Buddha Miller is enthusiastic and happy, so many people come, but he doesn't care about anything, and his accounts are improperly managed, so he still can't make ends meet. Although Wei Tuo was a cook in charge of accounts, he was unhappy all day, which was too serious. He made fewer and fewer friends and finally died.
Buddha found this problem when he was looking for incense, so he put them in the same temple. Maitreya was in charge of public relations and greeted all the guests with smiles, so the incense was flourishing. And Wei Tuo is impartial, he will be better than others, so let him be in charge of finance and strictly control it. In the division of labor and cooperation between the two people, the temple flourished.
In fact, in the eyes of the master of employing people, people without waste, like martial arts masters, can hurt people by picking flowers and flying leaves without expensive swords. The key is how to use them.
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(2) A person went to buy a parrot and saw the front sign of a parrot: This parrot can speak two languages, and the price is 200 yuan. In front of another parrot, it was written: This parrot can speak four languages, and the price is 400 yuan. Which one should I buy? Both are shiny, very flexible and lovely. The man turned and couldn't make up his mind. Suddenly I found a parrot with a tooth missing. Its coat color is dim and messy, and its price is 800 yuan.
The man quickly called the boss: Can this parrot speak eight languages?
The shopkeeper said, no.
This person is strange: then why is it so old, so ugly and so incompetent that it is worth this number?
The shopkeeper replied: because the other two parrots call this parrot boss.
This story tells us that a real leader is not necessarily strong in his own ability. As long as he knows how to trust, how to delegate and how to cherish, he can unite forces stronger than himself and thus enhance his value. On the contrary, many people with very strong abilities are too perfectionist and hands-on, and no one can match them. In the end, I can only be the best researcher and sales representative, but I can't be an excellent leader.
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(3) A. As a white-collar worker in a joint venture company, I feel that my ambition has not been appreciated by my superiors, and I often think: If I can meet my boss one day, I will have a chance to show my talents! !
A's colleague B has the same idea. He went one step further and asked the boss when he got to and from work and figured out when he got into the elevator. He also took the elevator at this time, hoping to meet his boss and say hello.
Their colleague c went further. He learned about the boss's struggle in detail, made clear the school where the boss graduated, his interpersonal style and his concerns, carefully designed a few simple but weighty opening remarks, took the elevator at the calculated time, and greeted the boss several times. Finally, he had a long talk with the boss one day and soon won a better position.
Fools miss opportunities, wise men seize opportunities, and winners create opportunities. Opportunities are only given to those who are prepared, and the word "preparation" is not just talk.
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(4) A psychology professor visited the madhouse and learned about the living conditions of lunatics. After all, it's an eye-opener to think that these people are crazy and act unexpectedly.
Unexpectedly, when I was about to return, I found my tire dropped. "Some madman must have done it!" The professor thought angrily and began to get the spare tire ready to install.
This is serious. The man who got off the tire actually dropped all the screws. You can't get on without screws and spare tires! The professor was at a loss. Just as he was in a hurry, a madman jumped up and sang an unknown happy song. He found the professor in trouble and stopped to ask what had happened. The professor ignored him and told him out of courtesy.
The madman smiled and said, "I have an idea!" " "He removed one screw from each tire so that he had three screws to install the spare tire. The professor was pleasantly surprised and very curious: "How did you come up with this idea?" The madman smiled and said, "I am a madman, but I am not a fool!" " "
In fact, many people in the world, because they find pleasure in their work, always show different fanaticism from ordinary people, which is hard to understand. When many people laugh at them as crazy, others may still laugh at him as a bookworm.
Stupidity and cleverness are especially a good attitude in China.
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(5) A doctor is assigned to a research institute and becomes the person with the highest academic qualifications. One day, he went fishing in the small pond behind his unit. It happened that the director and deputy director were around him and were fishing. He just nodded slightly. What are these two undergraduates talking about?
After a while, the director put down the fishing rod, stretched himself and walked briskly across the water to go to the toilet. The doctor's eyes are about to fall off. Floating on the water? Really? This is a pond. When the director came back from the toilet, he also floated back from the water. What's going on here? Doctoral students are not easy to ask, they are doctoral students!
