The most important thing is to learn to be a man.

Teach you how to be a man.

Young people who have just stepped onto the society are full of lofty sentiments, youthful vitality and avant-garde thinking, dreaming of rich treatment and vigorous career. However, after all, society is an all-encompassing, noisy and complicated university. There is no winter and summer vacation here, and we reject falsehood and superficiality, but also utopia and mediocrity. It is difficult to predict when classes will start and when they will finish.

How to make a good start, avoid detours and start a successful career when you first experience wet? The following are some useful suggestions of 10 accumulated by pioneers. Follow and master these opinions and suggestions well. Compared with classroom courses, it is not inferior!

1. Buy an alarm clock and wake you up on time. At any time, sleepiness and unpunctuality will become a stumbling block to your work and career. Learn not only to be punctual, but also to be ahead of time. Just like when you go to a place by car, the scenery along the way is so beautiful that you can't help but get off and have a look. Later, although I still arrived at a place, I didn't arrive on time. The "alarm clock" is just a simple sign and reminder. Real flexible and practical time is in everyone's heart.

If you don't like your present job, either quit or shut up. When you are young, you are prone to arrogance. Can't do big things and don't want to do small things. Don't get into the habit of being picky. I am too lazy to take an umbrella on rainy days, and I am afraid of getting wet without an umbrella, showing dissatisfaction everywhere. Remember, if you don't do it, you must do it well.

Everyone is lonely sometimes. Learn to endure loneliness, so that you can grow. Young people are used to laughing, being in a strange environment, being at a loss in the face of all kinds of people and things, and sometimes even having no place to talk. At this time, don't be impetuous, learn to meditate and learn to endure loneliness. Think in loneliness, mature in thinking and sublimate in maturity. Don't lose your mind because of loneliness, do boring and useless things and waste your precious time.

4. Be prepared for bad luck when you are lucky. One day, a fox went outside the vineyard and saw juicy grapes inside. But there is a fence outside. You can't go in. So it fasted for three days, lost weight, and finally got into the vineyard and had a delicious meal. When he wanted to leave the vineyard contentedly, he found that he was too full to get out of the fence. I believe no one wants to be such a fox. Retreat is equally important. Eat dry food, hold an umbrella on a sunny day, accumulate bit by bit, and follow the trend. Some things look worthless today, but they may be worth a hundred times one day.

5. Don't be as fragile as glass. Some people always stare at themselves, and they can't see far if they are tall; Always like to complain, but also annoying others. Where is the sweetness without bitterness? Not as fragile as glass, but as transparent as crystal, as brilliant as the sun and as strong as wintersweet. Since you open your eyes and enjoy the coolness of the wind, don't complain about the tiny grains of sand in the wind.

6. Shut up. Don't talk about yourself, let alone others. Talking about yourself is often arrogant and hypocritical, and you lose yourself in name. Talking about others is often entangled in trivial right and wrong. Drinking and chatting with colleagues and friends after work every day is not a good thing, because talking about colleagues and friends is often a topic. It is always bad to speak ill of people behind their backs, especially their shortcomings, which will degrade your personality.

7. Opportunities are never "lost". If you lose them, others will get them. Don't wait for anything, let alone hope for "opportunity". Opportunities are only relative to those who are well prepared and good at creating opportunities. Perhaps, when you are regretting and complaining about losing an opportunity, the opportunity is being seized by the same "unlucky ghost" opposite you. If there is no opportunity, we must create opportunities. If there is an opportunity, we must seize it skillfully.

8. If the phone keeps ringing, you should call out. Many times, the phone will bring you unexpected gains. It is not a vase, but just an ornament. Make new friends and don't forget old ones. With many friends, the road is easy. One of the great secrets of communication is initiative. Good popularity and good reputation often contribute to your career, by going up one flight of stairs.

