Later, someone introduced me to my present wife. Her father is a modest local official.
Under the arrangement of my father-in-law, I entered the largest state-owned enterprise in the local area as a management position. Fortunately, this acquaintance is also very studious, has been appreciated by the leaders, and has gained a firm foothold in the unit.
I didn't take any detours in my career, and it was smooth sailing.
My wife also teaches at the local university, but she is also very virtuous. With a pair of children, it can be said that life is complete.
On the other hand, some of his peers have higher academic qualifications, some are better at graduate school, some have broader horizons and even stronger abilities than him.
The wife has no so-called background, but ordinary locals or foreigners get married locally, and there is no foundation. It doesn't help a man's career. Their careers are also plain, and there is no room for growth.
There are many factors for a person's success, and the fate of those who can leverage is obviously different.
There are also many successful people who rely on marriage to incite resources or achieve themselves.
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Wang Shi's father is the old Red Army of Wang Zhen 359 Brigade. He followed Wang Zhen to Xinjiang to form the Xinjiang Production and Construction Corps, and later served as the deputy commander of the Corps.
Wang Zhen later led the engineers to Shenzhen to develop the special zone, and his father also went south to Guangzhou with his family. Wang Shi's father later served as the director of Liuzhou Railway Bureau.
Wang Shi, an ordinary red boy, works in the railway bureau and leads an ordinary and stable life. Until one day, a woman Wang Jiangsui appeared …
Wang Ning, Wang Jiangsui's father and Wang Shi's former father-in-law, was once a comrade-in-arms of Wang Hui. 1982 to 1993, served as secretary of Guangdong provincial party Committee, secretary of provincial discipline inspection commission, deputy secretary of provincial party Committee, secretary of political and legal Committee, and director of Guangdong provincial advisory Committee.
When telling his own successful experience, Wang Shi often mentioned the story of reselling corn to earn the first bucket of gold. The details are intriguing.
Wang Shi found that the corn from the north of China had to be transported to the south and transshipped from Hongkong, so the price went up. If it can be shipped directly from the north to Shenzhen, it can earn a lot of difference.
So Wang Shi went to Guangdong Maritime Safety Administration and asked them to open up the northern route. But Wang has no money in his hand, so let the other party deliver the goods first and settle the account after half a year. If he is just a poor boy, who will care about him? But he is the son-in-law of the provincial party secretary. All this is different. From April 1983 to February 65438+8 months, Wang Shi earned more than 3 million yuan.
"This is the first bucket of gold I dug in the sea, clean." Wang Shi was quite proud when he mentioned this matter.
Wang Shi claimed that his former father-in-law was familiar with the background of Shenzhen Special Economic Zone and had a positive impact on his own business. However, he also stressed that the former father-in-law was honest and strict with his children.
"Compared with entrepreneurs from rural areas and ordinary families, I obviously have great advantages. But everything is a double-edged sword. While taking advantage, I also need to work harder than others. "
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Let's talk about another big brother, Wang Jianlin.
Sicong's mother is called Lin Ning.
Lin Ning's father is Lin Lianzhang, a senior colonel from Hebei. /kloc-participated in the revolution in 0/935, participated in many wars such as Huaihai Campaign, Dujiang Campaign and Sixian Campaign, and won the third-class medal of independence and freedom and the third-class medal of liberation.
After the founding of New China, he taught in Nanjing Artillery School, Artillery Engineering College and East China Engineering College (now Nanjing University of Science and Technology) successively, and trained a large number of outstanding military talents for the country.
20 1 1 Lin Lianzhang died and was buried in Nanjing Yuhuatai Gongde Garden, where more than 100 founding generals were buried.
Lin Ning has a famous saying: "Marry the richest man or not, I am the richest man." Her confidence comes from her business ability, and her family business is running well. She manages Outlander, the top club in China, where celebrities from all walks of life meet. Celebrities in the circle, such as Jet Li, who used to be the swallow of Buffett, all have an intersection with Lin Ning.
Political and business leaders, even the founders of the British royal family, jewelry brands and luxury brands are friends of Lin Ning. Many of Wanda's important business partners can't say that they don't have the support of Lin Ning.
Wanda was in crisis, owing more than 400 billion yuan in debt, and finally saved the day without the help of Lin Ning.
Of course, both the big boss and the ordinary acquaintances I mentioned need extreme efforts and concentration. If they want to wear the crown, they must put up with it.
Their wives are even with them. They are not climbing flowers, but a kapok beside a man, who can stand side by side with him through thick and thin.
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It is said that women are afraid of marrying the wrong husband. On the other hand, many men can't concentrate on their careers because they have the wrong wife.
A neighbor, his wife is lazy and never cleans at home. She is idle at home, brushing Tik Tok with her mobile phone. A pair of children are brought by their mother-in-law, and they never cook for their husbands in the morning.
Every time a child approaches his father, he sleeps with him. When the child is ill, he depends on his father to look around and often asks for leave.
Every time I see this neighbor's gaunt figure, I feel that if there is no good woman behind me, it is really a disaster.
A good woman has raised three generations, which is really the wisdom of our ancestors.
Marriage is essentially a partnership to start a company. To find a suitable partner, we need to put aside some emotional factors and think more rationally about this cooperation, which is really beyond the word utility. This requires wisdom and vision, don't follow your feelings.
Buffett said that the most important investment in life is marriage. If you choose the wrong person, you will lose a lot, not just money.
To love and be loved are both abilities.