After a while, the deputy director also stood up, took a few steps and floated across the water to go to the toilet. Now the doctor almost fainted: no way, go to a place where Jianghu experts are concentrated? Doctoral students are also very anxious. There are walls on both sides of this pond. It takes more than ten minutes to go to the toilet opposite, and it's too far to go back to work. What should I do?
Doctoral students don't want to ask the two directors. After holding back for a long time, they got up and stepped into the water: I don't believe undergraduates can pass, but my doctoral students can't. The doctor fell into the water with a bang.
Two directors pulled him out and asked him why he had to go into the water. He asked, "Why did you walk there?" The two directors smiled at each other: "There are two rows of stakes in this pond. Because it rained these two days, the water just rose below the surface. We all know the location of the stake, so we can step on it. Why don't you ask? "
Education represents the past, and only learning ability can represent the future. People who respect experience can take fewer detours. A good team should be a learning team.
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(6) A said to B, "I want to leave this company. I hate this company! "
B suggestion: "I raise my hands in favor of your revenge!" " ! This broken company must give it some color to see see. But now is not the best time for you to leave. "
Ah q:?
B said, "If you leave now, the company will not lose much. You should take advantage of the opportunity in the company, try your best to attract some customers for yourself, become a unique figure in the company, and then suddenly leave the company with these customers, and the company will suffer heavy losses and be very passive. "
A thinks what B said is very reasonable. So he worked hard and got what he wanted. After more than half a year's hard work, he has gained a lot of loyalty. /FONT & gt；
When we meet again, B asks A: It's time to jump, so hurry up!
A smiled indifferently: the boss talked to me for a long time and was going to promote me to be the assistant to the general manager. I have no plans to leave for the time being.
In fact, this is also the original intention of B. A person's job is always just for his resume. Only by paying more than you get, and letting the boss really see that your ability is greater than your position, will you be given more opportunities and create more profits for him.
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(7) Once a small country came to China to pay tribute to three identical gold people. The golden wall was brilliant and the emperor was very happy. However, this small country is not kind, and at the same time a question arises: who is the most valuable of these three gold people?
The emperor thought of many ways to ask the jeweler to check, weigh and watch the work, all of which were exactly the same. What shall we do? The messenger is still waiting for a return. A vast country, you don't even understand this little thing? Finally, an old minister who abdicated said that he had an idea.
The emperor invited the emissary to the main hall, and the old minister confidently took three straws and inserted them into the ear of the first gold man. The straw came out of the other ear. The straw of the second gold man fell out directly from his mouth, and the straw of the third gold man fell into his stomach without any noise. The old minister said: the third gold man is the most valuable! The messenger was silent and the answer was correct.
This story tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the most talkative person. God gave us two ears and one mouth, which was supposed to make us listen more and talk less. Being good at listening is the most basic quality of a mature person.
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(8) Before a master performer took the stage, his disciples told him that his shoelaces were loose. The master nodded his thanks and squatted down to tie it carefully. Disciple turned his back and squatted down to untie his shoelaces. A bystander saw all this and asked inexplicably, "Master, why did you untie your shoelaces again?" The master replied, "Because I play a tired traveler, I can loosen his shoes after a long journey and show his fatigue and haggard through this detail."
"Then why don't you just tell your disciples?"
"He can carefully find that my shoelaces are loose and enthusiastically tell me that I must protect his enthusiasm and encourage him in time. As for why I untied my shoelaces, I will have more opportunities to teach him to perform in the future. I can talk about it next time. "
People can only do one thing at a time, and only by grasping the key points can they become real talents.
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(9) Chen Atu is a farmer in Taiwan Province Province and has never been far away. After saving money for half my life, I finally joined a tour group and went abroad. Everything abroad is very fresh. The key point is that Chen Atu joined a luxury group and lived in a standard room. This makes him novel.
In the morning, when the waiter knocked on the door to deliver breakfast, he shouted, "Good morning, sir!" "
Chen Atu froze. What does this mean? In my hometown, strangers usually ask, "What's your name?"
So Chen Atu shouted, "My name is Chen Atu!"
