A historical story that is good at listening to others' opinions Zou Ji satirizes Coach Ke (original and translation). Zou Ji satirizes Coach Ke. He is more than eight feet long and looks good. Get up in the morning, dress up, look in the mirror and say to his wife, "I am better than Xu Gong in the north of the city. Who is more beautiful? " ? "His wife said," you are very beautiful. How can Gong be as good as Gong Ye! "Xugong in the north of the city is the most beautiful man in Qi. Zou Ji didn't believe in himself, so he asked his concubine, "Who is more beautiful than Xugong? " ? " My concubine said: How can Gong be as good as you? On Sunday, a guest came from outside to chat with him and asked him, "Which is more beautiful, Xugong or me?" The guest said, "Xu Gong is not as beautiful as you!" Xu Gong will come tomorrow, who will see it and feel inferior; Look at yourself in the mirror, as far as the horizon. Thinking about it at dusk, I said, "My wife is beautiful and I am private; The beauty of my concubine is afraid of me; The beauty of the guest is me, I want my things. " So he went to the court to see Wang Wei and said, "I sincerely know that Xu Hongmei is not as good as Xu Hongmei. My wife is a private minister, my concubine is afraid of me, and everything my guests want is more beautiful than Xu Gong. Today, the land is thousands of miles away and there are 120 cities. Ladies-in-waiting are private kings, and courtiers are not afraid of kings. They all want the king to be within four borders: from this point of view, the king is very sheltered. " Qi Weiwang said, "You speak very well!" ! "He ordered:" Whoever can stab me in the face will be rewarded; There will be a reward for those who write and exhort me; Those who can slander the city and hear my ears will be rewarded. "At the beginning of the order, the ministers remonstrated and the door was crowded; After a few months, from time to time; Years later, although I wanted to talk, I couldn't get in. Yan, Zhao, Han and Wei are all Qi people. This is the imperial court, and there is no need to use war to defeat the enemy. Zou Ji satirized the King of Qi. Zou Ji is more than eight feet tall and has a beautiful figure. One morning, Zou Ji put on his coat and hat and said to his wife in the mirror, "I am more beautiful than Xu Gong in the north of the city." His wife said, "You are beautiful. What's gong compared with you? "Xu Gong in the north of the city is a handsome man of Qi. Zou Ji didn't believe that he would be more beautiful than Xu Gong, so he asked his concubine, "Who is more beautiful than Xu Gong?" I said, "how can I compare with you Gong? "The next day, a guest came from outside. Qi Zou sat chatting with him. Zou Ji asked him again: "I am more beautiful than Xu Gong. The guest said, "Xu Gong is not as beautiful as you." . "Another day, Xu Gong came. Zou Ji looked at it carefully and felt that he was not as beautiful as Xu Gong. Look at yourself in the mirror again and feel that you are far less beautiful than Xu Gong. After lying down at night and thinking about it, she said, "My wife thinks I'm beautiful and partial to me. ":I think I am beautiful because I am afraid of me. The guests think I am beautiful and want something from me. " So Zou Ji went to appear before Qi Weiwang and said, "I know I'm not as beautiful as Xu Gong. But my wife is partial to me, my concubine is afraid of me, and my guests want something from me. They all think I am more beautiful than Xugong. Now Qi has a territory of thousands of miles and 120 cities. There is no one in the palace who doesn't like you. No one in North Korea is afraid of you. There is no one in the country who doesn't want you: from this point of view, your majesty, you have been deeply deceived! " Qi Weiwang said, "Good!" He ordered: "Those officials and people, big or small, who can accuse my mistakes face to face will be rewarded by their superiors;" Those who give me written advice will get a medium reward; Those who can criticize and discuss my mistakes in public and spread them to my ears will get inferior rewards. "As soon as the order came out, many ministers came to remonstrate, and there were as many people in the courtyard in front of the palace as in the market; A few months later, occasionally someone came to remonstrate; After a full year, even if someone wants to remonstrate, there is nothing to say. Yan, Zhao, Han, Wei and other countries came to the State of Qi to appear before the King of Qi. This is the so-called victory over other countries in court.