9. Don't get married just because you are of marriageable age. If you want to get married, you must find a partner who can be your soul mate and complement each other. Don't fall in love because of indulgence and games, don't affect your work and career because of love, and don't hinder your life because of a hasty failed marriage. Emotional things are often lost because of small things.

10. Write down what you want to do in your life, put the list in your wallet and take it out often. Life should have goals, plans, reminders and a sense of urgency. String together one small goal after another, and it becomes your big goal in life. Life has become rich and the environment has improved. Don't forget the seemingly thin list in your wallet.

2. Common sense that boys should know

The first plan: No matter what you eat, you will let her have the first bite.

The second plan: always stand on her left and hold her hand, even when eating, sit on her left and hold her left hand with her left hand.

The third scheme: she is in poor health, so accompany her to exercise and go swimming.

Fourth: No matter how busy you are, when you are finished, you will call her first.

The fifth plan: when you are tired when climbing the mountain, carry her, even if you are sweating.

The sixth plan: She is allergic to ultraviolet rays and give her an umbrella in summer.

Seventh plan: she can't use a knife. When eating pizza, she cuts it into small pieces and gives it to her.

Plan 8: Eat her leftovers.

Plan 9: Carefully pick out the thorns in the fish and feed them to her for dinner in the sleet night.

The tenth plan: let her put the nose wipe paper directly into your pocket and take it out and throw it away when you see the trash can.

Eleventh plan: when watching a movie, let her comfortably * on your right shoulder and hold your right arm.

Twelfth plan: She goes out to play with her good friends, which she should remember. She stayed up late on her cell phone and didn't go to bed until she called home.

Thirteenth Plan: Know all her hobbies and try to adapt to her taste.

Fourteenth plan: if you go on a business trip, you will miss her and call her. If you have time, you will bring her a present.

Fifteenth plan: Whenever you call her cell phone, tell her frankly where you are and what you are doing.

Sixteenth plan: let her know all your passwords and never change them.

Seventeenth plan: Try to spend time with her, even for a short time, you will come to see her.

18th: Call her before going to bed at night, and she will talk to me very late.

Article 19: Everything she gives you should be carefully preserved.

Number 20: Refuse other girls to be nice to her.

Twenty-first plan: if she looks pale, go with her to have a beauty treatment and wait at the entrance of the beauty salon.

Twenty-second plan: when she is in trouble, she will try to comfort her.

Scheme 23: When you want to go home after the date, you should always look at her on the bus until you can't see her.

Twenty-fourth plan: buy her eye drops knowing that she always watches the computer and her eyes hurt.

The twenty-fifth plan: cut her nails, and cover her stomach with your hand when she has a stomachache, which is extremely distressing.

Number 26: I'll put socks and shoes on her. When I saw her shoelaces loose on the way, I would bend down and tie them for her.

Article 27: Never let her lift heavy objects.

Item 28: pray for her when you go to the temple to burn incense.

Twenty-ninth plan: look up her favorite stories and jokes online, then write them down and tell them to her when we meet.

Plan 30: In order to accompany her, I will give up my hobbies and hardly play games.

Thirty-one: Knowing that someone is chasing her will make you uneasy and jealous.

No.32: Treat her friends sincerely and try to help them when they are in trouble.

Thirty-three: Keep your group photo and tell people around you that you are a couple.

Thirty-four: I will be anxious when I see her crying, and I will be happy when I see her happy.

Thirty-five: I will cry, worry and lose sleep for her.

Thirty-sixth plan: really love her and tell her that you will marry her (sincerely d oh ~)

3. What knowledge does a man need to know to be talented?

360 lines, each line is a champion,

The so-called "talent" refers to professionals. What kind of professionals do you have? What kind of industry do you want to be in in the future? Do you have any professionals in that field?

It doesn't matter how much knowledge a person knows, what matters is that you have enough majors to achieve your career, that is, talent, and know a little about everything, just like nothing. If you have time, I still suggest you think about your future. What will you do in the future? What career do you want to achieve? Then start working hard now. The university will soon pass, and many starting points of life and career are often formed in the university. Think about your future, and you will find the goal of your efforts, otherwise college will only make you idle away your time and get nothing.

