After what my friend said, I wanted to go with her anyway, but I couldn't go because of something temporary. Without me, my friends have not lost interest. Look at the waves of videos, pictures and testimonials that she sent out in real time in her circle of friends, and you can know through the mobile phone screen that this jewelry exhibition has made her have a good time!
As soon as I got home at night, my friend sent a message to WeChat, regretting that I had "missed" this time. I asked with a smile: What's it like to look at such beautiful jewels and jade without even a chance to touch them? She asked: Why do you think so? Touching or not will not change the glittering, beautiful, moist, clear and transparent of these jewels, nor will it change their vivid and ingenious craftsmanship, nor will it affect my understanding and love of jewelry culture. Why do I have to touch them or simply buy them to be satisfied? You visited famous mountains and rivers and were infected by those magnificent natural landscapes. Must you find a way to move back home? If you like a beautiful woman or a handsome guy, do you have to marry back or marry him? If people who visit the Forbidden City hold such an idea, wouldn't it be depressing to go home empty-handed? If you can appreciate it, you have it. Why do you have to keep it for yourself?
A series of rhetorical questions from my friends made me unable to answer for a while, but I felt that I was much worse than others in the spiritual realm.
"What you can appreciate is what you have". In retrospect, it's really good for a friend to say this!
If you like a song, why bother to sing it at the top of your lungs many times, but you can't convey the charm of the song? Wouldn't it be better if you could calm down and listen to the original song?
If you like a painting, you don't have to spend a lot of money to keep it for yourself. In the exhibition room, you can always feel the beauty and enjoyment it brings you, not to mention that someone will always take care of it for you.
If you like the flowers on the branches, why do you have to believe that "if there are flowers, you should fold them straight, and don't wait until there are no flowers." Only by quietly observing the whole process of flowers blooming and falling can we live up to this gift of nature.
Like a person, you don't have to be a close friend or lover. As long as you understand and appreciate the flowers on the other side, you can still taste the refreshing fragrance. If you can appreciate it, you have it. Not only have, but also because of these beautiful existence and continuous efforts to complete personal transformation and growth, become a better self. This process is warm enough and beautiful enough to turn ordinary years into a series of shining days!