Women don't send watches, children don't send shoes, couples don't send umbrellas, boyfriends and girlfriends don't send pears,
Gifts emphasize uniqueness and commemoration.
When giving gifts, you should open them, appreciate them and praise them.
Be polite and give gifts when you come.
The host gives gifts to the guests,
Guests should be seen off when they leave.
Communication between companies and enterprises should be sent in the office. Personal express delivery should be delivered home.
Second, the boyfriend and girlfriend gifts taboo:
Send a boyfriend:
1. scarf-I love you forever.
2. Cup-for life
3. Letter-I miss you
4. Pajamas-I'll give you all I have.
Five flowers-I hope to engrave my name on your heart.
Send a girlfriend:
1. The ring represents that I deeply love you, and I am willing to be ordained for your love.
2. Necklace means locking you tightly. I hope he is the only one in your heart, and there is no other opposite sex.
The meaning of the bracelet is not only to encircle you, but also to imply that he only loves you.
4. The bracelet means that I want to tie you for life.
5. anklet means to tie this life and the afterlife together, hoping to be together in the afterlife.
Can't send shoes.
Gifts have become an indispensable social form for each of us to live and integrate into society.
1. Whether the gift is voluntary or not, each gift must be selected before giving. Because the gift is an extension of your personality, the other person can measure your interest, even your wisdom and talent.
2. The weight of the gift is appropriate. Generally speaking, the gift is too light and meaningless, and it is easy to be misunderstood as looking down on him, especially for people who are not close. And if the gift is too light, it is more difficult to ask others to do something, and the possibility of success is almost zero. But if the gift is too expensive, it will make the recipient suspected of accepting bribes, especially for superiors and colleagues. As people often say, "spend money to find a punishment", why bother? Therefore, the choice of gift weight is based on the premise that the other party can accept it happily, and strive to do more with less money; Spend more money on good deeds.
3. Don't buy "useful" gifts. Practical gifts not only have no imagination, but also have no brains.
Whether your gift is 3 yuan or 300 yuan, tear off the price tag first.
5. According to who gave what gift:
If you visit a laid-off worker whose life is relatively tight, you might as well bring him two pots of cooking oil as expensive cigarettes and alcohol.
If you visit a teacher, bring an elegant painting and calligraphy work of art, which must be treasured by the teacher.
If you visit your boss, you'd better bring a book or artistic ornaments like Four Treasures of the Study.
If you go to see the patient, you can send some flowers and nutrients to show your condolences.
If you visit your elders, buy some fruit snacks and bring an extra red envelope. At this time, you should pay attention to the old man's expression, and you will definitely laugh like a flower.
As gifts for children, you can choose some children's books that can increase children's knowledge and help children's intellectual development; Or send some novel toys that can enrich children's imagination.
Requirements and skills of gift giving
First of all, here are a few principles:
1. If you can give money, don't give gift certificates or anything like that.
Don't send it to the office if it can be delivered to home.
If you can deliver it at night, don't deliver it during the day.
4. If you can send your wife, don't send yourself.
If you can give gifts willingly, don't advertise everywhere.
6. Don't have one more person if you can have one.
Secondly, the following are more effective gift-giving skills:
1, offering flowers to Buddha
If you send a local product, you can say it's from your hometown. Give it to your friend. There are not many things and no money. This is not specially bought for him. Please let him accept it. Generally speaking, the recipient's attitude of refusing gifts is unrequited and will be greatly eased. Finally, he will accept your gift.
2. Dark Chen Cang
If you send wine or something to your friends, don't be afraid to talk about the word "send". Come and have a drink with your friend on the pretext that someone else gave you two bottles of wine, so that he can prepare his order. Drink a bottle, get a bottle, the relationship will be closer, and the gift will be sent without leaving a trace. Isn't it wonderful? Of course, this is for close friends. Most people may think that you are taking advantage of a meal.
3. Clouds are shining on the moon
Sometimes you want to give a gift to others, and the other person has a problem with you, so it is not convenient to send it directly. You might as well choose the birthday and wedding day of the recipient and invite several acquaintances to give gifts and congratulations so that the recipient will not refuse. When I know that this idea is your idea afterwards, I will definitely change my view of you and make the relationship as good as ever. With the help of everyone, it is the best policy to achieve the purpose of giving gifts together.