4. Basic common sense that people should know

1, men are the main body of society, whether you believe it or not. So men should have a sense of responsibility.

Before the age of 2.25, please remember that love is usually false, or it is not as pure and eternal as you think. If you are over 25 years old, then you should understand this truth.

3, eating 70% full is the most comfortable. Please keep your girlfriend at most 70%.

Please take good care of yourself before you are 30. You see a doctor in the first 30 years, and you see a doctor in the last 30 years. If you are over 30, you will naturally understand this truth.

5. Career is far more important than love. If the cause can't last forever, then love can only be regarded as a flash in the pan.

6. Don't accept girls who pursue you easily. If you are easily caught up, you will find that you will miss many things and lose many things.

7. Please believe that any problem that can be solved with money is not a problem. If you think that money is king, women with money have it and women without money don't, then women are not a problem.

8. Please always be optimistic. Every man has his lovely place, and the unlovable place is only: not facing life actively.

9. Don't hurt the same woman twice in a row. It makes sense that a good horse doesn't eat grass back. If you have seriously considered breaking up, please don't make any reluctant moves.

10, if you and your ex-girlfriend can become friends, then you should ask yourself: Why? If you are still friends after breaking up, there are only two possibilities: you were just joking and didn't pay each other's truest feelings; Or: someone must be paying silently, with no regrets!

1 1. Never believe a woman's sweet words when she is in love. It is said that women love sweet talk, but men prefer it.

12, please don't worry too much and feel inferior about your appearance or height. People are animals, but they are different from animals. Congenital conditions are not an excuse to stop you from living a good life. Please believe that a person's heart is far better than his appearance. If someone judges a book by its cover, you shouldn't care too much. Because he is just an animal in a sense, will you be angry with animals?

13, when lovelorn, there are only two possibilities, either you love her, or she doesn't love you, or vice versa. Then, when the person you love no longer loves you, or never loved you, you have no regrets, because all you have lost is a person who doesn't love you.

14, please don't cheat kind girls. There are too few kind girls in this world.

15, you can't think that money is everything, at least, money can't cure AIDS.

16, please be confident. You are a landscape, there is no need to look up in other people's landscapes.

17, no matter how hard it is hit, please believe that the sun is new every day as long as life is still there.

18, love can never be balanced. If you want to be happy in love, you must be willing to be sad.

19, if you like a MM who she thinks others should treat her well, please give it up as soon as possible. No one should be nice to a person. If she doesn't understand this truth, then she doesn't know how to cherish at all.

20. Don't "find" GF because of loneliness. Lonely men should learn to taste loneliness. Please remember: even if you are lonely, there must be someone like you in the dark night sky in the distance. Lonely people are different, but the starry sky you look up at is unique.

2 1. Nothing is eternal, and don't ask how to be eternal. There is a lot of helplessness in life. Please try to enrich yourself and your life. Please treat life well. ...

Men have a lot of helplessness, life is very tired, but it is meaningful because of life. When you think you have nothing, you at least have time. Time can heal all wounds. So please don't cry.

5. What are the common sense of daily life that boys must know?

1 No matter where shoes rub their feet, apply a little white wine to the shoes where they rub their feet, so as not to rub their feet. 2 If the bag is stained or dirty, you can wipe it with cotton dipped in wind oil; After washing your face, gently rub some fine salt on both sides of your nose with your fingers, and then rinse with water, so that blackheads will be removed and pores will become smaller; When you go out, you must bring a small dry battery in your bag. If your skirt is charged with static electricity, please wipe the positive electrode of the battery several times on the skirt to eliminate static electricity. If there is a small area of skin damage or burns, applying a little toothpaste can stop bleeding and relieve pain immediately to prevent infection; Jeans fade when worn for a long time.

