wrote my name on the registration form for re-reading in No.7 Middle School.
In September, I began to weave dreams.
The great seventh middle school, let me know my most unforgettable teacher for more than 20 years-Shui Zhen (the great physicist in the future, Sister Zhen). Through her, I also know the secret of growing up in the seventh year-never give up. I like a sentence in Xie Xuan Space very much: "Sometimes God doesn't give you what you want, not because you don't deserve it, but because you deserve better." I still remember at the beginning of the semester, the teacher said, "Life is incomplete without repetition." Let's clap our hands and say yes. At that time, I only had a dream-chasing heart. So here, I began to weave my beautiful dream. On September 23rd, the teacher gave us a form to fill in the goals for the coming year. I wrote "Dalian Maritime University" neatly on it.
That was really the first time in my life that I wrote well.
But I know that if you want to get a maritime notice, you must show courage and action. I think Zi Ling is the same. so I ... ...
I began to struggle and made several notes for three weeks. Read books and take notes during the day, and stay up until two o'clock at night to study in the small classroom. I know I have left too much to make up for, and there is no shortcut except burning the midnight oil. I just believe that heaven rewards diligence.
About my dream. When I first came to No.7 Middle School, I wanted to set a goal for myself. So I started with my good friend's university. At first, I wanted to decide on foreign trade and economic cooperation, but I found that the goal was too high and I was a little overwhelmed. So I found Dalian Maritime University. From then on, I remind myself how far it is from maritime affairs every day, and I have never changed it until now.
I bought a small notebook to record my daily life and wrote three big ones. Dalian's ocean dream is so powerful that I am full of ambition. I know I can't afford to lose, otherwise it will be difficult for me to get out of the winter of 20 10. When I was in senior three, my choice was no choice. I keep telling myself I can't come here for nothing.
However, I underestimated the impact of the past three years. Some bad study methods and habits. It's not that simple. It's really not that simple. Then I didn't do well in the first monthly exam. That night, I was suddenly very scared. I asked myself, why did I come? Go to college, a good university. What does a good university need? High score. 10: 30 After the evening self-study, I went to Quanzhou Bridge alone-a bridge that witnessed my height of three kilometers. Finally, I didn't have the strength and leaned against the railing next to me. I even began to think about whether it was worth it or not, and whether I was doing nothing.
After I went back, I made adjustments again. If you choose this path, you must be responsible for it, and this choice is precisely related to learning. After 65438+ 02: 30 in the morning, I was the only one left in the small classroom. I took out my test paper and analyzed it. Chinese and English have reached the top three in the class, which is not bad. Just keep it up. Others are headache math and science. I began to explore some methods. On July 7th, Wei Zi came to see me and gave me a note of her composition. I will make good use of it.
65438+1October 2 1 and Jingwentong on the phone. She was about to have a video chat with her father when I happened to call her. I said I would call her later, but Wen Jing said, no, no, my study is much more important than what happened to her. At that moment, there was only one thought in my mind: If I didn't do well in the exam, I would really be sorry for Wen Jing.
On Saturday, October 23rd, 65438/KLOC-0, I met my math teacher in high school on the bus back to Quanzhou. I took the opportunity to ask the teacher some ideas about mathematics in the car and talked for more than an hour, which really helped me a lot.
165438+1On the afternoon of October 7th, I went to Quanzhou Normal University. Xiao Min showed me around and invited me to dinner, which made me feel that the atmosphere was really good. After returning to school, I cut my hair very short, which saved me more than 80 days from cutting my hair. The classmate joked: "Nothing can be taken away, which is not handsome." I said, "It's not ugly now, and it will never look good in the future."
I began to make friends with teachers in various subjects, walked with them, and then asked them for some advice. I talked to all the students who are good at science in my class. There are many feelings. When efforts are replaced by efforts, Shangri-La has become an eternal distant and hazy dream in my heart, and all efforts are just to make this dream no longer "picturesque", even if the sky is high and the clouds are light, even if the green water is surging. Then I threw myself into my busy study. In my life, besides the college entrance examination, I also took the college entrance examination. I really feel that I got rid of any distractions in the summer vacation and can fight wholeheartedly in No.7 Middle School. All that's left is the method. I still didn't do well in the second monthly exam. But I didn't cry. The teacher asked us to write a summary and hand it in. Everyone wrote it in a few minutes. But I spent two whole classes writing. In addition to analyzing the advantages and disadvantages of each subject, I also drew a line chart of the results of these two exams, and then attached a letter to the teacher. I wrote on it: "I know I will fail in the big exam, but I will never give up my efforts and hope." Environment can only affect me, but it can't determine my future. Only I decide my future ... My dream is Dalian Maritime University. I believe that when my dream is strong enough, I can change the direction of the wind and the color of the sky. "
I still remember that the teacher called my mother after reading it that night and said, "Yan Chao is a talent, don't worry." This sentence undoubtedly played a key role in the next road, thanks to my dear teacher Shuizhen.