4. Transplantation method
Lao Zhang entrusted something to Xiao Liu and wanted to send some gifts to clarify it, but he was afraid that Xiao Liu would refuse. Lao Zhang's wife and Xiao Liu's wife are very familiar. Lao Zhang started his wife's diplomacy and asked her to visit with a gift, which succeeded in one fell swoop-the thing was done and the gift was accepted, killing two birds with one stone. It seems that direct attack is not as effective as circuitous movement.
5. The meaning of drunkenness
If you send some money and things to someone with family difficulties, sometimes he is very headstrong and refuses to accept them easily. If you send something, it is better to say that it is idle at home. Let him use it first and buy it later. The recipient will think that you are not giving alms, and you will be willing to accept them later. In this way, your gift-giving purpose has also been achieved.
6. icing on the cake
A student owes a lot to his teacher and always wants to repay him if he has no chance. One day, he happened to find that the calligraphy and painting in the teacher's mahogany frame were rubbings, which were out of harmony with the elegant furnishings in the room. It happens that his uncle is a famous calligrapher, and he has calligraphy and painting that his uncle gave him. The students immediately brought the calligraphy and painting and put it in the picture frame. The teacher not only didn't object, but also liked it very much. The purpose of students' giving gifts in return has finally been achieved.
7, the same result
Sometimes you don't have to pay for gifts yourself. In some cases, human feelings are also a gift. For example, you can use certain relationships to buy things at preferential prices. When you buy these things for your friends and colleagues, they have accepted your love as a gift at the same time. Because the recipient paid the money, he felt at ease when he received something, and he had no worries; Those who send "feelings" are unprofitable and enjoy themselves. This affordable way of giving gifts is also a wonderful way of giving gifts.
China's Gift Secret:
1, the gift is light, and the affection is heavy-the specific situation and occasion should be considered when giving gifts. Generally, when you go to a private family for dinner, you should bring some small gifts to the hostess, such as bouquets, fruits, local products and so on. If you have children, you can send toys and candy. Invited to the wedding, in addition to artistic decorations, you can also send bouquets and practical items. In New Year and Christmas, calendars, wine, tea, candy, cigarettes and so on can usually be given away.
2. Grasp the timing and method of giving gifts-gifts should generally be given in person. But sometimes you can attend the wedding and send it in advance. Celebrating festivals and giving annual gifts can be delivered to your door or mailed. At this time, the business card of the giver should be attached to the gift, or the congratulatory message can be handwritten and packed in an envelope of the same size. The recipient's name should be marked on the envelope and pasted on the top of the gift package.
3, friendly attitude, words don't lose-pay attention to attitude, action and language expression when giving gifts. Peaceful, friendly, natural and elegant movements accompanied by polite language expressions are acceptable to the receiver.
4. Take into account the custom-the choice of gifts should be treated differently for different recipients. Generally speaking, for the poor, it is still affordable; For the rich, exquisiteness is better; For lovers, lovers, lovers, it is better to commemorate; For friends, fun is better; For the elderly, it is better to be practical; For children, it is best to innovate; For foreign guests, it is best to have characteristics.
The most popular gift:
1, decoration category. Such as specially shaped crystals and porcelain.
2, fun. Such as fruit basket, flower basket, chocolate, wine, etc.
3. Art category. Such as famous calligraphy and painting, antiques, etc.
4. Personal article. Such as cosmetics, perfume, aromatherapy oil, clothes, accessories and so on.
5, household items. Such as cups and cookers with unique shapes.
6. Stationery. Such as books, records, stationery, etc.
Gift-giving taboo:
1, send an unlucky item. Such as sending a clock (homophonic "farewell").
2. The gift does not meet the identity of the donee. For example, if the other person is a handyman and gives him a large set of modern stationery, he may find it ironic; Giving something that sells a lot to someone who pays attention to taste will undoubtedly hurt the other person's self-esteem.
3, the gift does not meet the occasion. For example, if you send a happy record to a undertaker, even if it is expensive, it is not appropriate.