If you find that the gold hook stud can't stick to your ear, here are several possible solutions:

1. Try using earplugs or ear pin pads. These gadgets can reduce the friction between earrings and ears, thus making earrings fit better. You can buy these ornaments in jewelry stores or online.

2. Reduce the diameter of the ear needle. If the ear needle is too thick, it is difficult to fit the ear. You can use a small drill or grinder to reduce the diameter of the ear needle and make it fit better.

Ask a professional jeweler to help you. If the above two methods fail, or you are not sure how to operate, you can seek the help of a professional jeweler. They can help you adjust your earrings to make them fit your ears better.

No matter which way you use, you should pay attention to safety and avoid hurting your ears.