You can soak the newly bought jeans in strong brine 12 hours, and then wash them with clear water, so that they will not fade when washed later; Tofu can beautify. After getting up every morning, put a piece of tofu in the palm of your hand and rub your face for a few minutes for a month, and your facial skin will become moist.

8 maintenance of zipper: zipper should not be pulled too fast or too hard; Can't collapse too tightly; Keep dry to prevent contact with acid and alkali; If the zipper is hard, you can apply some wax and pull it a few times. Black spots will appear when the white vest is worn for a long time. It is advisable to put fresh ginger 2 into the pot and add 1 kg of water to boil. After a little cooling, pour it into the washtub, soak the white vest for ten minutes, and then rub it several times to eliminate black spots. 10 Cleverly remove the wrinkles on the tie. A wrinkled tie is smooth and beautiful without ironing. As long as you roll the tie around the beer bottle and use it the next day, the original wrinkles will be eliminated. 1 1 When you are very thirsty and there is no cold boiled water at home, you can soak the cup with hot water in cold water, and then sprinkle a handful of salt in the cold water, which will speed up the cooling of boiled water; 12 don't hide under boulders, cliffs or caves when you encounter a thunderstorm during your journey. When the current passes through these places, it will produce an arc, which will hurt people who take shelter from the rain.

If the cave is deep, you can hide in it; 13 Eating mutton helps to keep fit. Mutton is an ideal source of carnitine, which is similar to amino acids and can help cells "burn" off excess fat in the body. 14 For people with rough skin, vinegar and glycerin can be mixed and applied to the face at a ratio of 5: 1. Daily persistence will make the skin tender. Adding a spoonful of vinegar to wash your face also has a cosmetic effect; 15 clothes drying tip: clothes should not be exposed to the sun. It should be dried in a cool and ventilated place until it is semi-dry, and then dried in weak sunlight to protect the color and service life of clothes; 16 tips for drying clothes Don't wring your clothes too dry. You should dry them with water, and flatten the lapels, collars and sleeves of clothes by hand, so that the dried clothes will remain flat and wrinkle-free. 17 two ways to prevent clothes from fading: add a proper amount of vinegar when washing dark cotton cloth to prevent fading and keep the luster as new; Put the newly bought colored cloth in water for the first time and soak it in salt for ten minutes to prevent the cloth from fading; 18 When the wound bleeds, you can immediately sprinkle some white sugar on the wound, because white sugar can reduce the local moisture of the wound, inhibit the proliferation of bacteria and help the wound to converge and heal; 19 When putting on makeup, first put the slightly wet cosmetic sponge in the refrigerator. After a few minutes, pat the cold sponge on the skin with good foundation, and you will feel that the skin is particularly refreshing and the makeup is particularly fresh. 20 tips for drawing eyeliner: To draw a pair of meticulous eyeliner, you can fix your elbow on the table first, then put the small mirror flat and let your eyes look down at the mirror, so you can draw eyeliner safely; 2 1 experts suggest eating more red food such as red pepper, carrot, tomato, onion and hawthorn in winter to prevent colds. Drinking a cup of yogurt and a bowl of chicken soup every day can also prevent colds; Scientific disinfection method of towel: boil the towel in boiling water for about 10 minute, then wash it with soap, then wash it with clear water, and finally fold the towel and put it in the microwave oven for 5 minutes; 9 foods that make you smile: celery, cheese, green tea, onion, mushroom, mustard, sugar-free chewing gum, lotus and water; Eating these foods regularly can eliminate bad breath and prevent tooth decay; Excessive dandruff can be improved by diet.

Eat more alkaline foods, such as fruits, vegetables and honey. Eat more foods containing vitamins B2 and B6, such as animal liver, kidney, heart, milk, egg yolk and wheat germ. Pillows should be elastic, but it's not good to be too strong. The head is constantly subjected to external elasticity, which is easy to cause muscle fatigue and injury. Such as spring pillows and air pillows. , not a healthy pillow; Beware of "mild burns" in winter.