So I don't stay up late, go to bed on time at night 12: 30, and then study in the classroom at 6: 00 during the day. Sometimes,
Is the first in the school. It is not the alarm clock that wakes me up every morning, but my dream. At that time, I was crazy. I stood in the corridor and said to the sky dozens of times, "I must be admitted to Dalian Maritime."
Then sit down and write down the schedule for the day. In fact, things change every day, so it should be effective to set a total task for one week and then limit it to one week. In short, I have borne too many expectations, from my parents, classmates and friends. I have to work hard to make progress. I believe that there is no failure in life, only self-abandonment; As long as you don't give up, your dream will come true one day. The arrangement of evening self-study is calculated by hours. In the process of doing the problem, I recited many formulas and problem-solving methods and skills. If you can't meet it, ask the teacher, ask your classmates, ask who you caught, simply ask, don't be invincible at all, and the harvest is that you are no longer afraid from the bottom of your heart and dare to solve the problem according to your own ideas. Slowly, there are fewer and fewer cracks on the surface.
Finally, I smelled the fragrance of fruit.
The third monthly exam, the results have improved a lot. Although not in the class, but progress. This let me know that the efforts of the past two months have not been in vain. However, only conscience and reason remind me that I am still far from maritime affairs, so far that I can't even dream of it. I remind myself that I can't be complacent because of a little change in my learning attitude. I began to force myself to study in the corner. At that time, I didn't dare to do anything to myself. I really couldn't afford it. I just keep trying with an idea. Then came the most dramatic month of my life. I am an extremely active person by nature. I can't believe that the person sitting still in my place from 6 am to evening 1 1 can be myself. At that time, I was eating grass like an ox. I never knew that when the pressure was great enough, people's potential could be stimulated to that extent. I found it when I was doing it bit by bit. I've changed a lot. Sometimes I can't help it, my heart begins to be impetuous and my eyes begin to wander. It's just that when I'm on the verge of the most danger, I always press it and tell myself that when I can't help it, I can't help it. I admit that I am a very arrogant person at heart. I just don't believe that I can be worse than anyone if I try. I just don't believe that when I really do something, I can't do it. I just don't believe that there is really anything impossible in this world. Indeed, nothing is impossible. I know there is a clear sky at the top of the dark clouds, and I will always work harder than the first one. Life will not be bitter for a lifetime, but it will always be bitter for a while. College entrance examination is not a way to change life, but it is definitely an effective way. Think about the college entrance examination at any time and remind yourself to be clear-headed at any time. Zhibin, a good brother of Class Five, gave me a sentence: I have a house in my heart that will never fall down, and that is hope. Give what others can't give, and you can get what others can't get. You never know how good you are until you push yourself.
165438+1At noon on October 24th, I went to print the pictures of Dalian Maritime University. Including the old and new school gates, the school badge, the education wheel and the scenery of Xinghai Square, forget that beautiful female mounted police, or the guys who took them back to Class 5 will think badly. Ha ha. Those photos suggested to me that I was important. I put them in books on various subjects and then take them out when I am tired. The power of dreams is really powerful. I write down my dreams in every book, or read "learn from others and help the world with virtue". I wrote in my diary that day: Now I can stare at the morning star in front of me. Even out of the dark is not afraid! Dalian's clear ocean goal makes the sacred mission come to my life. I can bravely cross all obstacles, I can resolutely overcome all weaknesses, I can turn a blind eye to all temptations, just because I have a clear dream in my heart and I know where I should go.
65438+February 18 is my birthday. That night, my brothers Chang 'an, Jeff, Zhinan, Yu Kai (14' s good friend) and Peng Juan of Class 5 gave me a birthday. We are very happy. Then I went back early in the morning. It was Zi Ling's birthday. I'm a day late. Hey, I left her a message, and the next day she encouraged me to cheer. Such friends are really good. At that time, our Class 5 was discussing,
Four beautiful things in life: ten years of drought, meeting nectar, and meeting an old friend in Wan Li. On the monk's wedding night, the boy was ranked first at birth.
I think, if I can enter the maritime field. It should be regarded as a wonderful thing in life.
