To what extent can "every generation of relatives" be exaggerated? Father has no choice but to complain: My son is richer than me when he is 4 years old! His parents have always been very harsh in Xiao Liu's mind, but after Xiao Liu's child was born, his parents' attitude has changed a lot. Xiao Liu's parents used to be very strict, but they are different in front of their grandchildren. Xiao Liu's parents became very amiable. No matter what children want, grandparents will satisfy their grandchildren's wishes. What children want to eat, even if they have to take a long bus to buy, grandparents are willing to take a long bus to buy for their grandchildren, which is obedience to their children. Grandma likes children better. She took the children shopping and bought them home without saying anything. Children like toys in other children's hands, and grandma will not hesitate to buy them home. It can be seen from these things that the children's grandparents love their grandchildren very much. On one occasion, Xiao Liu's parents' house was going to be demolished. Xiao Liu heard from his parents that he would leave all the money for demolition to his grandchildren, including some gold and silver jewelry given by his grandmother, so that they would not worry about not getting a wife in the future. After listening to his parents, Xiao Liu felt that he was not as rich as his son. Xiao Liu said, who is the son? I'm a little jealous. Old people should not spoil their children too much, which is not conducive to their growth. 1. Parents' education will become invalid. When children's parents educate their children, the elderly will be very distressed by their grandchildren and will intervene. Although this is a normal thing, the old people should also have a degree of love for their grandchildren, and they can't protect their children in everything. When old people take care of their children, they are often soft-hearted and unwilling to say that the children are wrong. In fact, this practice is very wrong and will make children feel that their parents are bad people.

In the real world, we will see that some children will be closer to their grandparents or grandparents, but they are strangers to their parents. Then the reason why parents are separated from each other is mainly because grandparents love their children more, and some parents will ignore their children because of their busy work.

First, one of the reasons for "separated parents" is that the elderly love their children more.

Grandparents or grandparents will be more patient with their children when they reach a certain age.

Some old people may have neglected to take care of their children because they were busy with their work before, and feel that they didn't give their children enough love, so they want to make up for this shortcoming in their generation, so the old people usually love the children of the next generation more.

Second, the second reason for "intergenerational parents" is that parents lack patience with their children.

Young parents don't have much patience with their children because they have a lot of pressure in life or work.

Some parents usually lose their temper when they are in a bad mood, so children will be afraid when they see their parents angry or impatient with them, so they will be unfamiliar with their parents and closer to their grandparents.

Some young people will give their children to the elderly because they have to work. The old man is responsible for the children's eating and drinking, and the children will naturally be closer to the old man.

Whoever is "good" to children will be closer to them.

Generally speaking, the next generation of old people are usually very kind to their children. As parents, they are strict with their children at ordinary times. They are not allowed to do this or that, which will make them bored, so children will kiss the next generation of old people.

It is necessary for parents who are separated to deal with all emotional needs in the family, but they should also be treated rationally and properly to facilitate the growth of their children.

In the predatory animal world, there is almost no such phenomenon in the upbringing of young children, at least within my knowledge. In this field, an important function of parenting is protection, and parents are powerful and can shoulder this function.

So it can almost be said that this is a unique phenomenon of human beings. In the past, people said that "every generation of relatives, flesh and blood are connected." Although grandparents and grandchildren are separated by a generation of blood, this does not hinder the intimate relationship between grandparents and grandchildren.

Many families will have similar situations, but the degree of intimacy is different, so tell me about the alienated relatives you have met. How close can they be?

Here, let me tell you a few interesting things first:

The first thing: grandparents at home love their grandchildren very much. Sometimes children do something wrong. As parents, we must educate them well. As a result, we didn't say a few words, and grandparents first stood up to defend the child and said, "The child is still young, so we should teach it slowly. What's wrong with you hitting them? " Originally, we wanted to educate our children ourselves, but we didn't expect to be educated first.

The second thing: Some grandparents love their grandchildren because they try their best to meet their grandchildren's requirements. As long as their children want something, they will try their best to fight for it. Especially when it comes to spending money on children, you may spend hundreds of dollars, but the money for grandchildren is thousands or even tens of thousands.

The third thing: every generation of parents is not only reflected in the children of grandparents, but also in the children of children, we can see the "differences between the two generations." Children are particularly clever and filial in front of grandparents. When you are with your parents, you are rebellious and naughty. It is obviously the parents' small cotton-padded jacket, but now it warms grandparents' knees.

The so-called estrangement between parents is not unreasonable. In many families, some children get along well with their grandparents, while others are unfamiliar. The generation of parental alienation lies in the two-way emotional feedback between children and grandparents in the final analysis. Children's minds are particularly simple. Whoever is kind to himself in the family is more willing to be close to him.