First of all, I didn't eat lonely peas
Doudou is the daughter of the second brother who was born at the age of forty-one, and the third sister-in-law. The first two are seniors, and they are bound from a distance in Baizidong, Daxiangshan. In her view, it is reasonable to stay away from human nature and be close to human nature. It is best not to raise a child who will become a monk when he grows up.
When Doudou was born, he should be the baby of the whole family, but because his second brother was managing his unfulfilled ideals and couldn't take care of his family, he was thrown to my mother for raising when Doudou was weaned at the age of one. Later, he became a child without a mother, mainly relying on the help of his second sister.
1990 When she returned to her parents' home in winter, she was already able to speak, walked unsteadily and reacted to adults. She is a lively and lovely little girl with a boy's head. I wholesaled some fried rice and soaked it for my son and niece. My son was not weaned at that time, and the diet in Gansu was not used to it. After a while, both children gained weight, especially my little niece. When I got home, my mother gave her son a sweater, and my little niece expressed her opinion. The baby was still young, so I gave him the small one and left this big one for me to wear. I'm surprised. When did the Li family's rules become like this, but they changed when they changed. This is birth, the love of family members, and the love of young and capable parents.
The second time I transferred to my parents' home was 1995 Spring Festival. This time, I came to explain that my mother lost it and couldn't take it away in time. I want to bury the hatchet and seek forgiveness. A family of three embarked on a journey to Gansu. At that time, the baby had already gone to kindergarten, and Doudou's father didn't sign up for his daughter. Therefore, she didn't go to kindergarten. At that time, she was very naughty. When the family was sitting on the hot kang, she unexpectedly
At that time, peas were so cute, but the whole family felt sick. Occasionally, my mother takes them to watch TV, but my nephews and nieces ignore them, and even more cynically call them Baby Eggs.
This kind of treatment didn't change until Doudou secretly helped his niece with her children when she was at school.
When I went there 1998, I had dropped out of school. I was a semi-adult She compensated me for crossing the street and passing my relatives, and I didn't say anything. Because of the need to raise chickens, I borrowed money from my husband, but I didn't borrow it. I brought some apples from Dajiefu to sell on the train, but I didn't have the guts.
In 2002, my second niece and I washed dishes, served dishes, packed some leftovers to help support our family and bought ourselves an account. So far, I can read and write a diary. In 2006, I made a big deal. I didn't meet her when I went Later, she got married and did business with her in Li Anyun Port.
In terms of money, she is consistent with others. So they can get along well in the future and don't care if they die alone. But she has never died alone, and has always been self-reliant. The son of yisow is the right way. As a post-90s generation, she is not afraid of the heavy family burden brought by having children, and she already has two children in five years a year.
Second, the fate of the lucky cow
The elder sister gave birth to four children, and Niu Fu was the youngest. There are two older sisters and brothers on her, which is the most valuable one. The love of her family is all on her.
She was born a cow, because at that time, farming had been exhausted and Niu Geng had stopped. October cattle are called blessed cows. When the elder sister was pregnant with her, she still had some contacts of the same age. When children are named, they often have the same word. So, of course, the blessed cow is named Egg Baby, but it's just a voice, maybe it's Danwa, and there's no problem. It would be nice to be born in time when the sun rises from the horizon.
Said she was a lucky cow, of course, because of her birthday. In fact, when she was a child, her family was poor, and her eldest brother-in-law was dragging a scooter. Unfortunately, her elder sister got moon disease and couldn't take care of her family. A family of six depends on their eldest niece to cook one meal, one meal and two meals a day, plus steamed buns. When the first niece was busy cooking the pot, the second niece cooked the pot, and the fire was big, small and raw. It became a hammer rack for the whole family. Not only parents, but also brothers and sisters, until they grow up to be big girls, and ride on them to fight. Even in one day, I was beaten by my brother first, and then by my mother.
Compared with her sister, she is really a lucky dog. Her sister has to do housework while she goes to school. When she graduated from primary school, she dropped out of school and got a job in a flour mill. Second sister graduated from junior high school, redeemed clothes and worked as a nanny. Only she can sit quietly in the classroom and receive education.
She has a high IQ and excellent academic performance. When she was three years old, she could sing Nanniwan with her mother. Although her pronunciation is not true, she still has that taste. At school, she is a naughty one. At that time, before the bell rang, there was usually a genre that led the whole class to sing together. She can ignore the teacher at the classroom door and lead the students to sing one by one. Of course, the person who can be on duty is naturally the top person in the head teacher's mind.
