The only drawback is that his wife has two hobbies, one is going to the theatre and the other is fake jewelry.
His wife often pesters him to accompany him to the theatre, and Mr. Tan Lang often feels that going to the theatre after a day's work is very tiring. I hate to watch this entertainment program with my wife. He worked for his wife, asked her to find a wife to accompany her to the theatre and send her back at night. At first, his wife refused, but under Tan Lang's constant persuasion, she reluctantly obeyed almost to cater to him. Mr. Tan Lang was very grateful and filled with joy.
Since then, Tan Lang has never been to the theatre with his wife. His wife still goes out to the theatre every night. Gradually, his wife began to love dressing up. My wife buys different fake jewelry every night when she comes back.
Mr Tan Lang also said to his wife, "You can't afford real jewelry. Beauty and elegance are the best decorations and the rarest jewels in the world. "
His wife still replied in a gentle and coquettish tone: "you are right, but I can't change it." The rivers and mountains may change, but not one's essential nature If it is true, of course I like it. "
Later, his wife came back from the theater one night, got pneumonia and died soon. After losing his beloved wife, Mr Tan Lang was very sad and desperate.
Only when he lives alone, does he realize that his meager salary is not enough to support his life, let alone to support two people in front of his wife. Life is so easy.
Living in extreme poverty and desperate circumstances, he thought of selling his wife's fake jewelry. He thought that a fake jewelry could only sell for seven or eight francs, but who knew that his wife's jewelry was real and worth tens of thousands.
A deeper problem comes out. These jewels are his salary and can't be bought. This only shows that his wife is having an affair, which was given by others and he never noticed.
After grief, he sold all his wife's jewelry and got 6.5438+0.9 million yuan from his wife's jewelry inheritance. He became rich at once and married a wife at once, but the violent character of this wife made him very upset.
From this novel, we see Tan Lang. In family life, he blindly enjoys the tenderness and comfort brought by his wife, but he doesn't want to accompany his wife or enter her life. Slowly, his wife was taken care of and accompanied by others.
Everyone in the world has a different mood. People you don't care about, others care. If you don't coax people, someone will coax them for you. People you don't want to be with will be accompanied by others sooner or later.
Mr Tan Lang was like this in his marriage. He doesn't accompany his wife, nor does he enter her life, but enjoys the beautiful life and gentleness she brings. So in the end, his wife cheated on him and he didn't know anything.
In the TV series My First Half Life, Luo Zijun and her husband are the same. Although her husband holds a high annual salary and provides Luo Zijun with a rich life, Luo Zijun knows nothing about her husband's world and has no language with him. I don't know her husband's ups and downs, just accept the benefits he gives, enjoy life to the fullest, and be extravagant and wasteful.
Finally, her husband cheated on his colleagues. In fact, that colleague is not as beautiful as Luo Zijun, nor as sweet as Luo Zijun. But in the same world, they can share the details of life, the ups and downs of work, and understand their own hardships.
* * * If two people who live together don't enter each other's inner world and participate in each other's life, marriage will go wrong sooner or later.
Not everyone who is having an affair looks disgusting at home. They may suffer mental torture or guilt, and tend to show a gentler side at home.
Although Lentan's wife has been cheating for a long time, she is still gentle with Mr Lentan at home. She often laughed and joked with Mr. Tan Lang around the stove, often spoiled, threw herself into Tan Lang's arms with a smile and talked with them about fake jewelry. This warm and happy life picture is so beautiful. Mr. Tan Lang enjoyed the beauty that life brought him to his heart's content, and never doubted it.
In marriage and family, any party only cares about enjoying quiet, warm and happy time, but does not pay attention to each other and accompany each other, which will eventually be full of crisis.
If Mr Tan Lang spends more time with his wife. If he pays more attention to the expenses of family life, he will find that the family is in short supply and it is not easy for his wife to keep the house. Or maybe he has already found out about his wife's affair, and even his wife can't have an affair. But he doesn't want to accompany his wife, and he never pays attention to family expenses. He only enjoys the beauty of life and is unwilling to pay attention to housework.
If Luo Zijun can sympathize with her husband, although his salary is high, he has paid extraordinary hard work. If Luo Zijun can always pay attention to her husband's overtime work, maybe she already knows that her husband is cheating. If Luo is more concerned about her husband's work, more sympathetic, more understanding and cognition. Two people have more topics and more chat content. Maybe there wouldn't be an affair.
In real life, many housewives finally divorced. In fact, to a large extent, in the long process of life, the husband is based on the social workplace and the wife is based on the family workplace. The wife does not care about her husband's work and social life, and the husband does not care about his wife's hard work at home.
Two people are on different tracks, without the same topic and spiritual communication. They didn't settle down to look at each other seriously, pay attention to each other, understand each other's work and life, and finally go further and further. There is a big ideological gap, so it is natural to divorce.
Around me, there is a woman named Xiao Lei. She works in a pharmacy, and her husband works in a factory workshop. Both of them are people who talk little, socialize little and have not many friends. Although life is not rich, life has always been dull and calm, which is considered stable.
After her mother-in-law died, they got a meager inheritance from her mother-in-law. The life of a family of three suddenly became rich.
In this case, the husband suddenly had friends. One of his classmates is "mixed" and does business in society. He comes to her husband every day to drink, sing and be brothers. It seems that friendship is very good.
Lei did not ask questions, nor did he inquire about the origin and motivation of this classmate, so that they could communicate eagerly.
It was not until more than a year later that someone took over their house. Only then did she know that her husband was with his classmates and was persuaded by them to do business with him with the 300,000 inheritance given by her mother-in-law. At the same time, their house was mortgaged to the loan intermediary, and the loan could not be repaid at maturity, so the loan intermediary had to take over the house.
It can be seen from this incident that Xiao Lei indulged her husband's freedom blindly. Xiao Lei pays no attention to the people her husband associates with or their motives. Finally, her husband secretly mortgaged the house behind her back, and the deposit was cheated to invest, and he lost all his money. He also borrowed money to repay the loan and redeemed the house.
It can be seen that two couples living together should pay attention to each other's work and life and take each other's hearts as partners. * * * Share bits and pieces of your life, * * * discuss with each other, * * * face your own problems and help each other, thus reducing risks and making life happier.
Care and companionship are not only manifested in life and work, but also in the mind. Only in this way can two people share weal and woe, but I feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn, and my soul mates will join hands to grow old.