First, for people in love, beauty is in the eyes of their lover, and many shortcomings of their partners will be selectively ignored, and they always feel that they have changed each other. But sometimes, after all, a leopard cannot change his spots, and love and marriage are not as redeeming as in the novel. Ms. Jin mentioned here is a typical example. A bad love experience almost ruined her hard-working career for so many years.
According to Ms. Jin, she runs a local clothing store, and the business in the store is very prosperous under her care. Although Ms. Jin is a strong woman in her career, her emotional experience is not smooth. She once had an unhappy marriage, but she really can't go on. After the divorce, Ms. Jin lived a single life for some time. At this time, Ms. Jin met her current boyfriend romantically under an accidental opportunity. Later, the other party took the initiative to pursue her, and Ms. Jin, who was slowly moved, agreed to associate with her.
When they first started dating, they were inseparable. Although her boyfriend has some minor problems that make Ms. Jin a little uncomfortable, such as being lazy, and sometimes spending the woman's money, although Ms. Jin will make money and earn a high annual income, the money is meaningless to her, but no one's money is blown by the wind. Over time, Ms. Jin began to feel a little sad.
Second, I don't want to break up and end up behaving badly. During the period of love, the woman actually proposed to break up, but every time the man disagreed. Later, Ms. Jin found that the other party was not divorced, which was obviously unacceptable to Ms. Jin, who inadvertently became a mistress, so she broke up with the other party decisively.
After breaking up, the man quickly divorced his ex-wife and begged Ms. Jin. At that time, she was soft-hearted and made up with her boyfriend. Not only that, Ms. Jin also pays her boyfriend's daily expenses, giving him nearly 9,000 yuan as living expenses every month, and occasionally buying clothes and shoes for each other. I thought that my efforts could be exchanged for the expression of equal love, but Ms. Jin found that this was not the case. The man's soft rice behavior is getting worse and worse, so the number of quarrels between the two is increasing.
Finally, one day, because the man was advised to go out to work, the two men had another fierce quarrel, and the man who broke up in discord rushed out the door. I thought the relationship between the two would stop here, but Ms. Jin, who went to work in the clothing store the next day, found that a lot of property in her shop had been stolen. After some observation, Ms. Jin discovered that it was her boyfriend.
In fact, judging from the whole incident, I can only say that I didn't see how much the man loved his girlfriend, only his determination to eat soft rice. An adult man doesn't go out to work, only depends on his girlfriend. This kind of person must have no self-esteem, which is why he is more likely to make some extreme actions. This time, Ms. Jin saw the true face of the other party and hoped that she would not be deceived by him again.