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This story tells us that the communication between people is often a contest between willpower and willpower. Either you influence him or he influences you. If you want to succeed, you must cultivate your influence; Only people with great influence can become the strongest in life! ! ! Little people, big Bo Xie Vu2o ~
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Five-year-old Hank went to work in the forest with his father, mother and brother. Suddenly, it rained heavily, but they only brought a poncho. Dad gave the poncho to mom, mom gave it to my brother, and my brother gave it to Hank. Hank asked, "Why did my father give the poncho to my mother, my mother gave it to my brother and my brother gave it to me?" Dad replied: "Because dad is stronger than mom, mom is stronger than brother, and brother is stronger than you, so we will protect the weak." Hank looked around, ran to one side, spread a poncho, and blocked a delicate flower swaying in the wind and rain.
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uB Z！ The story of T-ii0 tells us that the real strong man is not necessarily so powerful or so rich. The most important thing is how much he helps others! Responsibility can make things perfect, and love can make things better! !
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v-{。 }? 3@$yg5EJ03, a person went to buy a parrot and saw a sign in front of a parrot that said: This parrot can speak two languages, and the price is 200 yuan. The sign on the front of another parrot reads: This parrot can speak four languages, and the price is 400 yuan. Both of them are shiny and cute. Which one should I buy? The man turned and couldn't make up his mind. At this moment, he suddenly found a parrot with an old tooth missing. Its coat color was dim and messy, and the price was 800 yuan! The man quickly called the boss: "Can this parrot speak eight languages?" The shopkeeper said, "No."The man was surprised. "Then why is this parrot old, ugly and incompetent? Is it worth it?" The shopkeeper replied, "Because the other two parrots call this parrot boss." Little people, big blogs 4h. Ne#@r(P？
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This story tells us that a real leader may not be strong in his own ability. As long as he knows how to trust, how to delegate and how to cherish, he can unite forces stronger than himself and thus enhance his value. On the contrary, many people with very strong abilities feel that no one can match themselves because they are too pursuing perfection. In the end, I can only be the best public relations staff and sales representative, but I can't be an excellent leader.
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L[。 The story A & amp~:q4JO0 tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the most talkative person. God gave us two ears and one mouth to listen more and talk less. Being good at listening is the most basic quality of a mature person.
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) ~#~cqU%X05, A said to B, "I want to leave this company because I hate it!" B suggestion: "I agree with both hands! You must give the company some color to see see! However, now is not the best time for you to leave. " A asked why, and B said, "If you leave now, the company will not lose much. You should seize this opportunity while you are still in the company, try your best to attract some customers for yourself, become an independent figure of the company, and then suddenly leave the company with these customers, the company will suffer heavy losses and be very passive, and then you ... "A felt that B made sense, so he worked hard. After more than half a year's efforts, A has many loyal customers. When we meet again, B asks A: "Now is the time, hurry up and act!" " A smiled indifferently: "The boss talked with me for a long time and is going to promote me to be the assistant to the general manager. Now I have no intention of leaving for the time being ... "Little guy, big blog T * S；; ^vme7w&； ? V
In fact, this is also the original intention of B. When a person works, he always writes a resume for himself. Only by paying more than you get, and letting the boss really see that your ability is greater than your position, will you be given more opportunities and create more profits for him. Little people, big blog xv7k W_4IA Z:g|, ah 'o!
