According to our local customs, engaged men and women have a saying and pay attention to what gifts they want to give each other. Gifts are actually not heavy, but not giving them will be considered "impolite". Generally speaking, men give women a set of jewelry (rings, bracelets, necklaces and earrings) as well as new clothes and shoes. Generally, several sets are brand-new from the inside out, which usually costs tens of thousands of yuan. In addition, the man has to prepare gifts for the woman.

The engagement gift given by the woman to the man usually has a solemn name "Dowry", which is a dowry for the woman to marry the man, generally including wardrobe, dressing table, quilt and other household items. The woman will customize one or two suits, shirts and shoes for the man, so that the man can appear in the engagement ceremony with a brand-new attitude.