I comforted her and slowly asked her why. It turned out that her husband said that he hadn't come home for a few days on business recently, but yesterday she went to Yintai Shopping Center, which was opened for promotion. The shopping center is far from home. If she doesn't go at ordinary times, it won't be the Spring Festival soon. She wants to buy some new year clothes for her husband and children at a discount.
Unfortunately, however, she walked past the jewelry counter on the second floor and bumped into her husband, who hadn't come home for a few days on a business trip, choosing jewelry and holding a girl in her twenties in her arms. At that moment, she was shocked, her brain was blank and her heart ached, but she couldn't say a word. Her husband saw it, too, and only said, "Let's talk about it at home." And then pulled the woman away.
She went home crying and waited for Daming for a long time. As soon as she got home, she said, "Now that you have seen it, I don't need to say anything. We haven't had feelings for each other for a long time. Let's divorce. "
This completely defeated Xiaoxiao. She thinks that at least he will feel guilty for his behavior and explain it to himself. I didn't expect him to be so rude. He was married and had a family, so he lost it when he said it. Xiaoxiao cried and begged him not to divorce, but a man with another woman in his heart couldn't pull back ten cows!
Xiaoxiao said that she had no job and no money. When people reach middle age, she revolves around her husband and children every day. She is a typical Chinese wife and mother, serving her in-laws, husbands and children wholeheartedly at home, but most men like the new and hate the old. When a woman is completely attached to him, he has the right to choose and decide.
In fact, I have long heard about the flowers and plants outside Daming, and I have reminded Xiaoxiao, but Xiaoxiao trusts Daming too much and always feels that he will not abandon his family. Excessive trust in men is also a disease. You know a man can build a family for another woman. He abandoned her instead of his family. For Xiaoxiao, Daming is her first love. They were classmates from junior high school to senior high school, and they were childhood friends. After graduating from high school, neither of them went to college, so they looked for jobs together. Later, Daming partnered with his friends to do business, and the business gradually improved. They will get married and have children, and she will live a life of caring for her husband and children.
I thought this life was calm, but I didn't expect a bolt from the blue.
Xiaoxiao said that she couldn't figure out that he could end his 20-year relationship in one sentence. I said, if you can't figure it out, think about it. Where did you lose this marriage? Can it be redeemed? If not, what would you do?
Xiao Xiao said, when I watched the first half of my life, I was still feeling what happened to Luo Zijun, and I was glad that I didn't meet such a man. But now, Luo Zijun at least looks better than himself. Indeed, Zijun is not only good-looking, but also lived a pampered life before the divorce. Where's Xiaoxiao? At best, it's just Daming's unpaid nanny. Besides buying food, he always wears pajamas at home and never goes to a beauty salon. Xiaoxiao himself doesn't dislike beautiful women, but Daming doesn't let Zijun spend money like Luo Zijun's ex-husband. He is a "cheapskate" and only gives her money for living expenses every month. Even Xiaoxiao has to ask about buying lipstick. Xiaoxiao has no money in his hand.
Therefore, being a housewife is the most risky. Being a free nanny at home, meeting a stingy man, giving living expenses is also like charity. If you are not careful, you will become an abandoned dissatisfied wife. If your man is so mean to you in life that he won't even buy you a lipstick, then he must not love you! It's a pity that Xiaoxiao didn't understand earlier. Maybe Daming is just stingy with Xiaoxiao. Didn't he lead the woman to Yintai to buy jewelry by credit card? Generous to other women and stingy to his wife's death, what a love rat!
Xiaoxiao said that she didn't know anything, just thought she didn't have a job. Her husband is stingy and helpless to himself, so he can't argue every day. Sometimes she asks for money, and Daming grabs it when she is in a bad mood: Qian Qian money only asks for money every day and spends it so fast? It is not easy for us men to make money. You don't even know how to save yourself playing at home! In fact, Mix spent all the money given by Daming on family living expenses and children. A few years ago, she bought her own clothes. She also thought about going out to work, but in the end, because she had been out of society for many years, she didn't know what job to look for.
If a woman's economy depends entirely on men, she will meet a man like Luo Zijun's ex-husband and be dumped after a luxurious life; If Daming is so stingy, Xiaoxiao not only lives like a nanny, but is finally abandoned by ruthless derailment.
Luo Zijun was also abandoned, but there was a very important reason why she was finally able to counterattack. She got help from her best friend and He Han. He Han finally fell in love with her, which was inseparable from Luo Zijun's beauty.
Now look at Xiaoxiao's swollen eyes, crow's feet, unkempt hair and old clothes that have been worn for several years. It's really sad. Years have turned a delicate girl into a greasy middle-aged woman.
A greasy middle-aged woman who has no money and no job is about to be abandoned by marriage. It is easy to get out of a marriage, but it is not easy for Xiaoxiao to live. What should she do?
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