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K: Nvd7`1hh.h06. Three people are going to be put in prison for three years, and the warden gave them an achievable request. Americans love to smoke cigars, so they lit three boxes of cigars and went to prison. The French are romantic and want a beautiful woman to accompany them; The Jew said he wanted a telephone to communicate with the outside world. Three years later, the first person to rush out was an American. He saw his mouth and nostrils stuffed with cigars. He shouted, "give me a fire, give me a fire!" " "It turned out that he forgot to make a fire. Then the Frenchman came out and saw a child in his hand. The beautiful woman also held a child in her hand and was pregnant with a third one. Finally, the Jews came out. He held the warden's hand tightly and said, "I have been in contact with the outside world every day for three years." My business has not stopped, but has increased by 200%. To express my gratitude, I will send you a Schlais from Laos! "
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The story of v/l C, jg2k0 tells us: What kind of choice determines what kind of life. Today's life is determined by our choices three years ago, and today's choices will determine our life three years later. We should choose to get in touch with the latest information and understand the latest trends, so as to create a better future for ourselves. Little people, big blog 9f, y9@sDu$H%jN
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7. Two people were walking in the forest when suddenly they met a big tiger. A quickly took off a pair of lighter sports shoes from the back and put them on. B was in a hurry and scolded, "Why, you can't run away from the tiger if you change your shoes again!" " ! ! "A said," As long as I run faster than you ... "Little guy, Bo x) p+g # _! E}0i
2 1 century, no sense of crisis is the biggest crisis. Especially after China's entry into the GATT, telecommunications, banking, insurance and even civil servants, which we always thought were very stable and guaranteed, will face many variables. When more tigers come, are we ready for running shoes? Little people, big blogs/m ~; }Lh2V7r KX3O:u
@q Y Em_08, a scholar went to Beijing for the third time to catch the exam and stayed in a shop where he often lived. Two days before the exam, he had three dreams: the first dream was that he planted cabbage on the wall; The second dream is rain. He is wearing a hat and an umbrella. The third dream is that my beloved cousin and I are lying naked together, but back to back. These three dreams seem to have some profound meanings, so the scholar quickly found a fortune teller to interpret dreams the next day. Hearing this, the fortune teller sighed in continuous shooting's thigh, "You'd better go home! Think about it, isn't it futile to grow vegetables on high walls? ! Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella? ! Lying naked in a bed with my cousin, but back to back, isn't that impossible? ! ! ! "Hearing this, the scholar was disheartened and went back to the store to pack his bags and prepare to go home. The shopkeeper was surprised to see it and asked him, "Isn't there an exam tomorrow?" Why are you going back to your hometown today? " When the scholar said this, the shopkeeper was happy: "Hey, I can interpret dreams, too. I think you must stay this time. Think about it, isn't it high to grow vegetables on the wall? Doesn't wearing a hat and an umbrella mean that you are prepared this time? Lying naked in bed with your cousin doesn't mean you should turn over? " Hearing this, the scholar felt that what the shopkeeper said was more reasonable, so he was inspired, took part in the exam, and actually won a flower exploration. Little people, big blog r-q0~/gMhE
Positive people, like the sun, shine wherever they shine; Negative people are like the moon, but the fifteenth day of the first lunar month is different. Ideas determine our lives. What kind of ideas, what kind of future.
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(o)k(^&； JA2xp-}9c09。 The little camel in the zoo asked his mother, "Mom, why are our eyelashes so long?" Mother camel: "When the sandstorm comes, long eyelashes can let us see clearly in the sandstorm." The little camel asked again, "mom, why are our backs so camel?" Too ugly! " "Mother Camel:" This is called a hump. It can help us to store a lot of water and nutrients, and it can make us endure the conditions of no water and no food for more than ten days in the desert. The little camel asked again, "Mom, why are our soles so thick?" Mother camel: "This will prevent our heavy bodies from sinking into the soft sand, which will facilitate our long journey!" " ! "The little camel was very happy:" Wow, we are really useful! But mom, why are we still hiking in the zoo instead of in the desert? "
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I was born useful, but no one uses it now. Good mentality+successful teaching materials+infinite stage = success. Everyone's potential is unlimited. The key is to find a stage where you can give full play to your potential. Little people, big blog TN]9o.`U/~ mc*y+A
+Y.ymf6}-l？ F"sWv0 10, seven people live together and share a big bucket of porridge every day. The terrible thing is that there is not enough porridge to eat every day. At first, they drew lots to decide who would share the porridge, one serving a day. As a result, every week, they are full only one day, that is, the day they share their porridge. Later, they chose a virtuous person to share the porridge. Power will lead to corruption, and everyone began to try their best to please and bribe him, making the whole clique filled with smoke. Later, everyone formed a three-person porridge Committee and a four-person selection Committee, but they often attacked each other and quarreled constantly, and the porridge was all cold in their mouths. Finally, a person came up with an idea: take turns to divide the porridge, but the person who divides the porridge has to wait for everyone else to pick up the last bowl left. In order not to eat the least, everyone tries to divide the porridge evenly, even if it is uneven, they can only recognize it. Finally, everyone is happy and kind, and life is getting better and better. Little people, big blogs% d, es&; OR & ampqH(k c6R
The same seven people, different distribution systems have produced different ethos. Therefore, if a unit has bad work habits, it must be a mechanism problem. Certainly it is not completely fair, just and open, and there is no strict reward for diligence and punishment for laziness. How to formulate such a system is a problem that every leader deserves to ponder and consider. ...