Then, I ushered in the long-awaited final exam. I still remember the feeling after the exam. Walking on the road with a book in my arms, staring blankly at the busy people coming and going, wondering if I really finished the exam? Why is there no landing in my heart? It was really the most special exam in my life, because it related to my future direction and road choice. I got 573 points that time. My teacher smiled and told me that according to the annual ranking, maritime affairs can enter and continue to refuel. I can't imagine how important this result is to me. I was unusually calm when I knew my grades. At that time, I realized that the impulse of agitation and shouting will only be calm when it reaches the peak. Standing in the corridor, looking at the stars in the distance, I silently said to myself, "Remember, nothing is impossible in this world." I was thinking, even if Dalian Maritime has only one global enrollment quota, why can't that person be me? Nothing in this world is impossible.
65438+1October 19 In the morning of the fourth class, teacher Shuizhen was very sad because our class failed in the comprehensive science exam. I feel guilty when I see the teacher's eyes that seem to be wet. I must work hard to satisfy my teacher. In the evening, on Zhibin's birthday, he invited me to dinner, and we talked about our dreams. He wants to take an examination of Duff, and Chen Da P is a very strong person.
That winter, the whistling wind smelled of earth, and our hair was unkempt and our skin was rough. Dark circles, swollen eyes, dry fingers, and blisters on the corners of the mouth. That winter, I don't know whether it was pink, blue, fruit green or indigo, silver and gray. Whether I am used to the poetry of Yang Liuan Xiaofeng and the waning moon, I am used to the artistic meaning of graffiti. I remember sitting down as "what the hell, ABCD."
The day before the winter vacation, the students in Class 5 were very excited. Everyone's mood was boiling, and the whole class almost evaporated. I walked quietly into the corridor alone and looked at the scenery of the city. It's really beautiful. The winter sunshine shines coolly in my eyes through my eyelashes, and my eyes quietly look at the distant sky. I said a word. Facing the distant sky, I silently said to myself, "Wait, I want you to witness a miracle." I know that nothing in this world is impossible. Dalian Maritime I can really do it.
Winter vacation, yearning for the university
When I got home, I was very happy to see those lovely boys in junior high school. Listening to Yingze's legendary story in Central South University, the first semester of Menglong North China Electric Power University is no less than the struggle of senior three, and it is no less than the colorful life of Yecheng Zhongnan University of Economics and Law. I'm glad to hear that. Besides, I met my brother, Wen Bin, in high school. He and Yingze are my harvest in high school, and sometimes I think. I also went to Peihua's house where Yingze and I had been lurking for many days.
On February 5, the third day of the first month, I went out to play with my brothers and sisters in junior high school. When I saw Zi Ling, I really wanted to ask her about her maritime life, because I was curious. But seeing that she is still so beautiful, I know life at sea should be very happy. The winter vacation is only seven days. It's short, but it's enjoyable. The day before I returned to No.7 Middle School, Peihua and Jie Zhen and I went to play Kongming Lantern. Pei Hua made a wish for me when she made a wish. I accepted it gladly.
20 1 1, finally boarded Tianbao Jinshi.
Nothing in the world is impossible, I think so.
Go back to school and continue a boring but fulfilling life. I know that such a simple and boring life, I can only walk into the maritime affairs. Sometimes I think of something that happened this year, but life can't erase the past without an eraser. Only grasp
Only now can we create a bright future.
Xiamen quality inspection will be directly ushered in two or three days after the start of school. I didn't realize that I didn't study hard until I went back during the winter vacation. I'm a little scared, but think about it. No one in senior four has ever seen any big waves. What are you afraid of? So the mentality was adjusted. After the results came out, I was the fifth in my class. I am very excited this time and encourage myself in my diary. Believe in your future more firmly. But I still saw the gap with Penglong and put out a lot of fires for me. So I can keep a clear head.
There is always boredom, and occasionally I am complacent about my small success. When I first entered the second semester, my obsession with dreams reached its limit. I'll talk to Yi Jing for a while. I don't know how many times I talk to her a year. She has always taken care of me. Sometimes I think that if she had been in high school, she wouldn't be here.
On February 19, Mr. Shuizhen called me to the podium to chat. She asked me to raise math 120 and science about 250. She believed me. Moved at the same time, it also made me more confident.
On February 20th, I got the first place in the physics exam, and I was a little happy.
On the evening of February 24th, I stood in the corridor and looked at the distant scenery. The wind blows gently on my face and I feel very comfortable. I think it must be great to stand at Maritime University in September this year and blow the evening breeze in my spare time.
On February 25th, after the evening self-study, Xu Na and I discussed how to improve math. She gave me some advice, and I also gave her some advice on English. In a word, the learning atmosphere in Class Five is very good.