If so, for three days in a row, it was the waiter Chen Atu who knocked at the door and said "Good morning" loudly every day, and also replied loudly: "My name is Chen Atu!"
But he was very angry. This waiter is so stupid that he asks his name every day and tells him that he can't remember. Very annoying. Finally, he couldn't help asking the tour guide, "Good morning, sir!" " What do you mean? The tour guide told him, oh, my God! ! That's a real pity.
Chen Atu practiced saying "Good morning, sir!" This word allows you to deal with waiters with dignity.
Another morning, the waiter knocked at the door as usual. As soon as the door opened, Chen Atu shouted, "Good morning, sir!"
At the same time, the waiter shouted, "I'm Chen Atu!"
This story tells us that interpersonal communication is often a contest between willpower and willpower. Either you influence him or he influences you. If we want to succeed, we must cultivate our own influence. Only those with great influence can become the strongest.
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(10) There was a rich boy who loved jiaozi very much and ate it every day. But he is very cunning. He only eats stuffing and throws the tips of his skin into the river behind him. The good times didn't last long. When he was sixteen, a big fire burned his whole family, and his parents died in anger. I'm penniless now, so I'm embarrassed to beg. The neighbor's sister-in-law is very nice. She gives him a bowl of mushy noodles for every meal. He studied hard and came back after three years. He must thank his neighbor's sister-in-law
Sister-in-law told him: Don't thank me. I didn't give you anything. I put away the jiaozi tips you lost in those years, dried them and bagged them. I wanted them to plan ahead. I gave it back to you just when you needed it.
Big officer person thought for a long time, for a long time. ...
There is a famous March 8 theory: eight hours of sleep and eight hours of work, everyone is the same. The difference between people lies in how to spend their spare time. Time is the most affectionate and heartless thing, and everyone has the same thing, which is fair. But people with resources may not be successful, and those who make good use of resources will be successful. Living during the day and developing at night are the requirements for talents in 2 1 century.
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(1 1) Three people are going to be put in prison for three years, and the warden gives each of them a request. Americans love to smoke cigars and asked for three boxes of cigars. The French are the most romantic and want to be accompanied by beautiful women. The Jew said he wanted a telephone to communicate with the outside world.
Three years later, the first person who rushed out was an American, with a cigar in his mouth and shouting, "Give me a fire, give me a fire!" " "It turned out that he forgot to make a fire.
Then the French came. I saw a child in his hand, a beautiful woman holding a child in her hand and a third one in her belly.
Finally, the Jews came out. He held the warden's hand tightly and said, "I have been in contact with the outside world every day for three years." My business has not stopped, but has increased by 200%. To express my gratitude, I send you an old Schleswig! "
This story tells us that what kind of choice determines what kind of life. Today's life is determined by our choices three years ago, and today's choices will determine our life three years later. We should choose to get in touch with the latest information and understand the latest trends, so as to create our own future better.
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Two men met a big tiger in the forest. A quickly took off a pair of lighter sports shoes from the back and put them on. B was so anxious that he scolded, "What are you doing? Changing shoes can't beat the tiger! "
A said, "I just want to run faster than you."
2 1 century, no sense of crisis is the biggest crisis. Especially after China's entry into WTO, telecommunications, banking, insurance and even civil servants, which we think are very stable and secure, will also face many variables. When more tigers come, aren't we ready for running shoes?
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(13) Father and son live on the mountain and drive ox carts down the mountain to sell firewood every day. The old father is more experienced, driving in the town, the mountain road is rugged and curved, and the son has a good eye. He always reminds him when he wants to turn: "Dad, turn!"
Once my father didn't go down the mountain because of illness, and my son drove alone. At the corner, the cow refused to turn, so the son tried every means to get out of the car and push and pull, lured by grass, and the cow did not move.
What the hell is going on? My son is puzzled. In the end, there is only one way. He looked around to see that no one was there. He leaned close to the cow's ear and shouted, "Dad, turn!" " "
The cow responded and moved.
Cows live by conditioned reflex, while people live by habit. A successful person knows how to cultivate good habits instead of bad ones. When more good habits are accumulated, there will naturally be a good life.