If we say how she can enter the teacher's heart, of course, it is a gentle and honest character developed from childhood. This character is also reflected in her relationship with her cousin menstruation. Her eldest daughter is one or two years younger than her with her second niece and her second sister. That year, she went to the second sister's house. In summer, three people shared a quilt. It was cold at night and she couldn't sleep well. She didn't cover it It was windy on the mountain, and she caught a cold overnight. Look here.
One year, she asked her second niece to work in Guangdong. Because her second niece's wedding day is approaching, my eldest brother disagrees. She said that my second niece would stay at home and do housework instead.
Maybe the world can't bear to see a unlucky and unfilial girl. When she marries well, her husband will run the bureau. She married in the past and became a member of the bureau, specializing in handling fees. She should follow the old saying, marry a chicken and follow a dog. After marriage, she has two sons, both of whom have received higher education.
Both her sisters worked hard, but in the end they were not as radiant as her. Later, the elder sister was good at making money and won the favor of her family. After the failure of 50 yuan business, the second sister married Lianyungang before the elder sister. Because her family didn't like her, she didn't stay at all. Soon, my sister also married to Shandong. Their mother died soon. She died in a car accident. After returning to her house for 15 years, I only listened to my second sister.
Her only brother got married very late, and he is the most naughty of her nephews. He went to school until the first day of junior high school, but never continued. He was born in the year of the pig and is called the tiger. I think his fame is so great that his life can't be suppressed. He didn't make any serious deals. He is a capable brother-in-law. He is the kind of person who can do anything for his sister to avoid being bullied. Considering that his daughter-in-law is pregnant with a second child,
It's time to go, leaving two brothers and sisters, living alone, and no longer frying with the same root. As a sister, it is really lucky to have such a brother. Can you say it's not the blessing of the whole family? Her father gave birth to her and the hospice service was ready. Doudou had her and was taken out as a child, which lightened my mother's burden. Talking about her is a compliment. I hope she will be happy for a long time.
Third, the rat of fate on the bull's head
Second sister is the only one in the family who has never been to school and the only one who has been to kindergarten. There are two little brothers below, one is free. When I was born, when she was ten years old, she dropped out of school to take me, and then went to grandma's house to serve her grandparents until she got married.
My husband's family is my old relative, and the marriage was decided by an old aunt who read palms. The object is the son of an old aunt. She saw the second sister's husband. The so-called rich water does not flow from outsiders, and my grandmother is in charge.
After the engagement, the second sister's life played a role. The second brother-in-law became a militia battalion commander. Later, he took some medical books of my father to study and was recommended by the village to study in Lanzhou. After graduation, he became a veterinarian, but he also showed people.
On the first day of the twelfth lunar month in' 72, my second sister gave birth to a child. The child's birthday is also good. Before the separation, the second brother-in-law became a full-time, working in the commune and eating commodity grain. Second sister earns work points at home and takes care of the children.
When I was in the fourth grade of primary school, my second sister's family left family of origin and set up their own small family. By the time my second sister gave birth to a second child in 76, my eldest daughter was four or five years old and was able to carry three or five kilograms of wheat flour to the village to process noodles. My grandparents never asked.
My second sister belongs to my grandparents. She knows how to teach children to do housework. Before her house was built in 1978, this six-or seven-year-old female doll was able to roll out dough and wash dishes with a stool. She had a happy childhood and studied happily. Children in the mountains have the arms to move mountains, and they have the nature to move mountains. When they grow up, they don't have much femininity.
She is grandpa's grandson and grandpa's pistachio. After a hard day's farm work, she couldn't help laughing when she watched her granddaughter study, and the fatigue of the day was swept away.
Once, my father took her down the mountain with oil and potatoes, and spilled oil on the road, probably a lot, and potatoes were spilled. She gave my dad advice to wipe them off with dirt. The mountain road is winding and dusty. It looks poor, but the soil is fine. Every time I go up the mountain, I grab the soil while walking, not to mention Beishan.
After asking grandpa how to cover the oil, she imitated it, first made it look straight downhill, and then spread out her hands, and the potatoes and oil fell. She said helplessly, what should we do now? Then she said, Grandpa, wipe it with dirt.
Every time I go to my sister's house, I always see her running down the hill with a large group of children. Call aunt warmly when you come and accompany me home all the way. At that time, I didn't remember what to bring to my sister's house. The pocket money given by adults asked me to buy snacks. Later, my second sister asked me to take the potatoes, so she chose the big ones. Later, my second brother and I were too heavy.
My second brother is one of the brothers and sisters who is eloquent, but he was robbed in front of his niece. Once, the second brother ate zongzi, saying that the country was sweet without honey. She replied that we country people have never seen what honey is. Once she was beaten in a speech contest, because she accidentally mentioned the children of her relatives, and she felt as if she had suffered, saying that the children were much better than me, so I stopped. I can only shut up in front of her.