Chatting with teacher Shuizhen on February 26th. It turns out that Miracle, a senior student admitted to Dalian Maritime University in 0xx session, is the daughter of a teacher in No.7 Middle School. The teacher asked me if I wanted her number to communicate with her. I smiled and said no, I also have good friends in maritime affairs. On February 27, the 100-day oath ceremony. Let me feel the power of No.7 Middle School.
On February 29th, my classmates said that the white skirt I was wearing today looked like a navy uniform. I'm so happy.
On March 1 day, I was lying in bed listening to CCTV's "The Sound of Music" 100-day swearing-in program for the college entrance examination, so excited that I couldn't sleep at 2 o'clock.
On March 5th, Wei Zi said that she would meet me outside, but I was afraid that meeting her would affect my mood, so I didn't let her come. Actually, my hair is too short to see her, hehe. Thank you. I hope I am standing in front of you as a student of Shanghai University. On March 17, I walked Quanzhou Bridge with Zhibin and talked about the past. I just sigh that everyone's life path is different. Perhaps the choices I made at the beginning have inadvertently changed the future, but for me now, everything in the past is not important. The most important thing is my college entrance examination on 20 1 1 and how to go in the future. Now, there are still 82 days before the college entrance examination, and I have reflected. 20 10 failed in the college entrance examination. I don't think so. My parents don't think so. My teacher thinks so, so I can't. But 20 1 1, I want to go to sea. Teachers think it's okay, parents think it's okay, classmates think it's okay, friends think it's okay, God thinks it's okay, I think it's okay, so I believe it's okay.
On April 24th, Wen Jia put it very well: I should go to Grade One even if I die, and I should be admitted to a better Grade One.
Then a senior from Tongji University told me, "In fact, as a repeat student, you already know what you want to do every day, at least until June 9 ... so you should know how to control your mentality and thoughts and live a low-key life every day. Except for your study and health, everything else has nothing to do with you. All you want is the results of the college entrance examination, the most authentic. Let them go with others ... live mechanically every day without thinking too much.
On March 30th, Shanghai Donghua University, where Hanlin Art applied, passed. I am happy to tell our brothers and sisters in Class Five. Everyone is looking forward to the university coming again.
On April 4th, I didn't take good care of my health. I got the second serious illness in high school for four years and vomited eight times a day. You can only sleep sitting, not lying down. I had to go to the hospital for infusion for 3 days. My cousin Jing is a nurse and has been taking care of me. Makes me feel that I must thank my sister in the future. Zi Ling happened to send it to me during the infusion, so I wouldn't have too much pressure. I thought about it, it's really wrong to only care about my health these days. Then my cousin drove me around Quanzhou city, and the night scene was beautiful.
Reflections on Inspirational Stories of College Entrance Examination (Ⅱ)
Life is like a game. The more experiences, the more failures and the closer to success. A life without waves is a flawed life, and people who have not experienced wind and frost are not confident.
Someone once said: Without the scouring of the river bed, there would be no brilliance of diamonds; Without rough waves, there would be no preciousness of jewelry. In other words, frustration is an indispensable obstacle to life and an indispensable road to success. Frustration is a compulsory course for human beings; Frustration is a stumbling block to failure ... Frustration, like a terrible evil devil and a respectable lucky goddess, is a turning point of fate.
Calm lake water can't make a thin sailor, and comfortable environment can't make a great man of the times. At all times and in all countries, which great man has not suffered from wind and frost, and which great man has not gone through hardships and embarked on the road to success? The answer is: no! There is no great man who has not gone through the wind and frost before he embarked on the road to success. Mao Zedong, the great leader, Lu Xun, the great literary master, Fan Zhongyan, the ancient poet, and Lincoln, the president of the United States ... their indomitable spirit inspired us to March forward fearlessly.
Look only at what you have, not what you have lost. A person's life will not be perfect, there can be no beautiful face, and there can be no countless money; It is impossible to have eternal health and attractive interest. Don't look at what you lack, look at what you have, what's special about you, and what's special value. Helen Keller of the United States did not give up or feel inferior. Through her own efforts and struggles, she finally became a world-famous writer and poet!
We should have the courage to work hard for our future. Let's summon up courage and meet the challenge of life! It is rare to see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain! I silently said to myself: let the storm come more violently!
Reflections on Inspirational Stories of College Entrance Examination (Ⅲ)
There's an old saying in China, it's called an iron camp.