Being good at listening to historical stories, once a man from a small country came to China to pay tribute to three identical gold people, which made the emperor very happy. However, the people of this small country are not kind, and at the same time, a question arises: who is the most valuable of these three gold people? The emperor thought of many ways to ask the jeweler to check, weigh and watch the work, all of which were exactly the same. What shall we do? The messenger is still waiting for a return. A vast country, you don't even understand this little thing? Finally, an old minister who abdicated said that he had an idea. The emperor invited the emissary to the main hall, and the old minister confidently took three straws and inserted them into the ear of the first gold man. The straw came out of the other ear. The straw of the second gold man fell out directly from his mouth, and the straw of the third gold man fell into his stomach without any noise. The old minister said: the third gold man is the most valuable! The messenger was silent and the answer was correct. This story tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the most talkative person. God gave us two ears and one mouth, which was supposed to make us listen more and talk less. Being good at listening is the most basic quality of a mature person.

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Believe other people's historical stories, and pass them on.

During the Spring and Autumn Period, Jin Xiangong wanted to attack the State of Guo through the road of Yu, and at the same time sent BMW and valuable gifts to Yu. The monarch of the state of Yu was greedy for money, but the doctor dissuaded him from saying, "Guo is a close neighbor of the state of Yu, and its demise will inevitably lead to the demise of the state of Yu." The monarch of the state of Yu refused to listen to advice and promised to cross the border with 8 Jin Army. As a result, the state of Jin destroyed the state of Guo, and immediately destroyed the danger.

What Confucius said is similar to a threesome who is good at listening to others' opinions.

100 Historical Story of Thinking for Others Liu Kuan of the Eastern Han Dynasty was gentle and kind-hearted. He never loses his temper. Even when he was in a hurry, he had never seen his face severe, and his words were urgent. His wife also felt strange about this, in order to test Liu Kuan's measurement and to arouse his anger. On one occasion, just as Liu Kuan was dressing and preparing to go to court, his wife ordered the maid-in-waiting to go in with the broth, deliberately knocking it over and soiling Liu Kuan's court clothes. However, Liu Kuan's look remained unchanged, and he still expressed concern to the ladies-in-waiting, saying, "Did you burn the broth?" His generosity made people all over the world call him a generous elder.

Bingji drivers in the Western Han Dynasty liked to drink and often indulged in it. Once I went out with him, got drunk and threw up in the prime minister's car. The official in charge of Xicao reported to Bingji that he wanted to expel the man. Bingji said, "If this person is expelled because of drunkenness, where will he be?" Put up with him, Cao Xi. Just soiled the mattress of the Prime Minister's car. "As a result, the driver was not abandoned. The driver is from the border county, familiar with the warning of the border jam, and wants to run for his life in case of any accident. Once when I went out, I saw a post rider with a red and white pocket and a fast horse from the border county arrived. The driver followed the post and rode on the bus to inquire. Knowing that a foreign enemy had invaded Yunhe County, he quickly went back to the house to see Bingji and reported the situation, saying, "I'm afraid a foreign enemy has invaded the border county. If the first-class official of 2000 Stone is too old and sick to withstand the military disaster, he should be able to take care of him in advance. Bingji thought this was correct, so he asked Cao Dong to check the border counties and write down these people. Haven't finished reading, Liu Xun summoned the prime minister, suggestion, and asked them about the Japanese invasion of the border county magistrate collectors. Bingji answered one by one, but the suggestion doctor was too hasty to know in detail, so he was blamed. Bingji is said to be able to worry about things all the time and never forget his duties. It turned out that he relied on the strength of the driver. Bing Ji lamented: "Scholars have nothing to tolerate, but they can have their own strengths. If the prime minister doesn't listen to the driver first, how can he be rewarded? "As a result, history books even think that Bingji is capable.