The water temperature of the hot water bottle should not be too hot, and the hot surface should not be directly close to the skin. Diabetic patients or people with peripheral sensory nerve retardation, infants and young children had better not use hot water bottles to keep warm; 27 strategies to reduce computer injuries: continuous work 1 hour and rest for about ten minutes.

Indoor light should be suitable and keep ventilated and dry. Pay attention to the correct operating posture.

Keep the skin clean; The white sweater will gradually turn black when put on. After cleaning, put it in the refrigerator and freeze it 1 hour, then take it out and dry it, as white as new. 29 diamond maintenance: don't pile the diamond ornaments together to avoid friction and scratch between inserts; When doing heavy and strenuous activities, first take off the diamond ornaments; Send it to a jewelry store for professional cleaning once every six months; Bask in the quilt's method: Don't expose the quilt with chemical fiber fabric as lining and quilt cover in the sun to prevent the chemical fiber from being damaged at too high temperature. When drying, you can cover the quilt with a layer of cloth to prevent direct sunlight; 3 1 Don't stop wearing a rabbit sweater because it loses its hair, but put it in a plastic bag and put it in the refrigerator for 3-4 days to prevent it from losing its hair; The wonderful use of 32 silk scarves. Go to the beauty salon to get your hair done, and you will be deformed when you wake up.

Don't worry, put a smooth silk scarf on the pillow before going to bed, so you won't mess up your hair and keep a beautiful hairstyle; 33 days of high temperature is more important to prevent colds. Sweating in hot weather consumes a lot of energy, reduces the body's resistance and makes it easy to catch a cold. Pay attention to drinking boiled water, a few times, 300 to 500 ml each time. It's hot for 34 days, and many people's feet stink. Here are two ways to try: put a little tea in your shoes when you wear it; Put warm water in the basin, add a little tea, and soak your feet for ten minutes to remove the odor.

6. What knowledge should a mature man know?

1。

You'd better not smoke if you can. It may help you attract some girls, but it will never cause boredom. There are many ways to show masculinity, so there is no need to gamble on health! Give up, brothers and sisters! 2。 Watch H as little as possible and control the number of times you have sex with GF every week. Don't think you are a god of war.

Normal men are obsessed with * * * all day even if they are single. And every time SY, there will be a lot of zinc loss, which is closely related to your brain activity.

3。 Keep doing exercise every day, it doesn't matter if you can't go to the fitness center, you can do it at home! Push-ups can exercise your chest muscles and abdominal muscles. Please note that the swimming ring is a luxury, which can only be owned by successful people or leaders in your unit.

4。 A glass of water every morning prevents gallstones.

Don't drink water an hour before going to bed, or bags under your eyes will appear in the morning. (The book says so, everyone does it) 5.

Don't think that you don't need maintenance just because you are a man. At least the diet should not be too casual. Eating more tomatoes, seafood, leeks and bananas is good for men's health.

6。 Learn to smile, and you can use it on many occasions in the future.

How to make a smile look good, you must first have healthy teeth. How to ensure dental health?

First, brush your teeth after breakfast and dinner; Second, see a dentist once a year; Third, mind your own business. Understanding of career: career is a status symbol of a man's existence in this society, so every brother should work hard and don't wait until the day of regret! Let's continue to look carefully, understand, and be sure to look good! 1。

Men must set goals for themselves: one year, two years, five years. Maybe you are born worse than others. Through hard work, you can often change 70% of your destiny. Broken pots and broken falls can only be friends with cowardice.

2。 Play less games, this is not Korea, (hungry, really envy Koreans, looking forward to the next life ~) houses and cars are not available to women.

Into the university, into the society, into the society, into the darkness, this is the marathon. Now throw a brick on it, and 7 or 8 people have played World of Warcraft. You should have some plans by now.

