Women who have boyfriends like to have an affair with others. Do you know why?
He Bing is a woman of medium height and a little fat. She has a boyfriend, a little thin, and can be said to be small fresh meat. Her boyfriend is very kind to her and does everything she says. Once, after they broke up with her boyfriend, they cried directly, confessed and told the truth. She was moved and agreed to continue their relationship.
It stands to reason that it is good to have a boyfriend who loves him so much, but she is still having an affair with the man around her. She and her boyfriend are not in the same class. She always sits with the tall boys in the class and asks about this classmate. Sometimes she likes to hug his arm as soon as she meets him. In addition, she will not refuse others' flattery and over-intimacy, and will usually stand shoulder to shoulder back to back, but if she has a boyfriend, she will deliberately stay away.
Women who like to pursue ice-like excitement may be called "Bai Lianhua" and "green tea bitch". We despise her behavior, but why do they have people who really love themselves?
Lack of love and security when growing up.
If you are missing something, you can make up for it. This may be because sometimes you are plain, unhappy and lack the love and encouragement of your family, so you will feel insecure and lack of identity.
So when you grow up, these hidden things in your personality will also affect all aspects of people, so you will deliberately seek comfort. Just like when I was a child, I had less opportunities to eat sugar. When I grew up, eating sugar made up for my childhood lack and regret.
There is no shortage of sugar since childhood, and I am tired of eating sugar, and I don't need to eat sugar to supplement myself. So is love. Be valued since childhood. Growing up in a loving environment, there is no need to make up for the lack of love when you grow up with ambiguity.
Stars hold the moon-prove your charm with the opposite sex around you
The reason why girls are attracted to attention, high-priced jewelry, shoes and bags, perfume and cosmetics, girls are fascinated because these things attract the attention of others and show their charm.
Similarly, it is understandable to show others your unusual behavior with the number of men around you, but the result will depend on "different people have different opinions."
People who really cherish themselves are not half-hearted. Attractive people disdain to be surrounded by multiple opposite sexes to prove anything. Women who have boyfriends like to have an affair with others. Do you know why?
I don't like looking for someone else now.
Just like He Bing in the story, her boyfriend may like her, but He Bing doesn't like her enough. What he likes may be to keep a relationship with him. However, I can't stand my boyfriend's heartfelt rejection of himself. After a long time, I feel a little reluctant to say goodbye. After all, he is really good to her, obedient to her, caring for her and protecting her in all aspects of life.
But her boyfriend can't meet her spiritual needs, so she needs to find someone who can meet her spiritual pursuit. This behavior perfectly explains "being favored, not afraid, not getting, always making trouble." It is impossible to predict how the best result will end.
A collection of feelings
Love is the best thing in the world, but ambiguity is not. I hope these girls can understand that it is not their responsibility, their own indulgence and responsibility to hurt their boyfriends by irrelevant ambiguity.
Only by striving to improve one's inner self can one get real recognition and affirmation. It is useless to rely on a small expansion caused by ambiguity. Just like beautiful foam, it only shines for a moment in the bright sunshine, and it will burst when poked, leaving only splashing foam.