I suggest you go to forbearance and persuasion.

Emperors in history who can listen to others' opinions with an open mind 1. Liu Xiu, Emperor Guangwu of Han Dynasty, made a "strong order": a servant of Princess Huyang, the sister of Emperor Guangwu, killed someone and hid in his master's house. Luoyang ordered Dong Xuan to design, catch the murderer and behead him in front of Princess Populus euphratica. Princess Huyang complained to Emperor Guangwu, who was furious and called Dong Xuan, ready to order his execution. Dong Xuan was fearless and asked Liu Xiu if he wanted the world. Or are you trying to cover up the killer? Guangwudi was speechless and had to let Dong Xuan go. However, Princess Populus euphratica refused, and Emperor Guangwu could not step down, so he had to order Dong Xuan to kowtow and apologize to Princess Populus euphratica. Unexpectedly, Dong Xuan became more disobedient, propped up his hands, and left and right courtiers pressed his head hard. He just refused to kowtow and lost face. Emperor Guangwu had no choice but to reprimand Dong Xuan: "Give orders!" Strength, that is, stiff neck, actually declared Dong Xuan innocent and praised him. Sure enough, he was rewarded a lot afterwards. Dong Xuan distributed all the rewards to his subordinates. From then on, the royal family in Luoyang dared not run amok.

2. Liu Bei, Emperor Zhao Lie of Shu Han: After Guan Yu died, he refused to listen to Zhao Yun. Zhuge Liang bluntly suggested that he set out to attack Wu. As a result, in the battle of Xiaoting, Lu Xun burned 700 Li, and he himself died in Baidicheng.

3. Emperor Wen of the Southern Song Dynasty: "Self-destruct the Great Wall" and kill general Tan Daoji at will. At the end of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, Emperor Wu of Song attacked the post-Qin Dynasty, and repeatedly made meritorious military service. In the eighth year of Yuanjia (AD 43 1), Wei was attacked and the enemy did not dare to pursue it. Emperor Wen, as an important official of the previous dynasty, was good at using troops, so he killed him. When he was killed, he said angrily, "This is the Great Wall of Wan Li!" Tan Daoji was killed in vain, and the Chinese people were saddened. The news reached Pingcheng (now Datong, Shanxi), and the generals of the Northern Wei Dynasty congratulated each other: "When Tan Daoji died, Wu people were fearless!" In the twenty-seventh year of Yuanjia, Emperor Wendi ordered a Northern Expedition. The Eastern Front was repeatedly frustrated, which led wei ren to Guabu South and wanted to drink horses along the Yangtze River. Facing the opponent separated by a river, Song Wendi sighed: "If Tan Daoji is here, why is Huma here?" ! "But at this time TanDaoJi has flexor died for fourteen years.

4. Tang Suzong Hengli: In September of the first year of Gan Yuan (AD 758), Tang Suzong ordered 600,000 troops from Guo Ziyi, Hedong and Li Guangbi provinces to besiege Xiangzhou and crusade against An Qingxu. Guo Ziyi and Li Guangbi have the greatest exploits and the highest prestige among the soldiers who participated in the war for nine times. Su Zong didn't want to hand over the military power to them, so he didn't set up a commander-in-chief, but only appointed eunuch Yu Chaoen as the "commander-in-chief" to command the army and command the overall situation. An Lushan led Shi Siming to rescue An Qingxu with 6.5438+0.3 million yuan. In March of Gan Yuan's second year (AD 759), he fought fiercely with Tang Jun. Yu Chaoen didn't know the art of war at all, and he didn't know how to fight, which led to Tang Jun's defeat. Yu Chaoen blamed Guo Ziyi for the defeat of Xiangzhou. Su Zong didn't know right and wrong, so he deposed Guo Ziyi.