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Five-year-old Hank went to work in the forest with his father, mother and brother. Suddenly it began to rain, but they only brought a poncho.
Dad gave the poncho to mom, mom gave it to my brother, and my brother gave it to Hank.
Hank asked, "Why did my father give it to my mother, my mother gave it to my brother and my brother gave it to me?"
Dad replied, "Because dad is better than mom, mom is better than brother, and brother is better than you." We all protect the weak. "
Hank looked around and ran to spread the poncho on a delicate flower swaying in the wind and rain.
This story tells us that the real strong man is not necessarily powerful or rich, but how much he helps others.
Responsibility allows us to accomplish things, and love allows us to do things well.
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(15) A scholar went to Beijing for the third time to catch the exam and lived in a shop where he often lived. Two days before the exam, he had three dreams. The first dream is that he grows cabbage on the wall. The second dream is that it is raining. He is wearing a hat and an umbrella. The third dream is that he is lying naked with his beloved cousin, but his back is to his back.
These three dreams seem to have some profound meanings, so the scholar hurried to find fortune-telling dreams the next day. Hearing this, the fortune teller patted his thigh continuously and said, "You'd better go home. Think about it, isn't it futile to grow vegetables on high walls? Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella? Isn't it impossible to lie naked in a bed with my cousin, but back to back? "
Hearing this, the scholar was disheartened and went back to the store to pack his bags and prepare to go home. The shopkeeper was surprised and asked, "Isn't there an exam tomorrow? How did you go back to your hometown today? "
When the scholar said this, the shopkeeper was happy: "Hey, I can interpret dreams, too. I think you must stay this time. Think about it, isn't it high to grow vegetables on the wall? Doesn't wearing a hat and an umbrella mean that you are prepared this time? Lying naked in bed with your cousin doesn't mean you should turn over? "
Hearing this, the scholar made more sense, so he took the exam happily and got a flower exploration.
Positive people, like the sun, shine wherever they shine, while negative people, like the moon, are different on the fifteenth day of the first month. Ideas determine our lives. What kind of ideas, what kind of future.
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The little camel in the zoo asked his mother, "Mom, mom, why are our eyelashes so long?"
Mother camel said, "When a sandstorm comes, long eyelashes can make us all see clearly in the storm."
The little camel asked again, "Mom, why are our backs so camel and ugly!" " "
Mother camel said: "This is called hump, which can help us to store a lot of water and nutrients, so that we can endure it for more than ten days without drinking water or eating in the desert."
The little camel asked again, "Mom, why are our soles so thick?"
Mother camel said, "This can prevent our heavy bodies from sinking into the soft sand, which is convenient for long-distance travel."
The little camel was very happy: "Wow, we are really useful!" " ! But mom, why are we still in the zoo and don't go hiking in the desert? "
I was born useful, but no one uses it now. Good mentality+successful teaching materials+infinite stage = success. Everyone's potential is unlimited, and the key is to find a stage where they can give full play to their potential.
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1: a rose
A gentleman stopped at the gate of the flower shop. He is going to order a bunch of flowers from the flower shop for his mother in his hometown.
When the gentleman was about to walk into the shop door, he found a little girl sitting on the road crying. The gentleman walked up to the little girl and asked her:
"Son, why are you sitting here crying? 」
I want to buy a rose for my mother, but I don't have enough money. "said the child. This gentleman is distressed.
"I see ..." So the gentleman took the little girl by the hand and walked into the flower shop. He first ordered a bunch of flowers for his mother, and then bought a rose for the little girl. Walking out of the flower shop, the gentleman suggested to the little girl that he drive her home.
"Do you really want to take me home? 」
"Of course! 」
"Then you can take me to see my mother. But uncle, my mother lives far away from here. 」
"If I had known, I wouldn't have taken you." This gentleman said jokingly.
The gentleman drove all the way as the little girl said. Unexpectedly, after walking out of the main road in the city, he followed the winding mountain road and came to the cemetery. The little girl put the flowers next to a new grave. She walked a long way to present a rose to her mother who died just a month ago. The gentleman sent the little girl home and then went back to the flower shop. He canceled the bouquet for his mother, bought a large bouquet instead, and went directly to his mother's house, which is five hours' drive from here. He will give her the flowers himself.
a rose
Hold a grand funeral for the dead,
When he was alive,
Kindness and filial piety.
