There is a simple reason. Introverted women are simple but mature, sensitive but generous. For men, such a woman is too charming. For boys, they all like beautiful women at first. Introverts are quiet, extroverts are lively, and it is of course the most important to get along for a long time. She may not be a particularly lively introverted girl, but she remembers your kindness to her. When we are together, she may not express it, but she will tell you that she loves you with her actions. Compared with what she said, action makes men feel more secure. After getting along for a long time, men will become addicted to such women. Although there may be some friction in getting along, you get along slowly, find each other's rhythm slowly, and appear in her life slowly and steadily. A reserved and rich woman is like a rough piece of jade. If you carve slowly and carefully, you will find the mystery. They are generally rich at heart, but they don't look so enthusiastic on the outside. It is also because many of their emotions and small thoughts are not realized to the outside world, so they look more introverted. An introverted woman, when you get along with her, you have to talk less and do more. Let her rely on you. After getting along for a long time, you will find her more talkative and interesting than you think, and her inner world is much better than you think. Get close to her slowly, and you will feel that such a beautiful and simple person really makes people want to get close to her and then want to have her. She may be very sensitive, but if you keep the same speed as her, you will feel that the world is different from your usual contact, and even feel a little magical. Mature and thoughtful introverted women just don't like to express themselves, but they have their own ideas about what to do. They are all excellent, but they don't show it, so keep a low profile. When they are in love, when something goes wrong, they will not escape and will not let each other face it. They will face it positively and stand with each other to solve the problem. At this time, you will find that she is really charming, and she exudes a completely different aura from usual, which makes people feel that she is really reliable and mature, but she usually doesn't like to express herself and depends on each other. However, they all have one characteristic, like a sense of security and are more traditional. They have a lot to say in their hearts, but they have been used to being quiet for a long time, but when they encounter something, they seem to be a different person, which makes people practical. Introverted women are kind little women, which may be described as introverted women. They look cold, but they have a lot of scenes inside. Even if they are hurt, they won't say anything. They are usually considerate. Kindness is their strength and weakness. They are easy to believe what others say and are easy to be used by others. They look very independent, but they especially want someone to understand her. I really want someone to give her a sense of security. Being with them may be clingy and coquettish, teasing you like a kitten. The little woman is so soft that you feel that the world is gentle when you see her. They always have this magic that makes people want to be nice to her. Why do men like introverted women? 2. Delicate mind, more care for others. We are used to thinking that women tend to have more sensitive and delicate personality characteristics than men, and a psychological study further shows that introverted women are not only more sensitive than men, but also more sensitive than extroverted women of the same age. This means that introverted women can often analyze and deal with the same thing more quickly and carefully. Ajan used to be a depressed patient, and he was always afraid of love and marriage-until he met his current girlfriend. That is a shy and introverted girl. At first, friends around Ajan didn't think highly of them. They think that Ajan should find a lively, cheerful, sunny and confident girl to help heal his previous trauma. However, it is such an unremarkable introverted woman who completely saved Ajan. In the process of getting along, emotionally, she can always be keenly aware of Ajan's subtle emotional changes and give him the most gentle and delicate guidance and comfort in time; Life is more comprehensive, and I take care of Ajan in every possible way. "In our life, it is not uncommon to meet love and sex. What is rare is to meet understanding. " There is no doubt that for Ajan, this sensitive and introverted girl is the one who truly understands, respects and tolerates him. Second, * * * has strong emotional ability and is good at running a relationship. In a psychological test for introverts and extroverts, it is found that introverts often have stronger emotional ability than extroverts, and among introverts, women have stronger emotional ability than men. The so-called "emotional ability" is the ability to transcend one's narcissism and understand others' narcissism. In layman's terms, it is the ability to experience other people's situations in order to feel and understand their emotions. We often say that no one can really put themselves in another person's shoes. As Mr. Lu Xun said: "The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, but I just think they are noisy." However, for a considerable number of introverted women, perhaps they can communicate with others about their emotions. Although they seem to be taciturn and inarticulate, they are more delicate and sensitive and have stronger emotional ability than ordinary people. This unique and powerful emotional ability means that in intimate relationships, introverted women can take care of each other more thoughtfully and meticulously, even if it feels a little subtle. Thirdly, the painter and director Stallone, who is good at solitude and gives people a unique sense of independence, said: "When people pursue their ideals, they fall into loneliness." Yes, people are born lonely; A person who wants to follow his heart firmly and listen to the call of his soul, and a person who wants to realize himself, the first thing he needs to learn is to enjoy loneliness. And