When she gets along with others, it is always that she can take advantage of others and others can't take advantage of her. Otherwise, she will show her ferocious side, not that others are selfish, but that others are shameless.

She has never seen it. She blames others for their shortcomings.

My mother called me at half past five this morning. She said that the land that my uncle promised to rent to me yesterday was rejected by my aunt. My aunt doesn't want to rent me the land I want to rent, and the reason is very direct.

She said to my mother, "I won't rent the land to your son." He wants that land and doesn't know what he wants to do to make money. Your family can't try to use me. "

After listening to my mother's theory, I was helpless. I just want to rent my aunt's land and plant some fruit trees. I suggested to her long ago that she should plant them.

But she said, planting fruit trees is troublesome, and as an old man, he should have enjoyed family happiness. At that time, she also told me that if I was willing to plant, I would rent the land to me.

Now, I started doing it, and she suddenly went back on her word. He also said that he would rather let the land be deserted than rent it to me. This makes me speechless. But think about it carefully, aunt is such a person, as long as she thinks that others can make money with her things, she doesn't want people to touch her light.

To tell the truth, we all have such greedy people around us, and their personalities should be similar to my aunt's. I just want to touch other people's light and be greedy for my own petty advantages, but I don't want others to touch my own small light, even if it is only theoretical and not implemented. As long as you have an idea, you will make money with their things, and they will feel that they have lost.

It is often tiring to associate with such people.

If they are just friends, it can be said that they just cut off contact and have no communication since then, so this is a net in their eyes. However, if you are a relative, or even a close relative, you are a little wronged.

Just like my aunt, even if our family has cut off contact with her, she will always "force" our family to compromise the fact that my uncle and my father are brothers.

Just like the other day when the corn machine was harvesting corn, she hid herself in the city and wandered around, pushing all the work to my parents. At that time, my mother was very angry and refused her directly on the phone. But she was never a quitter, so she asked her uncle to call my dad, and my dad gave in.

It is stingy to say that our family doesn't help, but we should seriously evaluate the next thing. When the corn was taken home from the field, my aunt called again and said that she would help her carry the corn bag by bag to the roof to dry.

At that time, my mother directly angered her. My mother said, "I helped you pick up the corn from the ground." You have taken advantage of it, so don't push your luck. " We are not your coolies! If you really want to continue to shine, you can. A bag of corn, 50 yuan, you give me 1000 yuan now, and I will carry all the corn to the roof for you in less than half an hour. "

Aunt was anxious when she heard my mother, so she began to play the family card. "Oh, I said my sister-in-law, how can you say that?" What money is not money, we men are brothers, and you are welcome to ask for money? "

After listening to my aunt's words, my dad couldn't stand it anymore, so he grabbed the phone from my mother and said directly to my aunt, "Don't mention brothers to me, I'll help you get the money, and you can hire me." No money, don't talk about it. "Say that finish, my dad hung up the phone.

It's not my dad's reality, it's my aunt who likes to take advantage of small things. Even those who kiss again will not push their luck and ask others to do this and that.

Aunt's routine was still the same, and it didn't make sense, so she began to let her uncle and cousin call me and my dad in turn. My cousin, in particular, is a peer who let me down.

When he called me, he said, "Brother, we are parents' brothers. You must help me. Your sister-in-law and I are traveling outside, and my parents are both in the city. Although they are idle, they can't go back. So, please, be a good person and help our family carry the corn to the roof. "

Speaking of cousin, I'm really speechless. It is described in an ugly sentence: cats give birth to cats, dogs give birth to dogs, and mice give birth to sons who can make holes. Cousin and aunt's personalities are simply the same mold. Since I was a child, I have always taken advantage of small things, and I have never been a "brother".

Actually, my cousin herself has suffered from menstruation's petty gain. Just when he got married, because my cousin was an only child, her parents didn't want her to suffer after marrying my cousin, so they took out their savings and bought her a bridal dowry room. The result is very good. Just married for half a month, menstruation, who was greedy for petty gains, calculated her cousin's dowry room.

Because the house was bought in full by her parents before marriage, it is naturally considered as premarital property, and the house only has the cousin's name. When my aunt knew this, she thought that her cousin had left her in-laws' house, so she began to calculate her cousin and asked her to hand over the dowry room.

At that time, my cousin didn't think anything was wrong. After all, he is also a college student, so he knows that premarital property is premarital property, and my cousin's parents bought it themselves, and their family has no money. Even if I ask my cousin to add his name, I feel wrong. Therefore, he has never been entangled in this matter.

However, my aunt, who loves taking bribes, has been insatiable since I was sensible. How can she stop there? My cousin felt unreasonable, so she asked her uncle to talk to her cousin. My uncle didn't think it was necessary, but he felt poorer and didn't agree.

After that, she stood up and told her cousin about the dowry room. At that time, my cousin thought my aunt just wanted to move in, so she said she could pay for the decoration and let her and her uncle move in.

But how can aunt accept this "petty profit"? She said that she not only wants to live in a house, but also wants her cousin to add her and uncle's names to the room book.

At first, I was also curious. Why doesn't aunt mention her cousin's name, but her and uncle's name? Later, I learned that they wanted to "cheat" my cousin's house in this way and give it to my cousin, her little son.

This sentence can really explain my aunt vividly.

