1. Observe the types of girls. When you are new to a strange girl, if you don't know her preferences at this time, it's up to you. To analyze what kind of girl you are chatting with, you can start with the girl's appearance. If it's cute, you can talk about some Lori topics. If it looks cold, talk about something meaningful. Step by step analyze your sister's preferences. Chatting with your sister must go from shallow to deep. At first, you can have one build and one build, and then after a few words, you can pay more attention to your sister's expression. If she doesn't respond enthusiastically, it means that your topic is not attractive to her. At this time, you should consider changing the subject. Try not to pry into your sister's private affairs. When chatting for the first time, try not to ask about your sister's private affairs. Women are very sensitive. Maybe anything you say will offend her, especially in private life and emotion. My sister will think you are so stingy and gossip, and hate you immediately. 4. Don't pretend to understand. Talking with girls is the most taboo. Don't talk big except some little girls. A girl with a little brain will immediately think that you are an unpractical man. The charm of a man lies in his actions, not in his boasting. People who talk big will think you are as boring as sex. Chatting with the girl you just met is 1, and the opening remarks are very important! Good opening remarks can make girls interested in you and get to know you. Imagine, a bad opening speech, the sister is not interested at all, and will not pay attention to you. Like some opening remarks we often see, such as hello, I can know you and put myself in your shoes. If you are a girl who is often accosted, will you be interested in such accosting? So we have to come up with some special opening remarks. 2. What is a good opening statement? The most important thing is to arouse the interest of girls. The opening remarks can be in the form of questions. For example, observe a girl's head, find a special place from her hair and clothes and ask her questions. You can also start with the information provided by your sister, such as age and hobbies. If girls have the same hobbies as you, you can ask questions. Finally, you can also praise your sister in an exaggerated way. For example, your eyes are so bright that I seem to see two bright moons. 3. After you have successfully attracted a girl, you will officially start chatting with her. Chatting, the so-called sky, is life, and chatting is talking about your own life. The process of chatting can be roughly divided into three stages: starting, warming up and deepening. You and your sister just met, and they are not very familiar with each other. Chatting at this time is mainly about some interesting things in your life. The story is presented to your sister in a humorous tone, which makes her think that you are an interesting person. How to chat with a young lady you just met? 2. Chat time 1. Don't send messages too often. The girl I just met is not very familiar. It's good to be friends, so we should be interesting. We can't talk often. Try to get to know girls through friends circle and other methods. 2. Choose the chat time according to the other person's circle of friends. Only when the other person has free time can you get a reply. After all, girls don't like being disturbed when they are working or doing things, so how do you know when the other person is free? First, from 8: 00 pm to 1 1 pm, it is a relatively free time for women; Second, according to the time when a girl sends a circle of friends, when a girl uploads a picture in a circle of friends, she will definitely retouch it first. You can also talk to a girl at this time. 3. How long do you talk every time (1) When chatting with a girl you just met, you should pay attention to the chat time, and don't talk for too long, so that you will have no mystery in front of the girl, and she will not explore your desire; (2) Take the initiative to end the chat before the break, which is a careful embodiment; (3) When you don't know what to post, end the topic in time, and don't let you have nothing to say in the chat. Second, chat topics and girls chat, of course, choose topics that girls are more interested in and understand. Don't let a chat turn into a person talking. We can choose topics according to each other's circle of friends. For example, if a girl keeps a pet, you can talk about how embarrassed your pet is. Girls usually talk about their pets. * * * Friends with you, places you have been, etc. , can be used as a choice to chat with girls. 3. What's wrong with chatting with a girl you just met? 1, Feelings When chatting with girls you just met, you should be careful not to talk about emotional things, such as the emotional history of your predecessor or the other party, which will make girls have a bad impression on you. 2. Too specific issues, such as a girl's job, salary and family, can be discussed but not too deep. After all, you just met, and you're not her boyfriend. 3. Topics full of negative energy If you always complain about the negative energy of work and life when chatting with a girl you have just known for a long time, it will make girls think that you are a person who only knows complaints and has no initiative. How to chat with the girl you just met 3 Chatting skills with strange girls 1, Chatting with the girl you just met, don't expose your thoughts too early! ! ! Otherwise, something will go wrong (believe me, it can't be wrong), just like a girl suddenly appears and says she wants to marry you. . . Love is the same, don't say it in a hurry, or it will scare people away. 2, the process of chatting must be easy, refuse the sense of oppression! Reject the question-and-answer dialogue! Chatting is not for you to check your account! But we still need to know something about girls, especially these four aspects: consumption, diet, hobbies, and focus of life; But what should we do? Let me show you (for example, ask her where she is from). Group A Me: Hi! Miss Jie, who has a beautiful smile, you sound like a girl from Chongqing in the south. Group B: Hi, are you from Chongqing? What kind of girl are you? Which question do you want to answer? Obviously (group A), it is polite to turn the question into a statement, showing high emotional intelligence will make her feel good about you! Chatting with strange girls skills 3. What will be the first impression of girls on you? (friend asks) Yan value? Personality? Still in there? The answer is not unique. Every girl has her own unique aesthetic and vision, but most girls still look at the outside first. When we meet for the first time, or once, which girl wants to chat with a sloppy boy? Boys' face value, clothing, hairstyle, height, etc. They can see it at a glance, which is also necessary to attract girls. 4, chasing girls, not by the "crazy behavior" you pursue, the most important thing is to rely on your own charm and your own value. (So usually do less useless work and play less games) Read more! ! ! Arm your barren mind, you should have the ability to handle it yourself! It is the hardest thing to improve your own value! Attracting girls will take the initiative, okay? All right. 5. Pay attention when chatting with your sister! ! ! The atmosphere at this time is very good. How do you think you are not good at talking to girls? I suggest you stop chatting from that moment on. Why? Don't worry, just hear me out. Stopping at this moment will keep the happy atmosphere in her heart and find an opportunity to get off the assembly line. For example, I am cooking now, I am driving, and I am going to work soon. . . . . . . A wonderful and busy green proves that your life is full and stylish!