Beauty can vary from time to time. The so-called "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". The king of Chu has a thin waist, while Tang Ming
The emperor likes Yang Guifei's fullness, but "kindness" is the requirement of every era. Beautiful Book written by Xu Zhen in Qing Dynasty. Analyze and decompose the beauty of ancient beauty one by one. A beautiful woman's appearance must be full and broad forehead, small and full lips like apricots, with "rhinoceros teeth", "waist", "lotus face" and "long eyebrows", and then she should be neither fat nor thin. Beauty should be attractive in addition to appearance. "Waiting for the moon by leaning on the fence", "smiling with a smile" and "hiding your face with a pipa and rolling your eyes affectionately" are all the charms that a beauty should have. In addition, you should have special skills, such as playing piano, Go, reciting poems, painting, embroidery and so on. And tea picking, incense burning, orchid protection, butterfly cutting and butterfly flapping. If a beauty contest was held in ancient times, it would be really troublesome.
A woman is beautiful and elegant, knowledgeable, kind and humble, which is a complex that men will never let go of. How does she deserve to be a "lady" I believe different people have different answers.
Some people say that a lady is indifferent to fame and fortune. She herself is not tired of fame and fortune, nor will she use fame and fortune as a yardstick to measure men. She will give men another pure land, no gunpowder, no war, no coercion.
Some people say that a young, natural, frank and beautiful girl should be the natural beauty of "clear water leaves hibiscus, naturally carved", without too much artificial decoration and too much mystery.
Some people say that the wife and children are very insightful, but she will never pose as a pedant just because she has drunk a few bottles of ink. She is good at listening and only "nudges" the men around her in key places.
Some people say that a lady gives people the impression of being fresh, kind and relaxed, like the green trees and flowers in Shan Ye, like the cool breeze and bright moon on the river, whether it is classical beauty or modern beauty, whether it is light makeup or plain face.
Some people say that the first element of a lady is gentleness, and the beauty of water is the most touching. There are many great forces in nature, which is also the most difficult to resist. When women are gentle, men will be like the cool sea in summer, and gentleness is the source of all beauty for women.
Some people say that a lady looks delicate, but in fact she is determined and brave. When life is full of ups and downs, they will not lose face, claiming that the world is not a sweet orchard, and ladies are not flowers in a greenhouse.
Some people say that a lady should be dignified, elegant in speech, moderate in advance and retreat, tepid and not proficient in reading some poetry books; Pass some ink, don't be skilled.
Some people say that a lady is not glamorous or arrogant. They are arrogant but not charming, and keep their hearts noble in daily life. They are not spoiled and ignorant, but happy angels who face life directly and infect everyone with health and happiness.
Some people say that a lady is a woman whose heart is full of kindness and virtue. Her love is giving, not taking. She cares about her family, regardless of thickness, and does not let the gentleman be in a dilemma between affection and love.
Some people say that a lady will not disappear because of the passage of time. She is like a deep imprint engraved on a man's heart. She has a young and uplifting heart, never gives up her calmness, elegance and leisure in life, and loves life, so life is bright.
Some people in this world say that real ladies are rare, women are molded and men are hard to find. What a beautiful sentence "When * * * cuts the candle at the west window, but talks about the rain at night", it is because distance has produced acacia, and modern society has dispelled the distance between men and women. In the past, it took a long time to meet her, but it took a long time to separate, but now it's time to see if you want to see it. Love has become mala Tang. Tradition is being taken away by the tide of commerce bit by bit, and there are fewer and fewer ladies.
Some people say that women nowadays can only find them from three directions: female college students, educated women and working girls (maybe this is a bit relative absolute). But now, due to the improvement of economic conditions and the widespread use of cosmetics, fashion and beauty, there are more and more beautiful women. The so-called "within ten steps, there must be grass." What can be saved with rich capital is the greed of the soul, which is a common problem of today's beauty. Even among educated women, there are phenomena of mental atrophy, moral bereavement and materialistic desire. Many working girls are mostly two-faced, elegant and luxurious in public, but intoxicated in private life, and some even degenerate into mistresses of the rich.
I remember 1990, an activity of Tangshan literature, which named "Ten Beautiful Women in China": Gong Li with meaningful amorous feelings, Yang Lan with youthful intelligence, Song Zu Ying with sweet serenity, Yang li Ping as a fairy, Angelababy as a charming girl, Mao Amin with noble warmth, Zhou Jie with bright elegance, Hu Huizhong with charming and touching, Chen Hong with gentle and quiet, and Xu Jing with beautiful and pure. But this is just the appearance. In Ci Hai, a lady is interpreted as a beautiful and virtuous woman. Modern ladies also need independence, good mental state, generous and natural communication skills and good speech, self-cultivation, temperament and clothing.
Although a lady is a shining star among women, her life experience and knowledge will certainly make people attractive, but the most important thing is the nobility of her soul. In fact, in my opinion, the most essential feature of a lady is: truth, goodness and beauty, and it is not a lady if it is deliberately carved.