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Once upon a time, two hungry people were blessed by an elder: a fishing rod and a basket of huge fresh fish. One of them asked for a basket of fish and the other asked for a fishing rod, so they parted ways. The person who got the fish built a bonfire with dry wood and cooked the fish on the spot. He wolfed down the fish and didn't taste the meat of the fresh fish. In a flash, he ate all the fish and soup. Soon, he starved to death by the empty fish basket. The other man continued to starve with a fishing rod, and walked hard to the seaside step by step, but when he saw the blue ocean not far away, his last strength was exhausted and he could only die with endless regrets.
Two hungry people also got a fishing rod and a basket of fish from their elders. It's just that they didn't part ways, but agreed to look for the sea together. They only cook one fish at a time. After a long journey, they came to the seaside. From then on, they began to make a living by fishing. A few years later, they built a house, had their own family, children and a fishing boat made by themselves, and lived a happy and healthy life.
This story tells us that a person who only cares about immediate interests will eventually get short-term happiness; One should aim high, but face the real life. Only by organically combining ideal with reality can we become a successful person. Do things in a planned way, not short-sighted or narrow-minded, otherwise the final outcome will be the same, that is, nothing will be achieved. Clever compromise method can be adopted, which not only takes into account the overall situation, but also achieves the best effect.
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I have some philosophical stories here, which I hope will inspire you (you can tell a story first and then connect with real life):
1, broken arrow
If you don't believe in your will, you'll never be a general.
During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, a father and son went to war. The father became a general and the son was just a pawn. Another horn sounded, the drums roared, and my father solemnly raised an quiver with an arrow in it. The father solemnly said to his son, "This is the treasure arrow at home. It is extremely powerful when you carry it with you, but you must never take it out. "
This is an extremely delicate quiver, made of thick cowhide, inlaid with faint shiny copper edges, and look at the arrow's exposed tail. You can tell at a glance that it is made of fine peacock feathers. The son was beaming and greedily speculated about the appearance of the arrow, as if the arrow whizzed past his ear and the enemy commander jumped off his horse and died.
Sure enough, Bao Jian's son is heroic and invincible. When the trumpet sounded, the son could no longer resist the heroic spirit of victory and completely abandoned his father's words. A strong desire drove him to shout and pull out his treasure arrow, trying to find out. Suddenly he was shocked.
A broken arrow, there is a broken arrow in the quiver.
I have been fighting with a broken arrow! My son broke out in a cold sweat, as if the house had lost its pillar in an instant and collapsed.
The result is self-evident, and my son died tragically in the disorderly army.
Blowing away the misty smoke, my father picked up the broken arrow and spat heavily: "If you don't believe in your will, you will never be a general."
How stupid it is to pin victory or defeat on a precious arrow, and how dangerous it is for a person to give the core and handle of life to others! For example, pin your hopes on children; Put happiness on her husband; Insure the crew with life insurance ...
Hint: You are an arrow. You want it to be tough, you want it to be sharp, you want it to go through a hundred paces and hit a hundred shots, you sharpen it, and only you can save it.
2. The value of life
Don't let yesterday's depression cover up tomorrow's dreams!
At a seminar, a famous speaker held a $20 bill in his hand and didn't make an opening speech.
Facing the 200 people in the meeting room, he asked, "Who wants this $20?" Put one hand up. He went on to say, "I want to give this $20 to one of you, but before that, please allow me to do one thing." As he spoke, he crumpled up the money and asked, "Who wants more?" There are people holding hands. He added, "Well, what if I do this?" He threw the money on the ground, stepped on it and ran it over with his foot. Then he picked up the dirty and wrinkled bill. "Who wants it now?" Someone still raised their hands. "My friends, you had a very meaningful lesson. No matter how I treat that bill, you still want it, because it hasn't depreciated, and it's still worth 20 dollars. On the road of life, we will be knocked down, bullied or even crushed by our own decisions or adversity countless times. We feel as if we are worthless. But no matter what happens, or what will happen, you will never lose value in the eyes of God. In his view, dirty or clean, dressed neatly or sloppy, you are still priceless. "
Tips: The value of life lies not in what we do, nor in who we make friends with, but in ourselves! We are unique-never forget this!
It's beautiful to hold your head up and chest out.
Although it is a black cow, the milk is white.
Jenny is a little girl who always lowers her head. She always feels that she is not beautiful enough. One day, she went to the jewelry store and bought a green bow. The shopkeeper kept praising her for wearing a beautiful bow. Although Jenny doesn't believe it, she is very happy. She couldn't help raising her head, eager to show it to everyone. It doesn't matter if she accidentally bumped into someone when she went out.