5. Li Shimin, Emperor Taizong: In the seventh year of Zhenguan (633), Kevin·Z succeeded to the throne. At the end of the same year, Huangfu Deshen of Zhongmu County wrote to Taizong: "Building Luoyang Palace will harm the people; Collecting land rent is too much; Women like to wear a high bun, which is very popular in the palace. Emperor Taizong was furious when he received the book and said to the prime ministers, "Deccan wants the country not to serve one person and not to collect land rent. The rich have no money, which is exactly what he wants. "Want to cure HuangFuDeShen libel. Wei Zhi protested: "Since ancient times, the writing style has not been extreme, and it can't touch people's hearts. The so-called madman's words, saints choose good and follow. Please consider this truth. Finally, he stressed: "Your Majesty is not outspoken recently, but he is not as open-minded and natural as before." Emperor Taizong felt that Wei Zhi had a point, so he turned anger into joy. Instead of punishing Huang Fude, he was promoted to supervise the empire.

6. Emperor Wen Jian of the Ming Dynasty: In the battle between Wen and Jian, he ignored the opinions of his men and ordered Judy, the prince of Yan, not to be hurt while fighting for the Ming army. Therefore, Judy, the prince of Yan, persevered in the battle, and all the armies gave generously and defeated the Ming army.

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Don't blindly listen to the composition materials of other people's opinions. Judging from the English test questions we have been exposed to since teaching, the examination of our English writing level is mainly manifested in paying more attention to the setting of communication situations and the requirements of different genres. However, due to various complicated reasons of subjective and objective existence, students' composition has entered a misunderstanding, so how to get out of it? This requires taking corresponding measures against different misunderstandings.

Myth 1: writing in a hurry is not fully prepared.

Many students write their compositions with a quick glance and write wherever they want. The result is disorganized and disorganized, especially when you write wrong words or sentences, you can only tick off the marks, which directly affects the score.

Coping strategy: According to the correct steps, the general steps are as follows:

1. Examine the questions carefully. The examination of questions includes the main points, format, number of words, expression center, matters needing attention and other information, which should be considered one by one, otherwise it will lead to digression.

2. Determine the style and tense. Whether writing letters, diaries or pictures, you should make it clear in advance, because different styles have different requirements, formats and writing methods; At the same time determine the tense of the composition.

3. Draft, modify and then copy. This can not only ensure that errors are minimized, but also ensure the cleanliness of the roll surface.

Myth 2: poor expression ability and grammatical errors.

Mainly include spelling errors, tense errors, non-predicate verb errors, verb collocation errors, subject-predicate agreement errors and preposition use errors, such as the following exercises:

Today is Friday. My brother and I went to Central Park.

There are many people there.

Some people are playing volleyball, others are swimming and chatting.

When we were going to play football, we saw a little girl crying under the tree.

We went there and asked her why she was crying. She said she was lost.

We tried to find her address.

7. Let's take her home.

We are both very happy.

Main grammatical errors and modification methods:

The temporal error of was in the sentence 1 should be is. The verb in the second sentence is wrong. According to many people, it is was in this sentence, and it should be were. The tense of the clause in sentence 4 is wrong, are should be were, and the sentence structure of the main clause is wrong. It is reported that * * *. Doing something shows that was should be deleted. The word order and tense of the object clause in the sentence are wrong. Why she is crying should be why she is crying. It should be better to connect with and then in sentence ⑥ ⑥. The tense in the sentence is wrong. are should be were.

Coping strategies:

1. Especially some confusing words and phrases, we should find the similarities and differences between them to help us remember.

Stubborn interpretation of historical stories is stubborn and refuses to change.

From "The Secret Biography of Song Shichen": "Insist on your own opinions and lose people's hearts."

When Feng Guitang heard that his father disapproved of his idea, he thought, "Love when you are old ~ emphasize conservatism!" " (Liang Bin's "Red Flag Spectrum 8")

Xiu De's door to the realization of goodness on the historical story avenue first teaches people to do their best, but also cares about Xiu De's realization of goodness. People are dying, and the words are good; The bird will die and its song will moan. It is eighty-three years old. How can the future be complicated? It is indeed too late to practice good deeds quickly.