Since everyone's life is unique, be the best you can be. Being a man is to be yourself and have your own style and personality in life, rather than copying and imitating others. Mr. Hu Shi once said, "there are two conditions for developing an individual's personality: first, an individual must have free will." Second, let individuals have responsibility and responsibility. " I personally agree with what Mr. Hu said. Being a man is to be good at thinking, dare to take responsibility and dare to do things. Besides, life is as busy as a walking corpse, so what's the point of life? The biggest mistake in writing Hao Ermao in Nora is to regard Nora as a "toy" and forbid her to have free will and family responsibilities, so Nora has no chance to develop her personality. So once Nora realized that she hated her husband very much, she decided to abandon her home and run away. It is also for this reason that Ibsen has another play called "The Lady at Sea", in which a woman named Alida married someone as a stepmother when she was a teenager. Her husband and his ex-wife's two daughters, seeing that she was young, refused to let her do housework, but told her to live a leisurely life. Alida finds it extremely boring to be such an unfree wife and irresponsible stepmother at home. So she thinks about what she can do every day, and even wants to go out and live a broad life with others.
There are many fetters in life, and many people are addicted to pursuing things that have nothing to do with themselves for most of their lives. And the pace of life, but also by these irrelevant "fetters" stumbled. Historical records? Biography of Sima Xiangru? The explanation of the word "Jiong" in Suoyin is: "Jiong, Ma Luotou also; Li, cattle and earthworms are also ",which is extended to netting control." In reality, there are a lot of "cybernetics" tempting us on the road of life, so that when we walk, we will easily lose ourselves. "History? "Great Mo Yu" said: "People's hearts are only in danger, and their hearts are only tiny, but they are exquisite and tolerant." Only by being fair and open-minded can we not be trapped by these "fetters". In my opinion, one of the fetters of life is the excessive pursuit of getting an official once and returning home in clothes, so that we study hard for ten years just to "write a good article and sell it to our relatives" and then become famous all over the world. The second fetter of life is the endless desire to pursue material enjoyment. Even though there are thousands of buildings, they only live in one room. Most of these material things are floating clouds. Simple and ordinary life is our choice. There are many meaningful things in life worth pursuing. Why do we spend most of our lives pursuing luxury houses, famous cars, BMW cars and colorful jewels? Why do you want to change rooms, cars and tickets in constant comparison? Why do you always complain that you don't earn as much money as others, that your building is not as big as others, that your LCD TV is not as wide as the wall, and that Apple's computer style will never catch up with the trend? Ordinary things in life are as meaningful to people's health as breathing on the plateau, walking in the garden and sunbathing on the grass. The third thing is to get tired of the overwhelming information. Too much information intake or excessive information dependence makes our life not free. Isn't it? Open a few web pages, close them, and the day will pass. You can't decide your life by opening countless web pages and closing them. Marcuse spent his whole life expressing the phenomenon of over-reliance on information in One-dimensional Man as follows: "When people use the same network and read the same headlines, they are all indigestion because of the same information garbage, and the information society has also created countless" one-dimensional thoughts "and standardized people. Specifically, it is not a "standardized person" but a "standardized reader". Why do you have to force yourself to be such a "standardized reader" and a "one-dimensional person" like others?
Life is my choice, and the life I choose belongs only to me. "Others laugh at me crazy, I laugh at others cannot see through. I don't see the tomb of the five tombs, no flowers, no wine and no hoes. " The Peach Blossom Garden, written by Tang Yin and recited by Stephen Chow in the Ming Dynasty, is destined to become a classic in the movie "Tong Pak Hu Dian Qiu Xiang". Throughout the ages, there are many celebrities who are keen to do such things that others cannot see through. At the beginning of the 5th century AD, when the Confucian scholars in the Eastern Jin Dynasty were vying for fame and fortune and stood in the court trembling for the king's reward, Tao Yuanming would rather not bow down for Wudoumi, resigned happily, established his own "Peach Blossom Garden" and became a generation of master of landscape pastoral poetry. His "picking chrysanthemums under the hedge, leisurely seeing Nanshan" and "no less vulgar rhyme, loving autumn mountains in nature. Fall into the dust net by mistake, thirteen years. Birds in cages are often attached to the forests of the past, and fish in ponds yearn for the abyss of the past. Open up wasteland in the south and return to the garden. There are more than ten acres of square houses and eight or nine straw houses. Willow trees cover the eaves, and peach trees cover Li Lieman in front of the hospital. The neighboring village of the neighboring village is faintly visible, and there is smoke in the village. Several dogs barked in the alley, and the mulberry tree was barked by a rooster. The house is clean and miscellaneous, and the virtual room is idle. Trapped in a cage without freedom for a long time, I finally returned to the forest today. (Tao Yuanming's Return to the Garden) It can be seen that the poet's life is so leisurely and indifferent. /kloc-in the United States in the 0/9th century, when the cowboys in the west were happily carrying out the industrial revolution everywhere and forgetting to eat and sleep, Thoreau took a borrowed axe and leisurely walked into the lush forest near Walden Lake. On American Independence Day, he began to build his lakeside lake. For Thoreau, this may be just an experiment about life, a life of Thoreau's own choice.
Only when people are born free can life be free. Freedom is a sky, a meadow, an idea and a spirit. Freedom is the sky above the prison of The Shawshank Redemption and the wings of birds. Freedom is still Tao Yuanming's "nostalgia for the past". The definition of "freedom" on Baidu Encyclopedia's business card is: "Freedom is up to you; Unrestricted, unconstrained. Follow heaven. " In the Southern Dynasties, Xu Ling, the State of Chen, wrote "A New Ode to Yutai"? The ancient poem said, "I have been angry for a long time, and you can't be free." Kim Justin of the Later Han Dynasty? Ji Zhong, the spiritual emperor, said, "Today, officials have the right to live, and evil is like a city, but they are not free from politics." I think freedom is actually a right, a right to choose one's own lifestyle. When we live in a temple, it is our freedom to choose to care about the world and create a better life for our people. When we are outside the temple, it is also our freedom to choose to be kind to ourselves, live actively, love society, love ourselves, love our family and love our friends. Freedom is given by nature, and it is forbidden for others to humiliate and seize it. Xiong Peiyun has a wonderful expression about freedom in Freedom in Highlands. He said, "Only freedom can reflect people's creation, gain people's nobility, restore people's dignity and make society as equal as possible. Moreover, freedom is the starting point of all values, and equality is a process of continuous realization by individuals or society, and its purpose is still to defend freedom. " The freedom we pursue is a noble value and a spirit of independent personality, because only when we have our own freedom can we have our own dignity, let ourselves live better and let the people live more dignified. This era has given us rights and freedoms, and given us the freedom to choose life.
There are many constraints in life, so be free to be yourself. The Buddha said, "Put down the butcher knife and become a Buddha on the spot." I thought I would be free if I let go of the fetters. Buddha also said that "flattery and greed fall into hell, and fairness and integrity are heaven". I think that if you abandon more fetters, you will gain more freedom. Petofi said, "Give me liberty or give me death." I think if you are not free, you can live. Living well is responsible for society and family, and for family and friends. Where is freedom? I think freedom is in my heart and freedom is in the highlands. What is freedom? I thought freedom was blue sky, grass and sunshine.