In Ode to Joy, because of family oppression, Fan only wants to realize the second reversal of life through marriage. Fan thought he could solve his family's difficulties by hooking up with the rich second generation. I didn't expect Qu to take himself as a booty call, and even more unexpectedly, he turned out to be an ignorant brother in the mouth of a good sister Qu Xiaoyu. The two later met in the elevator, which was also tit for tat.

At what age do you want to climb to the top by men?

In marriage, men are much more calculated and more realistic than you. They clearly know which girl is a temporary playmate and which woman is a lifelong companion.

Many girls will be attracted by uncle's elegant temperament. You and uncle talk about money under the guise of love. Do you think uncle and you really talk about feelings?

Just kidding!

That uncle took your heart, played with your people, put on pants, maybe because you wanted money to send you to prison.

Economist Lang Xianping caused a sensation by tearing his mistress to pieces. He was so affectionate that he gave you two houses. If you regret the gift, you can take it to court and leave you in debt of 9 million.

Do people reach for all the bread in their hands?

There is a saying in the Broken Queen by Zweig: She was too young to know all the gifts given by fate, and she had marked the price in the dark.

So,

It's better to rely on yourself than on the ground. No matter how shiny the jewels in others' hands are, they are not as secure as their own broken diamonds.

2. With a house, you have your own safe haven.

"This is my house, get out" is no stranger in marriage. Many couples don't think too much when they quarrel. When they are impulsive, they always like to poke each other's hearts with the most hurtful words.

In Everything Is Fine, Su Ming wants to use all his money to buy a house for his father, but his wife Wu Fei doesn't agree. Su Ming Cheng said it was my money and told her to shut up.

You gave birth to the child, but I earned the money. I have the right to control my wealth. This is probably the inner portrayal of many men.

Why are more and more girls working so hard to make money now?

Just because I don't want to hear you shout "this is my house, get out" when you quarrel; Where you never go except home when you don't want to quarrel; People who don't want to face it every day, besides their husbands and children, even ask their husbands for money when they invite their sisters for a cup of coffee.

Have money, buy a house and travel by yourself. To outsiders, everything is bitter, but when I return to the house I bought with money, I always feel very full, even though my work is still very tiring.

3. Because you have a house and money, you feel more secure than having an object.

In Yi Shu's novel My First Half Life, Tang Jing and Zijun are good girlfriends. Zijun became a full-time wife as soon as she graduated, and Tang Jing became a company executive step by step.

Later, Zijun's husband cheated. Zijun felt that his life was going to collapse and wanted to die every day, but he still couldn't stop her husband from marrying a third party.

Tang Jing is still vigorous in the workplace, relying on his own ability to buy a house and a car. Although the area is not large and the car is not a BMW luxury car, she doesn't have to look at the man's face at all.

Luo Zijun was lovelorn, lying in a small apartment in Tang Jing, and began to envy Tang Jing's own efforts and achievements.

Later, Luo Zijun finally understood that the sense of security in this world was in his hands, and it was better to have money and a house than to have a sense of security.

Many people say that a 30-year-old woman is a "saint". In fact, not all women want to be alone, but some people don't want to be kidnapped by men and children.

4, self-sufficient in economy, why not choose another life?

Junyan Jiao, who recorded My Daughter, once said, I already know the final outcome of the road of getting married and having children, so my life is used to test what happened.

At the crossroads of life, getting married and having children is only a choice for women, not the only way out.

"Peacock Goddess" Yang li Ping never married for her career. Isn't the Moon Palace near Erhai Lake a paradise in her heart?

Matsuko wanted to get warmth from others all his life, but he didn't take the one-way train of life alone in the end?

Self-confidence is an aphrodisiac for women to walk in rivers and lakes; Money is a woman's power to walk in rivers and lakes.

Not because I don't want to choose a pampered life, but because I missed it by chance.

It should be the wish of many girls to have a husband who loves you and a lovely child. But not every loving couple can grow old together.

Since every companionship may not last forever, it is better to accompany yourself.

Life is not just an option of getting married and having children.

At the age of 30, Xu didn't go to America to freeze her nine eggs. She said it was the only regret medicine in the world.

Recently, a travel blogger "Molly Bubu" also went to oocyte cryopreservation for surgery.

Because my economy is acceptable, I don't need to rely on marriage to realize the second reversal of my life;

Because of money and housing, I have more courage to explore this unknown world alone;

Because I know that self-confidence in life does not have to be achieved through marriage, and I can do whatever I want.