Jenny walked into the classroom and met her teacher head-on. "Jenny, how beautiful you look with your head held high!" "The teacher lovingly patted her on the shoulder and said. That day, she was praised by many people. She thought it must be a bow, but when she looked in front of the mirror, there was no bow on her head. She must have lost it when she came out of the jewelry store.
Self-confidence is a kind of beauty, but many people lose a lot of happiness because they care too much about appearance.
Tips: Whether you are poor or rich, whether you look like a fairy or plain, as long as you hold your head high, happiness will make you cute-the kind that everyone likes.
4. Draw a leaf for life
As long as you believe, there will always be miracles. Although the hope is slim, it will last forever.
American writer Ou; Henry told a story in his novel The Last Leaf: In the ward, a dying patient saw a tree outside the window from his room and fell down one by one in the autumn wind. The patient looked at the rustling leaves in front of him and his health went from bad to worse. She said, "When all the leaves are gone, I will die." When an old painter learned about it, he drew a leaf with green veins with a colored pen and hung it on a branch.
The last leaf never fell. Because of the green color in life, the patient miraculously survived.
Tip: Life can be without many things, but only without hope. Hope is an important value of human life. Where there is hope, life is endless!
5.flying spiders
Faith is a never-ending force. When you believe that you can succeed, you will succeed.
One day, I found a black spider making a big net between two eaves in the backyard. Can spiders fly? Otherwise, from this cornice to that cornice, there are more than ten feet wide in the middle. How is the first line pulled? Later, I found that the spider took many detours-starting from a cornice, knotting, walking down the wall, climbing forward step by step, carefully raising its tail to prevent the spider silk from touching the sand or other objects on the ground, walking through the clearing, then climbing up the opposite cornice, almost at the same height, and then tying the spider silk tightly, and so on.
Tip: Spiders can't fly, but they can make webs in mid-air. It is a diligent, sensitive, silent and tenacious insect, and its net is exquisite and regular, with Zhang Kaicheng gossip shape, as if with the help of God. Such an achievement reminds people of those who are taciturn and some hidden wise men. Then, I remembered that a spider can't fly, but it still weaves a web in the air. Miracles are caused by persistent people.
6. Shadow is a paper dragon.
In life, there are often countless blows from the outside world, but the final decision is in your hands.
Grandpa made me a long dragon out of paper. The gap in the dragon's abdominal cavity can only accommodate a few locusts, and all of them die in it, and no one is spared! Grandfather said, "locusts are too impatient." In addition to struggling, they never thought about biting the dragon with their mouths, nor did they know that they could climb out from the other side as long as they continued to move forward. " So, although it has an iron pliers-like mouth shell and serrated thighs, it doesn't help.
When my grandfather put several green worms of the same size in the faucet, and then turned off the faucet, a miracle appeared: in just a few minutes, the young green worms climbed out of Bali one by one.
Tip: Destiny is always hidden in our minds. Many people can't walk out of the shadow at different stages of life, big or small, not because their natural personal conditions are much worse than others, but because they have no thought to bite through the shadow paper dragon and have no patience to find a direction slowly and move forward step by step until a new hole appears in front of them.
7. Success is not as difficult as you think.
We dare not do it not because it is difficult, but because we dare not do it.
1965, a Korean student went to Cambridge University to study psychology. During afternoon tea, he often goes to the school cafe or teahouse to listen to some successful people chatting. These successful people include Nobel Prize winners, academic authorities in certain fields and some people who have created economic myths. These people are humorous and easy to lift weights. They all regard their success as natural and logical. After a long time, he found himself cheated by some successful people when he was in China. Those people generally exaggerate the hardships of starting a business in order to let those who are starting a business retreat, that is to say, they are scaring those who have not succeeded with their own successful experience.
As a student of psychology department, he thinks it is necessary to study the mentality of successful people in Korea. 1970, he took "Success is not as difficult as you think" as his graduation thesis and submitted it to Will, the founder of modern economic psychology.
Professor Braden. After reading it, Professor Braden was greatly surprised. He thinks this is a new discovery. Although this phenomenon is very common in the East and even the whole world, no one has boldly proposed to study it before. Surprised, he wrote to his Cambridge alumnus park chung-hee, who was sitting at the top of Korean politics. He said in the letter: "I can't say how much this book will help you, but I'm sure it can produce more things than any of your laws."
