Confidence, for a person, is a "torch" that illuminates his progress. A person who has no confidence in himself will not be respected by others. Imagine, if a person has no confidence in himself, how can others expect more from you?
In ancient times, there was a monk who was very insecure and always felt stupid, so he was timid in everything he did. One day, the Zen master gave him a stone and told him to sell it in the vegetable market.
? This stone is not only big, but also beautiful in appearance. Before leaving, the Zen master said to him, "Remember, I just asked you to try to sell it, not really sell it. Learn to observe, ask more people, and then come back and tell me how much I can sell in the vegetable market. "
? In the vegetable market, many people thought after seeing this stone: you can buy it home for children to play with, you can buy home furnishings, and you can buy it home to study it carefully. So they bid one after another, but only for a few small coins. Later, the monk went back and told the Zen master, "Zen master, this stone is worthless, only worth a few pennies." After hearing this, the Zen master smiled and said, "Take this stone to the gold market tomorrow and ask the people there how much they are willing to give you." Of course, no matter how much they pay, you can't sell it. "
? When the students came back from the gold market, they were very excited and said to the Zen master, "It's incredible! Someone is willing to pay 2000 yuan for this stone! "
? After hearing this, the Zen master asked the monk to take the stone to the jewelry market to ask for the price. As a result, to the monk's surprise, someone was willing to pay 60 thousand yuan for this stone. When they saw that he refused to buy, they raised the price again and again. Even someone offered a high price of 6.5438 million yuan, and he insisted on not selling it. So someone got angry and said, "I'll pay 400 thousand." Are you selling it or not? Or you say a price, I am willing to buy! " Despite this, the monk still insisted on refusing to buy it. Finally, more and more people came to increase the price.
The monk came back from the jewelry market and said to the Zen master, "Those people seem crazy. They paid such a high price for this ordinary stone! "
The Zen master smiled, took back the monk's stone, and then said meaningfully, "What do you position yourself as, and what will be the result?" If you can't believe yourself, then your value will only be the same as the price of this stone in the vegetable market. "
In fact, this story tells us that as long as you are willing to believe in yourself, you will find your own strengths and specialties, find your own direction, and life will become more colorful. If the monk hadn't asked around and sold the stone at a low price in the vegetable market, it would always be just a stone.
So are we. If you just wait in the market like a stone, then you have no chance to shine. You should believe that you are a gem and enter the jewelry market, so that even if you are not a real gem, you will continue to hone in the environment and become a real gem. In fact, in the eyes of the world, your ability often comes from your own evaluation. You think you are a powerful giant, so you are inviolable in the eyes of others; If you feel weak, you can't blame the world for suppressing you.
? Li Yunlong, the hero of the TV series "Bright Sword", once said: "In the face of a powerful opponent, when you know that you are defeated, you must resolutely show your sword. Even if it falls, it will become a mountain and a ridge. " This is also a portrayal of the invincible and invincible life of General Chang Sheng, and it is also a sonorous discourse that inspires many people.
? In the TV series, Yamamoto led one of his troops to raid the command post in Li Yunlong. All the people in Zhaojiayu were killed, and even the political commissar Ye Zhao was injured. Faced with the ferocity of the enemy and all kinds of advanced weapons, Li Yunlong did not flinch at all. When he came to safety, he immediately ordered the battalions, companies and platoons to return to the team quickly and prepare to attack Pingan County. Finally, Yamamoto took Li Yunlong's new wife Xiuqin as a hostage. However, Li Yunlong resolutely put aside his love for children, captured the city gate with a gun, and finally captured Ping 'an County.
? Li Yunlong interpreted "firm but gentle" with his own practical actions. In the face of the enemy, he never flinched and fought bravely, and won victories again and again in this spirit.
? As pointed out by the blade, it is invincible. How energetic! Only the brave dare to say such decisive words and make such shocking moves in times of hardship and hardship. When we face difficulties directly, we should face them directly, and take strategies and tactics to fight them in time, break through obstacles, cross fetters and finally gain light.
? What about the road of life? Do we have such a sword spirit? Life is like a battlefield. Speaking of fighting, have you ever thought about running away from the cold and flinching?
? In fact, sometimes there is no road, but the road is right in front of you, but you just don't know how to go on. You often think that you have left something behind, but when you turn around, everything is empty, and only yourself is lost.
? The forefinger of this famous poet wrote this poem: "When the cobwebs mercilessly sealed my stove, when the smoke of ashes sighed the sorrow of poverty, I still stubbornly spread the ashes of disappointment and wrote with beautiful snowflakes: Believe in the future!" This tells us that no matter how difficult, desperate and helpless you are, as long as you have the will, fearless spirit and unremitting efforts, you will always believe in the future and you will eventually gain something.
? When encountering difficulties, we should never run away. What we need to do is to improve ourselves through calm analysis, face the difficulties directly and finally overcome them.
? We should know that difficulties exist objectively and are not transferred by human will. So, please believe in yourself and meet the challenge boldly.
? Believe in yourself, the world in your hand is created by yourself; Believe in yourself, you are the first after surpassing yourself. Any success requires hard work, and only hard work can win. When you are sweating, you must believe that you will win the final victory. Believe in yourself, this is the best comfort for yourself; Believe in yourself, this is the best reward for yourself.
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