A year after I came to Jiangsu, she also got married. They are in love. The second brother-in-law disagreed at first, and the second sister became angry. Later, she slapped her daughter before agreeing. After marriage, she learned to cut hair and opened a barber shop, and her business was booming. Husband and wife visited the ballroom, and their marriage went wrong and left. Later, I found one in Guangxi, and a few days ago in Gansu.
Fourth, a deaf niece.
When my eldest brother got married, I was only half a year old, and I was only sixteen or seventeen. I'm not much taller than the kang. I haven't gone in yet. So I lived in my house for several years and didn't get pregnant until six or seven years ago. Someone asked my eldest brother to help me during pregnancy, and my mother couldn't stop it. I heard it's bad for the fetus. Sure enough, my niece was born with rickets and needed long-term calcium supplementation. At first, she took the oil stain from the thermos, and then ate the scrambled eggs with beeswax. This is how the child was cured. When she was three or five years old, she could not speak and embarked on a long road of seeking medical treatment.
When I was in the second grade, my mother took her to Lanzhou for treatment for more than 40 days. She lives in her aunt's house in Yanchangbao and takes out an earplug in one ear. One of them didn't take it out because she was worried about her family, so she came back.
It is said that my aunt is cruel to my niece, dragging her all the time on the way to seek medical treatment, never hugging or letting my mother hug her. She is both a husband and a wife. After marriage, grandma does housework and takes care of the children. After grandma died, the children became independent and washed dishes and clothes by themselves. Therefore, her children are educated, not poor children like the second brother and the second sister who has been to Lanzhou aunt.
Since it can't be cured, I have to accept my fate. I can only play dumb all the time, but people are divided into three classes. The trip to Lanzhou made her grow into a mute. Her smile makes people warm and pity. Big brother accompanied her to buy sweaters and put all his money on her. When the bus came into the station, she hid under the chair. After the elder sister-in-law was taken away by the police, she got off the bus and waited for her to come back. Until later.
1978, my second nephew was born on the first day of the first month. That year, my eldest brother built a new house on the private plot and took my niece with him. When selling sweaters, my eldest niece took my second nephew. My second nephew was hungry, and she cried when the child cried, which attracted passers-by to look around and give him something to eat. Usually, when he comes back, he will bring a lot of food.
1979, my eldest niece met a famous person in her life and a visiting guest in Lanzhou. He introduced her to Lanzhou School for the Deaf, which changed her life. On the eve of graduation, she also got a neighbor Sargam to go to school, and several boys liked her.
When I was still in the college entrance examination, Welfare Clothing Factory recruited people, and she went to work. I borrowed a suit from her on a blind date. I moved to Jiangsu, but she tried to see me off, but she was stopped and scolded me in sign language. In the spring, after running away from home for a period of time, she married in Tianshui and gave birth to a daughter. Later, I divorced, and now I have a family and career in Shanghai.
If you don't come out, you won't know the warmth and coldness of people. There really are things like being close to neighbors. If you miss my aunt, you will have the opportunity to let my niece go to the deaf-mute school early and receive more education. The result is the help of outsiders. But if there is no menstruation for more than 40 days, how can there be a big niece who has settled in Shanghai today? It should be ruthless but affectionate.
Grandnephew of the fifth and third generation.
The eldest nephew is the third child of the eldest brother. The longer he grows, the more he looks like my grandfather. His family was secretly happy and could not help recalling the family history of those rich families.
My grandfather is one of my old brothers. He is a successful businessman. He opened a hotel, built two yards, and a family and three small families ate on the same stove. My uncle is his right-hand man and helps him manage his business together. He was unfortunately killed in a foreign acquisition. Six months later, my grandfather also died. In this way, without the pillar, the sky fell.
The image of the great nephew's return to his ancestors is both glorious and glorious, which makes the whole family look forward to a comeback. He is ten years younger than me. He is a tiger who is not bullied by dogs. When he was weaned, I learned to be an aunt, and I could help my mother take care of him when I was doing business outside. In winter, I get up to make steamed buns for my mother and feed my nephew, just to lighten the burden and go to school when I am older.
1985, after the two brothers separated, my father married my eldest brother, and my eldest nephew slept with my father. 1988, when my father died, he cried more sadly than our children. That's the real relationship between his grandfather and his grandson, not Liu Ye's crying in Jingzhou, nor Zhuge Liang's mourning tears, nor did he stop crying when the mourners stopped.
After my dad died, I stopped for seven days, invited a teacher to watch Feng Shui, and chose a lucky time. In the end, he chose the responsibility of crossing the sand embankment at Tiandongtou. It is said that in that crypt, two college students can be born among his grandchildren. This kind of good thing is left to the eldest brother's children, who are poor on the one hand and rich on the other. All the eldest brother's children, except the eldest daughter, have the opportunity to fight for it.