2. An unlocked door
A mother and daughter live in a remote hut in a small village in the country. Her mother is afraid of being stolen, and always puts three locks on the doorknob at night. My daughter hates the boring and unchanging country life, just like a landscape painting. She yearns for this city and wants to see the gorgeous world she imagined through the radio. One morning, my daughter left her mother in pursuit of that illusory dream. She sneaked away from home while her mother was sleeping.
"Mom, you just don't have my daughter. Unfortunately, the world is not as beautiful as she imagined. Without knowing it, she got off the road and got stuck in the mud, and then she realized her mistake.
"mom! Ten years later, my grown-up daughter dragged her broken heart and clumsy body back to her hometown.
When she got home, it was already late at night, and a faint light was shining through the door. She tapped on the door, but suddenly she had a bad feeling. My daughter got a fright when she twisted the door. "It's strange that my mother never forgot to lock the door before. Mother's thin body curled up on the cold floor and fell asleep distressfully.
"Mom ... mom ..." Hearing her daughter's crying, mom opened her eyes and put her arm around her tired shoulder without saying a word. After crying in her mother's arms for a long time, her daughter suddenly asked curiously, "Mom, why didn't you lock the door today?" What if someone breaks in? " 」
Mom replied, "Not just today. I'm afraid you can't get in at night, so the door hasn't been locked for ten years. 」
The mother waited for her daughter to come back for ten years, and the decoration in the room was the same as that of that year. That night, the mother and daughter returned to the way they were ten years ago, locked the door tightly and fell asleep.
Family love is the cradle of hope,
Thanks for the warmth of home,
Give sustained growth momentum.
3. Hair in the lunch box
In that poor era, many students were often unable to take a decent lunch to school, just like the classmate next to me. His food is always black lobster sauce, but my lunch is often ham and poached eggs. There is a world of difference between them.
Moreover, this classmate will pick up his hair from the lunch box first, and then eat his lunch box casually. This uncomfortable discovery has been going on.
"I can see that his mother is too sloppy, and there is hair in her meal every day." The students are talking in private. In order to take care of my classmate's self-esteem, but I can't show it, I always feel so dirty, so my impression of this classmate began to be greatly discounted. One day after school, my classmates stopped me: "Come to my house to play if you have nothing to do. Although I don't want to, it's the first time since my classmate that he invited me to play at home, and I'm embarrassed to refuse him.
I followed my friends to a poor village with the steepest terrain in Seoul.
"Mom, I brought my friend. After hearing the excited voices of the students, the door opened. His elderly mother appeared at the door.
"My son's friend is here, let me have a look. But the classmate's mother who walked out of the door just touched the beam outside the door with her hand. It turns out that she is blind.
My nose feels sour and I can't say a word. Although this classmate usually has lobster sauce for lunch every day, it is his mother who can't be seen. He helped him pack carefully. It was not just a lunch, but also his mother's full love, even the hair mixed in it.
Preconceived ideas,
It often affects people's lifestyle.
Observe and discuss more,
There will be more unexpected discoveries.
4. the postman who grows flowers
There is a middle-aged postman in a small village. Since he just turned 20, he has traveled 50 kilometers every day, sending sad and happy stories to residents' homes day after day. In this way, twenty years passed quickly, and people and things changed several times. It's just that the road from the post office to the village has never been half a year, only flying dust.
"How long does this desolate road take? 」
He always feels a little sorry at the thought of riding a bike all his life on this dusty road without flowers and trees.
One day, when he was about to go back after delivering the letter, he happened to pass by a flower shop. "By the way, this is it! He went into the flower shop and bought a handful of wild flower seeds. From the next day, he took these seeds and scattered them on the road. In this way, after a day, two days, a month, two months ... he kept spreading the seeds of wild flowers.
Not long after, the desolate road that has been going back and forth for 20 years has actually opened many red and yellow flowers; Summer flowers bloom in summer, autumn flowers bloom in autumn, and flowers bloom in four seasons, never stopping.