My cousin was angry at her aunt's words. It was very noisy that day, and half the villagers came to watch the fun. At that time, my cousin didn't know what my aunt said at that time, and thought it was to let my cousin add her name.

My cousin originally wanted to help my aunt, because their temperament was so similar that even he himself always wanted to take advantage of her. When he was engaged, he hoped that his cousin would give him less bride price on the grounds that he had a younger brother, and he also hoped that after he got married, he would bring back the bride price one by one.

However, in the process of listening to the quarrel between cousin and aunt, he heard a clue. It turned out that his aunt wanted to trick his wife's house into giving it to his brother, so he denied it. My wife, who has worked hard for herself, brought such a big cake when she got married. She can't give it to her brother for no reason.

So, my cousin joined the quarrel, and this time he wisely chose to help his wife in the "contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law".

Although, in the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, a man should talk to his wife first, and when the contradiction is no longer fierce, both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will realize that many contradictions are unnecessary through preaching. However, cousin speaks to cousin for a very direct purpose.

Just after menstruation's quarrel "fiasco" came out, my cousin put forward his own "selfishness", and he hoped to add his name to the dowry room.

My cousin's reasons are very high-sounding.

He said: "We are husband and wife, and we should support and help each other in love. So for some substances outside, we also have to balance. "

After seeing my aunt's face, my cousin felt a little disgusted with their family. Who knew that my cousin proposed to add a name to the house at this time? This inevitably reminds my cousin that this group of in-laws are thinking about the house where her parents are getting married.

So my cousin clamored for a divorce from her cousin and said, "When I asked someone to inquire about your family, others said that your family was greedy and cheap. I thought we had been dating since college, and our feelings were very deep. I didn't expect what others said was true! "

They quarreled all afternoon that time. They stopped talking until grandma came back from her parents' house in the evening. In front of my grandmother, uncles, aunts and cousins dare not be presumptuous. Because grandma is a very selfless person.

When my aunt married my uncle, she owed a lot of foreign debts. When we parted, menstruation calculated and put all those foreign debts on my dad's head. She said to my dad at that time: "Second brother, it's no big deal that you are single and have to pay off your foreign debts for a few years. However, my marriage with your brother is a matter of two families, and I have to raise children in the future, so please understand me and your brother. "

At that time, my father had not changed his "brave" temper, so he readily agreed to my aunt's "request". This is another reason why my family has been poor from birth to high school. Although it sounds like a small foreign debt of 5,000 yuan, what was the concept of 5,000 yuan 30 years ago?

Later, when grandma found out, she arrested my uncle and aunt and chased half the village with a broom. However, at that time, my dad fingerprinted those IOUs, even if it was a theory, it was a foregone conclusion.

Since then, my uncle and aunt have been very afraid of my grandmother. As for my cousin, he always bullied me. Once, in order to get a wooden toy in my hand, he broke my finger. Up to now, the little finger of my right hand can't be straightened. That time, grandma took a stick and grabbed my cousin, and her thighs were open to him.

In fact, up to now, I have been thinking about how I can have such a "relative" who loves to follow the light and is greedy for petty gains.

At that time, grandma came back to uphold justice, asked her uncle and aunt to apologize to her cousin, and asked her cousin to kneel down and admit her mistake. This is over for the time being.

But, auntie, where are the willing people? Just when my cousin gave birth to a baby and was confined, she brought up the past again. This time, she was a little wiser. She didn't ask my cousin to add her and her uncle's names to the dowry room, but asked my cousin to add her name to the dowry room.

She made this request with the words "I will take care of your children in the future". After listening to my aunt's request, my cousin readily agreed. My aunt couldn't believe it at that time. She stared at my cousin for a long time. After that, she patted her thighs and said everywhere in the street, "My good daughter-in-law finally agreed to write my son's name on the house where she married."

However, to her surprise, when her cousin came home from work, she directly came up with an agreement that said: Either divorce and get married immediately, or the child will take her surname.

At that time, my cousin looked puzzled. After that, my cousin told my cousin about her aunt's "past". At that time, my cousin was very determined and could not tolerate her resistance. Coupled with the previous things, the cousin was very "wronged" to sign the agreement and agreed to the child's surname.

My little nephew's surname hasn't changed back yet. In fact, my cousin doesn't really want to do this, and her parents are also very open-minded. They don't think she is an only child, so she must have a surname. She just used it to make her aunt's family realize the reality.

I was supposed to take advantage of others, but I stumbled. When the aunt learned that the child's surname followed the cousin's surname, she cried with regret and went to the cousin for theory. I was stopped by my cousin. He said, "You are really my real mother. You don't even let go of your daughter-in-law to catch the light. Great, isn't it? Please don't get involved in things between husband and wife. "

This is my cousin, who looks exactly like my aunt. The loss of food was caused by his own mother.

When my cousin heard me mention this, he just shut up at the other end of the phone.

Affection should be a kind of affection second only to the feelings of husband and wife, and sometimes it can even surpass love.

In the face of good family ties, we can all enhance our self-worth and the prosperity of the whole family. However, it should not be consumed in this way. Up to now, relatives are more like "enemies" than relatives.

It is said that home and everything are prosperous.

However, there are always one or two "rogue" relatives who have been hindering the harmony and prosperity of the whole family.