Besides, Scarlett and Rhett didn't get to know each other because Scarlett dropped the vase in the room because of the failure of confession, and Rhett happened to see it? Rhett loves Scarlett's bravery and tenacity, her perseverance, and her courage to kiss Tara's red soil with her lips and get back on her feet, even though she experienced fiery destruction. This role has changed from a daughter who doesn't know what war is and has jewelry in her head all day to a daughter who is desperately trying to survive in the war.
After the death of her parents, a woman who supported a large family by herself ignored other people's eyes, raised money to open a logging yard, recovered all kinds of arrears of rent in various ingenious ways, and shouted loudly in places where men gathered to advertise her factory.
Even though I was attacked by a black man on my way back from a business trip, I insisted on going to my own logging yard the next day, regardless of everyone's eyes and accusations.
So Rhett loves Scarlett just because of her looks? Don't! He only loves the unique Scarlett, because there is only one Scarlett in the world, and she is unique. Why does Rhett love Scarlett? Because they are all rebels of life, they don't care about other people's eyes and struggle to survive in a harsh and cruel environment.
Rhett is a shrewd man. He usually accumulates materials, sells them at high prices in wartime, travels around the world, knows different women and has many mistresses. Is Scarlett the most beautiful woman he has ever seen? On the contrary, it is because women watch more that they understand what is right. In Cholera Period and One Hundred Years of Solitude, countless young men in love fall in love with beautiful young girls just because they can't get enough of them.
So Rhett has matured. Knowing that the civil war could not be won, he chose to join the army. Is he stupid? Don't! He has a conscience. The same conscience can also be reflected in Scarlett. Before the war, when the whole city retreated, Melanie was in labor and Scarlett helped Melanie have a baby, but Scarlett could have run away.
Similarly, they are similar in that they are clear about their purpose regardless of other people's eyes and comments. Rhett sells goods and Scarlett runs a logging yard, which will inevitably be criticized by others, but they are both very clear about their bottom line and moral standards, which is enough. People who are criticized as "having no moral bottom line" in this way are the easiest to survive in the war because they know how to be flexible and know how to survive.
Moreover, in order to make people feel good about his little daughter, Rhett would rather put down his airs and play the role of a "good father", while Scarlett is willing to marry Frank to make Tara make a comeback in order to get some money. So they all know how to give up temporary interests in exchange for longer-term big interests.
To put it simply, if Scarlett didn't have such a unique personality and a high degree of fit with Rhett, Rhett wouldn't love her to this extent, let alone propose, and it is more likely to regard her as a plaything.