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Later, this book really took off with the Korean economy. This book has inspired many people, because it tells people from a new angle that success is not necessarily related to "stretching bones, starving the body and starving the skin", "burning the midnight oil" and "hanging the beam on the head and stabbing the leg". As long as you are interested in a certain cause, you will succeed if you persist for a long time, because God has given you enough time and wisdom to successfully complete a thing. Later, the young man also achieved success. He became the president of Pan Ye Automobile Company.
Tips: Many things in the world can be done as long as you want, and the difficulties you should overcome can also be overcome. You don't need any iron will, let alone any skill or strategy. As long as a person is living a simple and interesting life, he will eventually find that the creator's arrangement for the world is natural.
8. always hold this ticket
Life is really interesting: if you only accept the best, you will often get the best.
There is a person who travels a lot and often can't buy the right ticket. But no matter the distance, no matter how crowded the bus is, he can always find a seat.
His method is actually very simple, that is, patiently looking for one car after another. This method doesn't sound brilliant, but it does work. Every time he is going to walk from the first car to the last car, but he doesn't have to walk to the end every time. He will find an empty seat. He said that this is because not many passengers are so persistent in finding seats. Often there are some seats left in the carriage where he sits, but at the junction of the aisles and carriages of other carriages, it is actually very crowded.
He said that most passengers are easily confused by the superficial phenomenon of one or two cars being crowded and will not think about it. In dozens of stations, there are many opportunities to provide seats in the flow of people from more than a dozen doors of the train. Even if I thought about it, I didn't have the patience to find it Most people are easily satisfied with a small foothold in front of them, and some people think it is not cost-effective to squeeze one or two seats with their bags on their backs. They are also worried that if they can't find a seat, they won't even have a place to stand back. Just like some people who are content with the status quo and afraid of failure, they can only stay at the starting point without success. Most of these passengers who are unwilling to take the initiative to find seats can only stand in the initial position when they get on the bus until they get off.
9. The stone in my heart
What hinders us from discovering and creating is only our psychological obstacles and stubborn stones in our minds.
Once upon a time, there was a big stone in a family's garden, about 40 cm wide and 10 cm high. People who go to the vegetable garden will accidentally kick the big stone, either falling or scratching.
The son asked, "Dad, why don't you dig up that disgusting stone?"
Dad replied, "You mean that stone? It has been put into the present since your grandfather's time. It is so big that I don't know when it will be dug. It is better to walk carefully and exercise your reaction ability. "
After a few years, this big stone was left to the next generation. At that time, my son married a daughter-in-law and became a father.
One day, my daughter-in-law said angrily, "Dad, the big stones in the vegetable garden are making me uncomfortable more and more. Please ask someone to move another day. "
Dad replied, "Forget it! That big stone is heavy. If I could move, I moved when I was a child. How can I stay until now? "
Daughter-in-law's heart is very bad I don't know how many times that big stone made her fall.
One morning, the daughter-in-law took a hoe and a bucket of water and poured the whole bucket of water around the big stone.
10 minutes later, the daughter-in-law used a hoe to loosen the soil around the big stone.
Daughter-in-law has been psychologically prepared and may have to dig for a day. No one expected that the stone would be dug up in a few minutes. Look at the size. This stone is not as big as expected, and it was deceived by its huge appearance.
Tips: You can't climb the mountain with the idea of going down. If your world is dull and hopeless, it is because you are dull and hopeless. To change your world, you must first change your mentality.
10, pursuing ecstasy
Don't think of yourself as a mouse, or you will be eaten by a cat.
1858, a rich family in Sweden gave birth to a daughter. However, soon, the child contracted an unexplained paralysis and lost the ability to walk.
Once, the girl and her family traveled by boat. The captain's wife told the child that the captain had a bird of paradise. She was fascinated by the bird's description and wanted to see it for herself. So the nanny left the child on the deck and went to the captain herself. The child couldn't bear to wait, so he asked the waiter on board to take her to see the bird of paradise at once. The waiter didn't know that her legs couldn't walk, just took her to see the beautiful birds. Miracle happened, the child, because of excessive desire, forgot to hold the waiter's hand and walked slowly. Since then, the child's illness has recovered. When the girl grew up, she devoted herself to literary creation and eventually became the first woman to win the Nobel Prize in Literature, namely Selma. La grove.
Tip: Forgetting yourself is the shortcut to success. Only in this environment can people transcend their own constraints and release the greatest energy.