3。 Accept the limits and do your best for your work.

You want success, not failure. Therefore, in the face of difficulties, we must first show confidence.

Apart from the encouragement of the woman you love, this should be the most useful. 4。

Knowing what you have to do every day, the company's symposium can really help you sharpen your mouth. In the dead of night, ask yourself about your future plans and realize them in that direction! 5。 Don't spend all your spare time surfing the Internet, drinking and eating, reading some literary works and learning some business processes, management norms, international current affairs and legal knowledge.

This will ensure that you have something to talk about at any party. 6。

Learn to read minds, don't get emotional, or there will be a lot of unnecessary trouble. Do one thing, there is no need to tell others before success, and share happiness with them after success.

Don't take things from the company home, even if they are suitable, don't participate, and don't criticize before you become a leader. This is beyond your control. 7。

Playing mahjong is dispensable, which is not for young people. Don't cultivate this interest unless the job requires it. What's it like to see GF sitting at the gambling table and shouting cards? 8。

A hard-working child should not always depend on anyone. People are selfish, they are the most reliable people. If you rely on civil servants, you must be fully prepared.

Let's start the relationship early, it may not be effective. Understanding of love: I think the topic of love must be taken seriously in order to fully feel the true sense of sacredness.

Finding a girlfriend's appearance is the first level, but it's not too late to make plans after understanding her personality. 2。

Don't squeeze two people's lives together. Space is the longevity medicine of love. Don't always be jealous. Everyone has friends of the opposite sex. Eat when it's time to eat and let her know.

Be nice to her friends, even if she hates people, you are not qualified to speak ill of them. All you have to do is listen to her quietly and give her appropriate comfort. 3。

Cherish the people around you, don't change your mind, everyone needs stability. Even if the other person is more beautiful than your GF 10 times, she still approaches you and gives you the signal. Please tell her seriously that you have a girlfriend! Please be sure to hold this point. If there is an occupied position, please buy a piece of tofu and smash it to death! ! ! 4。

She began to take care of your life, your money, nag you, and frequently send messages asking for your location. Don't worry, she just gave herself to you for fear of losing you.

After an argument, don't turn off your phone, and don't wander in the street with other members of the opposite sex. That will only aggravate the conflict. 5。

Don't always let her call, she also needs to feel valued by you. Don't peek at her privacy, don't guess, being together is fate, leaving is fate.

Introduce her to your best friends, including friends of the opposite sex. 6。

Don't touch a woman with a boyfriend, even if you want a one-night stand, be prepared. The consequences are the same as above. In severe cases, there will be pain in the body and skin. Don't touch a friend's woman, now or later. The consequences are the same as above.

You know, a man running his own business, just like running a company, needs to establish a brand culture. Friends who want to ask why make an assumption that you are the victim first, and then send me a text message or join that abnormal Q group for detailed discussion.

7。 Don't touch the woman you love. Usually, such a woman doesn't even know what she wants. I don't think anyone wants to share their love with some adult men.

You can still live if you commit iniquity, but you can't live if you commit iniquity. Don't touch a lazy woman who has no opinion, no progress.

Even if you have money, you have plenty of money, and eventually you will get tired of it. What's more, it's not all vases, and you still have aesthetic fatigue.

8。 Please wear a condom when bullying her. If you are not used to it, please solve it yourself until you can't stand it. Unless you have good control over external ejaculation, you will throw cold water on yourself.

Abortion is very painful, everyone is not a woman, we can't understand that bitterness! 9。 If GF wants to quarrel with you, try to restrain yourself. When it is inevitable, quarrel with her. Quarrel is the best way to communicate.

You can get the long-awaited answer. But don't bring dirty words, don't bring out the relatives of the other party, and finally try to compromise. Some things can only be compromised by soldiers.

Don't leave the question until the evening. Sometimes, after a violent attack, you have to put up with it and treat it as a riot drill. I'm sure she can't beat you.