introverted women are undoubtedly more valuable to realize themselves and succeed, because they are all introverted, accustomed to and inclined to accumulate energy from internal psychological activities, and they are better at being alone and enjoying long-term self-loneliness. Furthermore, each of us is an independent individual, and we can move forward together, but we should not be confined to Nuo Nuo. Only those who can withdraw from the circle of intimate passion from time to time can have the opportunity to "recharge" themselves and give each other a chance to breathe. This is not only spiritual practice and integrity of personality, but also the key to keep a relationship fresh and go further. Therefore, the "super power" that introverted women get along with themselves is obviously more conducive to the durability and stability of an intimate relationship. In fact, many people who achieve great success in the end are mostly introverts. Madeleine Eng once said that if no one spent all her time reading and thinking when she was a child, she would not have become such a bold thinker. Another example is Audrey Hepburn, the first generation goddess. She said that she prefers to be alone, saying that if there is an opportunity, she would like to be alone from Saturday night to Monday morning ... And when you are loved by an introverted woman, you will feel more deeply that there is a deep taste in that sensitive and delicate love: "I want thousands of pairs of eyes on the eternal night, so that I can watch you alone. One day you will find that the more introverted a woman is, the more attractive and powerful she is. Why do men like introverted women? 3 introverted women, focusing on themselves, don't blindly follow the writer made: "The world seems to be noisy around, with all kinds of people, mud and sand, but it is still your own world in essence. "What kind of life and happiness a person can live in the end always lies in his own cultivation. I have always believed that as long as I have a strong circle and know a lot of people, there will always be people with noble help, and in the end it can only be wishful thinking. I read such a story on the internet: a young girl especially likes to mix circles. She will definitely take part in all the activities, and when there is a party, she will definitely go. Even if you give up your things many times, you should fit in. In her view, connections are money veins. As long as she knows enough people, she will get support from others in the future. However, the fact is not as beautiful as she imagined. Later, she wanted to change a better job, so she contacted several people she knew to recommend her, but no one wanted to help her. In fact, this is the reality. You think that as long as you have a contact information and have dinner together, everyone will be friends, but in fact, when you don't have the corresponding strength, it is useless to know how many people. There is a saying in "Mob": "People in a group are just one grain of sand that can be blown anywhere by the wind. "Introverted women will not blindly integrate, but will only focus on themselves. They will calm down and plow themselves quietly in a quiet corner to meet their better and more open life. An introverted woman, gentle and kind, neither arrogant nor impetuous. Matthew says, "Treat others as you want them to treat you. "People are mutual. When you treat others with arrogance and malice, you can only get the same feedback from others in the end. And when you are kind to others and always warm others, then you will find that the world will become gentler and what you can harvest will be full of goodwill. My friend Eiko is a very enthusiastic girl. No matter who is better than her or who is weaker than her, she will be full of kindness. Because of this, although she is shy and doesn't like to talk much, almost everyone in life is willing to get along with her. As another friend said, "She is like the warm sun in winter, and getting along with her always makes people warm and comfortable. "When people are alive, they always like beautiful things and like to be close to beautiful people. Introverted women are always kind to people, although they don't have too many words or show too much strength. Such a woman will always try her best to warm others, and being with them will always make you feel the grandeur and beauty of the world. Of course, your own goodwill will also be exchanged for the goodwill of others, and eventually your own road will be wider and wider. An introverted woman is full of heart and doesn't show off. Yi Shu said, "A truly rich man never shows off everything he has. He doesn't tell others what books he has read, what cars he has driven, where he has been, how many clothes he has and what jewelry he has bought, because he has no sense of inferiority. "A person's best state of life never depends on how well you live in the eyes of others, but only depends on making yourself comfortable and happy. In the TV series "Do You Know", when Sheng married Gu Hou, she was not only rich and famous, but also held in the palm of Gu's hand. If it was another girl, it would have been well known, but Sheng told Gu not to give himself too much face. In Sheng's words: "With lining, you don't care about face!"! "In fact, life is like this. In this world, whether a person is happy or not never lies in the eyes of others, but only in life itself. As Yu Hua said in Living: "Life belongs to everyone's own feelings, not to anyone's views. "An introverted woman will not look for happiness from a distance, but will take root in happiness from her feet. Because they understand that life is their own and has nothing to do with others. Only by living your own life and living your own life seriously can you find the candy hidden in your life. Perhaps, this society is really impetuous and life is really hard. However, you have to understand that the more anxious and noisy people are, the more they can only make life more chaotic. It is better to know how to calm down, just hold your horses and do what you want to do bit by bit. When you really calm down, you will find that life will gradually get better and your life will be more exciting.