Seeds and flowers make people in the village happier than any mail sent by the postman all his life.
On the road full of petals instead of dust, the postman whistling and riding a bicycle is no longer a lonely postman or a sad postman.
Life is like a blink of an eye,
Time flies,
Why not leave behind the good deeds,
Provide cool air for future generations?
The100th guest
The noon rush hour has passed, and the originally crowded snack bars have all dispersed. When the boss was about to catch his breath reading the newspaper, someone came in. That's an old woman and a little boy.
"How much is a bowl of beef soup rice? Grandma sat down, took out her wallet and counted the money, and ordered a bowl of soup rice, steaming soup rice. Grandma pushed the bowl in front of her grandson. The little boy swallowed and looked at grandma and said:
"Grandma, have you really had lunch?" "Of course. Grandma chewed slowly with a radish and kimchi between her arms. The little boy finished a bowl of rice in the blink of an eye.
Seeing this, the boss walked up to two people and said, "Congratulations, old lady. You are so lucky today. You are our hundredth guest, so it's free. One day more than a month later, the little boy squatted opposite the snack bar, as if counting something, which surprised the boss who inadvertently looked out of the window.
It turned out that every time a little boy saw a guest walk into the shop, he put pebbles in the circle he drew, but it was almost time for lunch, and there were not even fifty pebbles.
The worried boss called all his old customers: "Are you busy? It's nothing. I want you to eat a bowl of soup rice. Today is my treat. After calling a lot of people, the guests began to arrive one after another. " Eighty-one, eighty-two, eighty-three ... "The little boy counted faster and faster. Finally, when was the ninety-ninth pebble put into the circle?
Just then, the little boy hurriedly took his grandmother's hand and entered the snack bar.
"Grandma, it's my treat this time." The little boy said proudly. Grandma, who really became the hundredth guest, asked her grandson to entertain a bowl of hot beef soup rice. The little boy chewed a radish and kimchi in his mouth like his grandmother used to.
"Send a bowl to that boy, too." The proprietress could not bear to say.
"The little boy is learning that he will be full even if he doesn't eat!" The boss replied.
Snoring ... grandma who ate with relish asked her little grandson, "Do you want to save some for you? 」
Unexpectedly, the little boy patted his stomach and said to his grandmother, "No, I'm full. Listen, grandma. 」
Well-intentioned ideas encourage seedlings,
Seedlings can form forests,
Everyone has love, and society has affection.
6. The most delicious instant noodles in the world
He is a single father, raising a seven-year-old boy by himself. Every time a child comes back from playing with friends, he feels deeply sorry for his dead wife, and there are also sad whispers in his heart. This happened the day he left his children for a business trip. He left home in a hurry because he had to catch a train and had no time to have breakfast with his children. I was worried about whether the child had eaten or cried all the way, and I couldn't let go of it. Even when I'm on a business trip, I call home from time to time. But the child is always very sensible and tells him not to worry. However, because of my anxiety, I finished my work in a hurry and set foot on the road home. When he got home, the child was asleep, and he was relieved. The fatigue of the journey made him weak. I was about to go to bed when I was suddenly surprised: under the quilt, there was a bowl of overturned instant noodles!
"This child!" In a rage, he punched his sleeping son in the ass.
"Why so naughty, make dad angry? You are so naughty, who are you going to wash the quilt for? This is the first time that he has physically punished the child since his wife died.
"I'm not ..." The child sobbed and pleaded, "I'm not naughty. This is ... this is dinner for my father. 」
It turned out that the child specially made two bowls of instant noodles to match his father's time to go home, one for himself and the other for his father. But because I was afraid that Dad's bowl would get cold, I put it under the quilt to keep warm.
Dad listened and hugged the child tightly without saying a word. Looking at the remaining half of the instant noodles in the bowl, I said, "Ah! Son, this is the most delicious instant noodles I have ever seen ... in the world! 」
No matter how young the child is,
And their dignity,
If parents find out that they are wrong about their children,
Bravely said to them:
"I'm sorry 」。
I hope I can help!