After graduating from high school, my nephew returned to school for one year and missed out on college. He helps my brother and sister-in-law at home, makes noodles at night and sells steamed buns the next day for two younger brothers and sisters to go to school. In 2002, his daughter-in-law was a colleague of his second niece. At that time, he went to the hospital and lost blood because of anemia. At that time, a rice noodle shop was opened in Dongxiang, and a hotel was opened near the brigade in 2006. When I went, by the time my mother 19 15 came back, that is, when she died ten years ago, he had already arrived in the village.
I wonder why he didn't go in. It's not because of my ancestors' identity that I missed the university and just became a successful businessman, is it? However, the businessman's status today is not low, and from the point of view that the businessman has achieved a village and a future, it is more of a concession for him to fail the exam, which can be seen from his initiative to help his little niece learn to ride a bike. In her class, she is much more patient and meticulous than my father and I.
Six, two nieces are dancing on the ground
The second niece was born at the end of the fighting, which is equivalent to the first niece was born at the beginning of the fighting. Both of them were named Wu, which has typical historical significance. Known as the Great Hou, she unconsciously became Yan Wu and Wu Ping. As the name implies, the eldest niece dances well. When she came back from the summer vacation, her little niece became her prop. But when it comes to dancing, the second niece is the long-sleeved dancer on the stage of life.
My father brought my second niece with a chubby face because she knew how to match nutrition. At that time, my mother and I were both temporary workers in the canteen, so we gave him the task of taking my second niece. He really lived up to expectations and brought it well.
Stubborn children who don't play bad depend on the conditioned reflex of correct concept and formation. First-rate children know that they will be beaten when they raise their hands. Middle-class children feel beaten when their hands touch their bodies. The second niece will be beaten when she is in pain. My father just stopped crying through a thick cotton cap. That's not like hitting my sister, but also hitting the wall with iron bars.
My second niece worked so hard. When she was five or six years old, I slapped her because she hated me and scolded me with the girls in the neighborhood. The palm hit her for a long time, and she became a well-known dead apricot.
Women like to run around and take care of their children, which is euphemistically called socializing, or socializing. It's the same, but she only wandered in the circle of rich people and didn't stay in poor Gotha, so her second niece had a playmate and came out of the shadow I created.
With the growth of age, playmates become friends and friends become bosom friends. My friend gave her a job serving dishes in the county guest house, and my mother wanted to find one for me, too. I asked my grandmother for help. My grandmother asked, can a plate hold seven or eight bowls of vegetables? My mother has nothing to say, but the hotel is not just serving dishes, but a series of work in the kitchen is done by important people. But newcomers always have to pass the test, and the second niece has been working hard.
Why can she go on and I can't? Do you need to ask? And her mother, of course. She can always find something to do for her children. Big brother cooks and the kitchen is clean. She cooks and the kitchen is in a mess, waiting for her second niece to clean it up. Later, I gave her all the laundry and cooking, even my hands were swollen like steamed bread, and I refused my mother's help. During that time, her appetite increased greatly. As soon as she gets up in the morning, she eats steamed bread before going to bed at night. I haven't experienced it. She has grown a lot, even Uncle Sanfang said that she is covered with human skin. As early as the second brother's third marriage, she participated in the preparations and suggested using seabuckthorn wine. She was still a student at that time. In uncle Sanfang's boarding house, the second niece said a golden sentence with her uncle's son in her arms, which made the teachers present laugh. In this way, the second niece has been fully cultivated and developed, which also makes her future work come naturally.
After she entered the county guest house, she came into contact with some high-class dignitaries. Without some social experience, it is impossible to be comfortable among these people. Coincidentally, under the example of her second niece, she already has one.
My second niece's husband works as a driver in the county seat and has a younger brother. After marriage, the two brothers jointly contracted Nanling Hotel, and my second niece became the manager, washing dishes with peas from my second brother's house, and taking leftovers, leftovers and soup from the restaurant to raise pigs. My second niece's share supported my eldest nephew's pig raising career.
19 15 years, when she was cooking in the county, the eldest nephew stopped raising pigs, vacated a new house, opened a hotel and went back to his hometown in the county. Five sisters were left to live together.
This year, she is 50 years old, and tomorrow is her birthday. In August of the lunar calendar, melons and fruits are fragrant, which is a better day of the year. August 15 is a family reunion festival. Here, I wish her all the best and all the best.
Seven, college students buried ancestral graves
The above is about the birth of cattle in June of 5438+00, and it is about the sharing of marriage. I hope this will help everyone who was born in May.