I believe that in the early days of starting a business, when someone in the team left, there must be many entrepreneurs who took this sentence to comfort themselves. But I think this sentence is misleading, because he regards the relationship between battalion (company) and soldiers (officers) as a pure employment relationship. For the entrepreneurial team, if every employee regards what he does as a job and a tool to support his family and solve financial problems, then this camp will never be made of iron, but of paper, and it will collapse at the slightest sign.
From another point of view, the most valuable asset in the early stage of starting a business is not an idea, let alone a grand plan. Entrepreneurship is a marathon relay race and a long and arduous process. No one can fail to reach the goal in seven or eight years. At the same time, you are required to 100 meter speed race. All this requires an excellent entrepreneurial team to carry out and advance wave after wave. The spirit of changing the world remains unchanged, and the incentive mechanism that binds personal interests and corporate interests has always been there. Therefore, I think whether the camp is made of iron or paper depends on whether you have an excellent team.
Building an excellent team is a problem that must be faced in the whole process of starting a business. Different people have different views on how to build an excellent team, but I think the key is to grasp three points:
First, don't aim at getting rich, you must have some degree of idealism. I have worked in the internet industry for more than ten years, and I have never seen a team work together to solve financial problems and finally succeed. On the contrary, once such a team encounters setbacks, it is easy to be pessimistic and disappointed; Or once there is a greater temptation of real interests outside, the team will easily fall apart. Not long ago, I asked a human resources person to do a statistic for me to see who my colleagues have worked with me for more than ten years, eight years and five years. In this group of people, some have been working with me since I started my business; Some of them were colleagues in Founder, and later I joined in when I was making 372 1. Others joined my team at Yahoo, left for a few years, and later joined 360. After reading this list, I am very emotional. If I had told them to come out and work with me, when we were rich, we would drink and eat meat in a big bowl and share the money with the scales. I don't think they will cooperate with me for so long. On the contrary, our goal is to make cattle's internet products and make people's internet life more convenient and safer. With this goal, everyone can persevere.
Second, there must be an incentive mechanism to bind everyone's interests together. To build a team, I don't want my employees to come simply for money, because there are too many speculators. But I have to consider financial problems for my employees. In today's society, no one can avoid customs. Even idealists always have to support their families and live a decent and dignified life in society. Moreover, entrepreneurship is something that consumes people's health and burns youth. For those who are willing to work together with enterprises, we should not just say yes to them, but sign an agreement so that these young people can share the benefits in the future. Otherwise, wealth will be scattered and there will be no future. Because of this, 360 made an employee stock ownership plan from the beginning. At first, the employee's shareholding ratio reached 40%, and after several rounds of dilution, it fell to 22% before listing. This ratio is considered in today's Internet companies. I feel that the interests of the team and the interests of the company are tied to the stock option system proved to be effective in the west. After these things are done, it is better to talk about idealism and do ideological work.
Third, solve the problem of the alternation of the old and the new, and leave some benefits for the future. Enterprises take detours in the process of growth, and it is certain to encounter setbacks. At this time, some team members will leave because they don't agree with the future development direction, or because they are tempted by greater practical interests. Similarly, different stages require different talents and different professional skills. Only when new people come in constantly can the enterprise have a future. I have never seen a team go to success invariably. Even Liu, Taoyuan's best friend, needs Zhao Yun, Huang Zhong and Zhuge Liang to conquer the world. In my opinion, the new way to solve the alternation between the old and the new is through the incentive system. For example, 360, the old employees have strong technical ability, practical work style, and are not arrogant and impetuous, which is an example for newcomers. They are not management, but take the route of technical experts and are respected by newcomers. For newcomers, they are not just migrant workers. According to the evergreen plan, 360 will maintain the proportion of 5% of the total share capital every year and issue options to employees who have made outstanding contributions. Maintaining the ratio of 5% means diluting the ratio of other investors, but I told investors that the purpose of designing such a reservoir is to attract talents and closely tie the interests of newcomers with the future of the enterprise, so that everyone will have the motivation to do things. The value generated by this enthusiasm is far greater than the value diluted. Investors are knowledgeable people who are familiar with the Internet industry and agreed without saying a few words. This is what I call "saving some benefits for the future".
It is reported that the shelves in my office are covered with hair. I really don't know how this kind of out of thin air came about. I read a lot, mostly translating management books. In fact, Maslow has made it very clear that people's needs are hierarchical, and different stages have different stages of needs. All kinds of incentive systems and management methods of western enterprises are based on the understanding of human nature. So what I'm talking about here is nothing new, such as forming a team, designing an incentive mechanism, completing the alternation of old and new, and establishing an "iron camp" in this way. I suggest you read more, not against human nature, and naturally get twice the result with half the effort in team building.