Girl, I advise you not to marry into such a family. On the one hand, his parents regard their son too highly and despise you too little. If you get married, you may not get their love, but you will feel that you have earned it. If you don't do what they like, you may even be called inferior to others ... Secondly, they ask to marry a suite because they think their son is chased by many girls, and you never thought about it. Didn't mention whether the bride price should be equivalent to the house, parents, and treat you as a bride ... Third, he grew up in such a family, it is difficult to get rid of the influence of his family, and you can't get rid of them completely ...?

Their son is chasing a lot of people, so you have no one to take it with you? In the eyes of parents, there are so many girls who want to marry their son that the doorframe is about to collapse. It seems good to be chased to set off their son's "hotness". However, you have to think about yourself, is it so bad that no one wants it at all? The other person's statement is to compare you with your son and other girls, belittle you and make you insignificant. Can't you see for yourself?

You want to marry a suite, no loss? They got a daughter-in-law for nothing and a house for nothing. It's not like no one has done it before. But most of the time, this is the right thing to do. For example, if he marries a suite, the bride price is gold, silver and jewelry, even shops and the like. But this family's abacus is very clever. You don't lose money by "marrying a suite", but they don't say what to give as a bride price ... If they get a wife for nothing, they can get a suite and other things, and their family really doesn't lose money! ?

But girl, your parents' house is not for you to give to the "baiwenhang". I think this future in-laws are very much like baiwenhang. If you can say this, you may do more wonderful things in the future. So when this happens to you, you should discuss it with your parents. First, not every family can take out a suite and marry him at will. What if I have no money? Secondly, parents who can marry a suite will have better vision and vision than you, have more judgment than you, and listen to their parents more. ...

You can't get rid of their influence, even if your son marries you instead of them. You might say that it was his parents who said such things, not him. He's not like that. In fact, birth has a great influence. Growing up in such a family, he will have more or less similar ideas and behavior patterns under the influence, which is difficult to find when he is not living together. Once you get married, it's too late to see each other for who they really are ...?

And even if you choose not to live with your parents after you marry him, they are still alive, and the influence on your son still exists. You must support old people when they are old. You can't avoid it. Do you really have enough confidence to face such parents? ?

Think about it. Choosing a husband means choosing a family and a way of life. Girl, think about it. You know, love is really a matter for two people, but marriage is not. Marriage involves two families, even two families. What kind of partner do you choose? You have to face his family and integrate into their lifestyle. Can you bear to belittle your parents-in-law who often raise your son? Can you accept "insatiable" parents-in-law? I don't think you should get married. ...